2 Year Situationship With 6ft8 Chad?! | Dating Talk #63

Date: 2023-03-15
Duration: 3h 47m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01TTS/Clip(audience)
SPEAKER_02Reese (DT63)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Alexa (DT63)(guest)
SPEAKER_04Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_05Rico (DT63)(guest)
SPEAKER_06Ella (DT63)(guest)
SPEAKER_07Susan (DT63)(guest)
SPEAKER_08Lindsay (DT63)(guest)
SPEAKER_09Karina (DT63)(guest)
SPEAKER_10Kayla (DT63)(guest)
SPEAKER_11Haley (DT63)(guest)

Key Moments

00:03:31
IntroAlexa introduces herself as a Twitch streamer and OnlyFans agency manager at "Chic"

my name's Alexa I'm 27. I'm a Noob twitch streamer and then primarily I am a manager for models and a creative director at only fans agency called chic

00:08:35
RelationshipKarina reveals she is in a serious 2-year situationship and "in love" but won't be in a relationship until married

I'm in a really serious situationship right now it's been going for like two years so I'm in love but I'm also not really in a relationship until I'm married

00:12:03
QuoteKayla discloses her "pimp" relationship when Brian asks about her child's father

not just like my pimp he was your pimp yeah yeah

00:43:00
Key MomentAlexa describes her situationship with a 6'8" former basketball player in detail: sees each other almost daily, exclusive from her side, open to him seeing others

so you've been in the two-year situationship yeah but I'm just the type... we talk every day or see each other every day... probably like neighbors basically

00:46:00
Key MomentRico confirms Alexa's partner is 6'8" and an athlete, contextualizing the episode title

exhibit a Chad tall uh yeah Chad tall good looking... he's six eight

01:38:20
QuoteKayla (Anola Blaze) says her original pimp took all her money, gave her $60 pocket money; he eventually became extremely abusive

I gave him uh like all my money and he would give me like a little bit back like he would give me like maybe like 60 dollars for like pocket money

02:37:30
QuoteBrian says he has never spent more than $100 total on a woman; splits the check on most dates

most money I've ever spent on a girl... maybe no more than a hundred

02:58:36
OtherPew Research chart shown: 63% of men aged 18-29 report being single vs. 34% of women same age range

for men 63 percent of men between the ages of 18 to 29 report being single however for women between the ages of 18 to 29 34 of them report being single

03:00:00
QuoteSusan rates herself a 10 but refuses to elaborate, causing laughter from the panel

I 10 just say it no no seriously I wake up and I'm like what the [__] girl

03:14:00
AudienceBrian reads Frankie K superchat about oxytocin receptor desensitization from high body count as rationale for why body count matters

men are more concerned that your oxytocin receptors have become so desensitized that you can't effectively pair bond

03:21:00
QuoteKayla discloses body count "up to ~100" in the context of sex work (one client at a time, not many new partners daily)

if I'm gonna say highest 100. okay

03:21:30
QuoteRico discloses body count in "the hundreds" possibly ~200-300, citing sex parties and having girlfriends since age 13

I do not know uh hundreds I've been having sex since they're longer than I haven't been having sex

03:38:30
Key MomentPanel watches Patrice O'Neal clip asking how a woman would keep her man without a vagina; guests answer with oral sex

if you didn't have a vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right... how would you keep your man

03:44:50
QuoteAlexa closes episode with LGBTQ+ advocacy statement before cameras stop

lgbtq plus okay say it to this... lgbtq rights matter trans rights matter all love to everybody no judgment anywhere sex work is valid boom

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Guest introductions and relationship status round

All 9 guests introduce themselves with name, age, occupation. Relationship status round: Alexa in 2-year situationship, Karina in serious 2-year situationship, Susan single (no committed relationship), Ella single (never had relationship, longest talking stage ~1 week), Reese single (ended 6-month LDR Jan 2023), Kayla single/single mom, Lindsay single, Haley in 4-year relationship (only BF), Rico dating 2+ women simultaneously.

00:12:00
Kayla's sex work background and pimp relationship

Kayla (Anola Blaze) discloses she started sex work at 18, had multiple pimps. Primary pimp was a 3-4 year relationship (she gave him all her money; he became abusive). Has a daughter. Brian draws comparison to Soft White Underbelly.

00:19:00
Fatherless homes, discipline, and organized sports as predictors of relationship quality

Rico argues women without organized sports backgrounds or paternal influence make poor partners. Alexa and others debate causation vs. correlation. Superchat about 85% of youth in prison from fatherless homes read aloud; debated at length. Discussion of whether single mothers can discipline effectively.

00:43:00
Alexa's 2-year situationship with 6'8" Chad basketball player

Alexa discusses her 2-year on-and-off situationship with a 6'8" former overseas basketball player aged ~32. They see each other almost daily, talk every day, live nearby. She is exclusive to him but he may see other women. She is demisexual. Brian presses whether this is really a relationship. She says she would be open to more with him in the future if timing aligns.

01:04:00
Age gap relationships and women's prime

Rico says he plans to date younger women (20s) when older (40s). Lindsay and others discuss why women age-gap relationships happen: security/father figure dynamic. Karina describes dating a 42yo man at ~18-20. Debate about whether young women or older women make better partners.

01:19:00
Masculinity and femininity in modern society; men becoming feminized

Susan and Lindsay discuss the erosion of masculinity in modern culture (media, social media, soy/estrogen in food, feminism). Agreement that strong masculine and feminine roles are healthy. Rico argues women who haven't played organized sports or had fathers make worse partners.

01:21:00
Feminism debate: definition, equality vs. advocacy, historical context

Brian argues feminism is a women's advocacy movement, not true equality, because feminists don't pursue equality when it disadvantages women (e.g., military draft). Reese defends classic definition as equality of genders. Alexa and Haley discuss how modern feminism has gone beyond its original goals. Extended discussion of feminism's roots including racist suffragette history.

01:27:00
Women's safety, sexual assault, and men as protectors

Reese raises women's safety as a women's issue. Brian counters that men are statistically more likely to be victims of violent crime. Alexa argues strong men are the solution to protecting women from sexual assault. Discussion of violence stats and who perpetrates vs. suffers.

02:34:00
Dating economics: should men pay on dates?

Brian says he splits the check on most dates; has treated girlfriends to Hibachi. He argues low ROI of paying given most first dates don't lead anywhere. Discussion of traditional vs. modern expectations. Brian would pay for trip if girlfriend were traditional/feminine.

02:55:00
Self-ratings round

Guests rate their own looks 1-10. Karina: 7.5-8 (SB 8, LA 7). Reese: ~8. Kayla: 8 (6 without makeup, 7.5 with). Rico: 5 (objectively average). Brian: 8.5. Susan: 10 (would not elaborate). Alexa: 6.5-7.5 depending on type.

03:14:00
Body count discussion: should it matter?

Extended panel debate on whether body count should matter in relationships. Rico discloses ~200-300. Kayla discloses up to ~100 (from sex work context). Alexa body count under 10. Karina declines; Lindsay declines. Susan refuses (declined). Brian jokes "73" for Karina. Frankie K superchat on oxytocin receptor desensitization from high body count read aloud. Brian argues body count is a valid preference for men seeking long-term partners.

03:17:00
Promiscuous women as mothers debate

Rico argues if you don't care what goes in, you won't care what comes out. Alexa strongly disagrees, arguing people can grow and change. Discussion of whether past promiscuity predicts poor motherhood.

03:32:00
Pew Research data: 63% of men 18-29 are single vs. 34% of women

Brian screens Pew Research chart showing significantly more young men are single than women (63% vs. 34% ages 18-29). Panel discusses causes: women dating older men, top-tier men monopolizing options, women miscounting their relationship status. Karina suggests some women think they're in relationships that men don't consider real.

03:38:30
Patrice O'Neal clip: "if you didn't have a vagina, how would you keep your man?"

Panel watches Patrice O'Neal clip asking women how they'd keep a man if they lost their vagina. Guests answer: oral sex. Patrice's point that women classified themselves as "a series of holes." Alexa responds with "make better sandwiches." Panel discusses whether sex is spiritual/significant.

Transcript

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01:55:18
Alexa (DT63)and men are conditioned differently women are raised to be communal men are raised in a hierarchy and that conditions how we communicate yeah totally so but to piggyback off what you said you want you said you want your
01:55:31
Rico (DT63)I saw a general statement a general statement women in general want men to do things without having to tell right so I'm just saying that's why women are awful disciplinarians hold on just a
01:55:42
TTS Readersecond guys 100 because you don't just say what's wrong there is a reason why most cultures and religions throughout history had to keep female nature and check via laws or
01:55:53
Alexa (DT63)theological Doctrine women don't operate in logic they operate in Emotion repeal the 19th Amendment repeal the 19th Amendment say one thing I won't go
01:56:04
Alexa (DT63)further anger is an emotion men just process through their emotions through anger so yes women are emotional but so are men right lovely yo 10 out of 10
01:56:16
Brian Atlasthank you for the big 200 streamlabs donation man thank you okay um what were you guys talking about [ __ ] so you want a guy to open your door
01:56:27
Reese (DT63)your car door and if he doesn't that's like a deal breaker Force yeah for me that isn't open the door for you that's like
01:56:36
Susan (DT63)a deal breaker I think consistency for me like if you're gonna open doors always open the door don't just do it
01:56:45
Kayla (DT63)once for first impression that's inconsistent okay like I don't like that like in general it's like a first impression
01:56:57
Kayla (DT63)if I'm with a man like if I'm like say he wanted to take me on a date or I'm just hanging out with the dude and we go somewhere and like somebody has to open my door I am not going to walk through the door until he opens it I will stand
01:57:09
Alexa (DT63)there and wait and look at him like are you gonna open the door but it's like if you want us to be feminine stand in your masculinity like lead absolutely absolutely there
01:57:21
Lindsay (DT63)you go you know you want a woman to be submissive and quiet and agreeable but then you also wanted to pay half the check so we need to come to a common ground where it's like okay you know what men are gonna be feminine and women are going to be masculine or we take the
01:57:33
Lindsay (DT63)step the other way as a man I'm gonna be manly I'm going to do the man thing to do and I expect my woman to you know follow behind et cetera et cetera I agree and I think
01:57:45
Rico (DT63)absolutely agreements yes I agree I agree yes this is weird no I disagree you know women can pay for their own
01:57:57
Karina (DT63)food and they can open their own doors oh yeah when I'm not with you
01:58:05
Karina (DT63)am I giving you my body am I like if if we're friends and we're going out hell yeah we're splitting the bill if we're going out as a group I hope to split the bill as well but if
01:58:16
Karina (DT63)you're courting me um to have further relations with me going back to procreating potentially procreating with me like that's just like one step is like paying the bill maybe not every single time but the
01:58:28
Brian Atlasfirst like three to five times at least you mean three to five three to five dates well okay so I mean I the thing is that I would say if on a
01:58:40
Lindsay (DT63)balance of probabilities if you look at most women most women themselves are not moving in a traditional way correct so job-wise so then don't do most women this is what I was saying the last time I was on you know you're saying well
01:58:53
Lindsay (DT63)most women are sleeping with other men most women are doing this yeah that's why I'm dating most women in the world just pick better women you've already said you're on dating apps why are you on dating apps if you're so against dating apps
01:59:04
Brian Atlasto recruit I it's the reverse Finance misleading women on on dating apps do it for attention they have no intention of actually going on dates they put their Instagram in the thing they put their
01:59:15
Brian Atlasvenmo they put their cash up they put their only fans link I'm like the soul Guy the one guy out of the millions who's doing the reverse finesse no so whatever you're smart and that's not a reverse finesse you're just that's equal rights I have a question
01:59:31
Haley (DT63)so what's up no I will not pay for the first date I'm actually don't care about that I I pay for my own food okay yeah anyways um
01:59:42
Haley (DT63)so just using context clues not assuming anything context clip you seem to have been with many women correct me if I'm wrong more than like
01:59:52
Haley (DT63)he's like yeah 20. like right listen I'm a man of God okay okay I'm just asking something so you women should be innocent
02:00:04
Haley (DT63)should have a low body count Etc but then why are you but you're the one benefiting from women's promiscuity on these apps he well he already said he doesn't use
02:00:17
Haley (DT63)the apps to hook up but I'm just saying if you have if you're going out with all these girls you're the one benefiting from women's promiscuity the very thing you're preaching against so that's where I kind of get a little confused why I'm not I'm not in favor of promiscuity for men or women I do acknowledge though
02:00:29
Brian Atlasthat there is a bit of a difference when it comes to body count but I don't consider myself particularly promiscuous like if I don't I don't I don't drink I don't go to bars I don't go to the clubs I don't go to the parties I'm not interested in one night stands if a
02:00:41
Brian Atlasgirl's visiting Santa Barbara if she's a tourist and she wants to hook up I'll actually say I'm not interested oh good for you um a one-time thing doesn't interest me if I want to have sex with a girl I want there to be a continuity uh so like I'm not trying to run through
02:00:54
Brian AtlasI'm not trying to [ __ ] like three new chicks a week I'm not trying to do that never was my interest if I wanted and decided that I want to sleep with a girl I want there to be a continuity I want to continue seeing her sometimes that
02:01:06
Brian Atlasleads into a relationship maybe it's a couple months maybe it's a couple weeks maybe that's on her end I've hooked up with girls and they just want something casual and I didn't know and then it was one or two times and that was it correct
02:01:18
Brian Atlasme if this is if I'm wrong but it seems you you date for marriage no that is that I don't want to get married Michael Nelson didn't change your mind uh should I do a proposal chat should I
02:01:31
Brian Atlaspropose to someone on this panel um how old are you you don't want to get 33 Okay I didn't even talk to women you can have a partner you can have a girlfriend feels like the legal aspects
02:01:42
Brian Atlasyeah I've heard legal aspects yeah but I mean not it just stands for your original question I I not I wouldn't not consider myself promiscuous
02:01:53
Brian Atlasokay I tend to I don't have a roster I don't have time for it because honestly any guy who's on his purpose who's working hard frankly just from a pure time perspective will not have time to
02:02:04
Haley (DT63)be [ __ ] multiple chicks that's true like if you're actually hustling you do not have time to because you're working your work is your relationship where I have a problem is where men are out here saying women need to be innocent but they're the ones benefiting off the
02:02:17
Rico (DT63)promiscued I know I Now understand that men and women want different things but but so we live in a world now where where a lot of the women have sex
02:02:30
Rico (DT63)like easier and more than men I agree so if that happens you can't if there's a dude and he's only had sex with four
02:02:40
Rico (DT63)four girls and he meets a a girl that's had sex with 20 dudes he's gonna be at a disadvantage in his like just in his mind like
02:02:52
Rico (DT63)do you think that's a little emasculating yeah cool like lack of experience yeah like yeah the lack you can't you can't be less experienced than your apartment would you use the word
02:03:02
Lindsay (DT63)insecure in this instance no no no you it just I don't think it's insecure to not want to date the Town Bicycle no no I do too but I was just trying to make a point
02:03:13
Lindsay (DT63)which I think that you were just using no no this was just that last podcast I used the word insecure and I got freaking jumped on by Brian and you know that's what you're alluding to and
02:03:26
Lindsay (DT63)I did not mean it in a negative sense I just think that if you know you're a man with a woman who's been with a lot of people insecurity is just a human emotion that everyone feels it's it's a
02:03:37
Lindsay (DT63)fact you know you might feel insecure and that's you know not a bad thing I think it's just a fact so I was wondering would you use the word insecure in that instance if you were a man with a lower body count than
02:03:49
Brian AtlasI don't know I've never been there I am insecure about getting herpes I admit it I'm insecure about not wanting to get an STD I'm insecure about that
02:04:00
Brian Atlashold on I'm insecure about there being a risk of higher divorce because she's had 10 20 30 40 Partners but before me I I'm uh insecure about her potentially
02:04:12
Brian Atlasum having a greater likelihood of relationship dissatisfaction because she's had so many previous Partners I'm insecure because she's probably fried her brain and she's no longer able to pair bond after having 50 previous sexual parts I totally agree I'm
02:04:25
Brian Atlasinsecure about all these things I I admit it innocence woman is a virtue and I totally agree with you based so Ella you have game Eric pull up her Instagram not her profile
02:04:39
Brian Atlaswe're gonna play a game do you have your phone on you oh damn yeah okay so we're gonna pretend like we are on a dating app or you've just slid into my DMs so you have game you're going to
02:04:50
Brian Atlasyou're gonna game me you're gonna show the Riz um I only game women oh are you uh you're gay yes oh okay not bi
02:05:02
Brian Atlasum are you bi I wouldn't say buy I'm not really sure but I do generally when you say you only game women you don't pursue men but you do pursue women but I generally prefer I'm generally more attracted to women so those are
02:05:14
Brian Atlasgenerally people that I want Rhys do you have the Riz oh boy maybe okay let's try maybe let's try sure pull up her Instagram oh boy uh pull us a
02:05:25
Brian Atlaschat on it if you know how to do that let me know when you have it not sure I mean it should be one of the recent ones it's called uh we see Reese with the sunglasses yeah
02:05:37
Reese (DT63)for this I don't have the most extensive feed do you have your phone on you yeah I do okay pull up pull up our conversation okay
02:05:50
Brian Atlasputting me on the spot you got it do you have it Eric okay pull it up just pull it up oh what the [ __ ] this is
02:06:03
Brian Atlaswait oh [ __ ] no that's the right one but it's not refreshing oh I don't know why that's can you scroll down Eric
02:06:13
Reese (DT63)uh can you refresh here hide it and then refresh we're going to play again oh boy you're gonna game me oh God
02:06:26
Reese (DT63)oh my goodness I don't know that was like some dragons no though I don't know that came deep from my chest my bad it's the race
02:06:36
Lindsay (DT63)I'm warming up here okay oh my God can we all okay realistically if a girl is doing this she has a couple friends she's like testing it with so
02:06:47
Alexa (DT63)give her some give her some insight pathetic what okay good question while we wait what to you is good game from a guy's perspective because we hero oh I would
02:06:58
Reese (DT63)actually love to know that can you type something just say test men think they have game actually I would love to know what do you mean
02:07:08
Alexa (DT63)what's the question like what to you is game from a men's perspective like oh I got game like how do you approach a woman I'm great now I'm getting called phlegm girl yeah like what do the men do
02:07:20
Alexa (DT63)because like we're gonna go on the women's
02:07:25
Alexa (DT63)while we wait I'd love to hear what's that I said what to you is good game on a guy's perspective like how would you approach a woman while we wait because we're gonna have her do the woman's side how
02:07:37
Rico (DT63)would a guy approach a woman yeah like yeah because we have a lot of samples well I would say that one of the being outcome independent meaning like it doesn't matter what happens I'm just talking to
02:07:49
Reese (DT63)you like I don't okay take it or leave it I agree so wait you never answer the question like what are you like what do you consider a game from women like what is like a big green flag and be like oh like games from women yeah like well
02:08:02
Brian Atlaswhat living here living in reality women that live in reality right so pretend not delusional here's the scenario we've either just matched on Christian Mingle
02:08:21
Karina (DT63)oh my God okay um run your game can she phone a friend if she needs something nope
02:08:31
Reese (DT63)can I get a minute to think come on babe first first words oh my goodness we gotta go back and forth I can actually start with high with okay I guess we're starting with high with two eyes it's like the most basic start ever
02:08:43
Reese (DT63)wow you've already failed I know I've already failed that's the bubble style usually it would be easier if this was an actual person and I could like go walk okay here here the vibe I get from
02:08:55
Reese (DT63)their feet okay go I just that's all I did most girls would not even do this hi cutie I don't know how to actually put on the
02:09:06
Lindsay (DT63)spot you're making this feeling so you're I guess you're playing the dude and I'm playing the chick you're playing I'm playing the dude is it like fair to say that this is like this wheel weird alternate reality that I
02:09:19
Lindsay (DT63)I literally never said yes to a date through like Instagram DM if someone's hitting on me it's probably it's not about you don't worry about it go ahead Reese see all I can think about right now is
02:09:31
Reese (DT63)the Bots that request me of my Instagram DMS asking me to paint me like as a mural or like being my sugar baby that's the only like game I can think of if this was a conversation in person you've basically been standing here looking at
02:09:43
Brian Atlasme for a minute uncomfortably imagine you're approaching me in person so I need like quick quick oh my God I don't know you might have to pick someone else we match it on the dating app dating app s
02:09:58
Karina (DT63)I'm that friend you phone just so you know
02:10:08
Alexa (DT63)are the bubbles up probably I'm I'm typing I'm thinking you got it you're representing all of us do I have like a fail noise
02:10:17
Alexa (DT63)[Laughter] can I do it
02:10:25
Reese (DT63)I'm not impressed by your performance [Laughter] oh boy um I can already tell that I don't like you
02:10:41
Reese (DT63)um I would just send a gif at this point if you don't know I might have to give up I'm so sorry to have wasted your time who's next or she could she could have responded to a story right but come on
02:10:52
Brian Atlassend a thirst trap girl just like something sexy I don't know you could send a dick pic
02:11:04
Reese (DT63)okay are there any women here who would actually be very interested in receiving a dick pic from a random person because I'm not one of those girls yeah you know what I'd be down to receive [ __ ] pic
02:11:32
Alexa (DT63)and then it's like but that's not the girl you want to date so what do you want are we hiding it okay with the sliding into the DMS is she trying to [ __ ] or is she trying to like date you like relationship because that's two different things like two two different things
02:11:48
Lindsay (DT63)every girl I've ever dated I've had sex with on the first date well maybe that's why you haven't wiped any of them up yet oh I have that's true like you're not like married to anyone it's okay Rhys
02:12:03
Lindsay (DT63)yeah I'm sorry it's too late Reece I think I think I missed my opportunity yeah just you can I just have to delete my entire account
02:12:16
Brian Atlashow's your day oh here we go how's it hanging no I he's already removed it from this are you typing stuff yeah okay Eric pull it back up all right we'll give her a second shot why don't you guys like imitate a phone
02:12:27
Karina (DT63)that's like the best I got it how's your day I'm not either I don't know are you selling it are you celibate or are you selling it
02:12:39
Brian Atlashoney yo I want to ask the ladies really quick if a guy said this to you OfferUp how do you how do you answer you don't
02:12:50
Reese (DT63)know if we'd love to take you out to dinner oh then I'd be like I'm interested but then if he would just you know send me a dick
02:13:02
Alexa (DT63)pic then he's getting blocked it just depends where he's going yeah yeah it's a little early on to decide [ __ ] pics are cool though [ __ ] picture okay honestly like let's keep it a whole stack you're gonna look at his profile and you're gonna make a snap judgment
02:13:15
Alexa (DT63)and if you feel like you're attracted to them then you're gonna respond if you're not attracted to them you're not gonna respond because you can't get a good impression it's the same with dating apps you swipe left or right and it you can't get a good impression of a real
02:13:27
Brian Atlaswhole person off of like one message but like you're more inclined to respond if you're attracted okay so this brings me let me do one Super Chat and this will bring me to my next point so first let me just get this uh did I or did I read
02:13:39
Brian Atlasthis one no thank you for the uh 100 I believe British pounds yeah yo feminism is white supremacy for women white women rarely stand up for women of color first wave
02:13:50
Brian Atlasfeminism was only formed because white women don't want black men to get voting rights before them are these women more oppressed than say Native American men or black men
02:14:00
Brian Atlaswhite women no no white women are negative for at least thank you L L emirati I think that was your first Superman I appreciate it man thank you
02:14:09
TTS Readeruh we also have one I believe here or wait no we don't did we do wait this one came through as a TTS right oh whoops 10 out of 10.
02:14:21
TTS Reader199. I triggered it again watching modern women proves that hold on yeah oops didn't mean to trigger that again my bad okay so the question is
02:14:34
Brian AtlasI'm gonna wait for Sandy here to come back uh oh yo Frankie K good to see you man by the way oh just a reminder for anyone who's uh kind of tuning in we've we bumped up
02:14:44
Brian Atlasthe uh TTS trigger and the read trigger so read is 100 TTS is 200. um Sandy is puffing on her Vape
02:14:55
Brian AtlasSandy aren't you a nurse Sandy wait what the Sarah Susan Susan I'm sorry I'm sorry I'll pay for I'll I'll pay for your
02:15:06
Susan (DT63)McDonald's on the okay to make up for it um you you're a nurse and you you vape I have no game oh um I do yeah yeah I do I
02:15:17
Susan (DT63)smoke cigarettes I quit you used to I'm human like if you stab me I will bleed okay oh thank you for yes explaining yes Reese are you still
02:15:30
Reese (DT63)trying to game me up or what's up no I'm watching there's this influx of Instagram DMS yeah it's coming towards me now asking to work on my game oh [ __ ] yeah people want me to practice
02:15:42
Reese (DT63)my game with them which I honestly could do but to be fair like game in person is a lot different than like okay yeah tell you what oh I already failed the first time you
02:15:53
Brian Atlaswant me to embarrass myself again this should be waiting oh God okay um oh God all right so me here I'm I'm a girl
02:16:03
Brian Atlasyou're a guy oh Brianna I'm here with requina yeah okay by the way we remind me that we need to talk about the pimp stuff for mine for sure okay
02:16:16
Brian Atlasum so go ahead
02:16:23
Brian Atlasyes where are we oh my God we're at a party usually these interactions happen at parties Okay so
02:16:34
Brian Atlasoh yeah like uh yeah the DJ's so good yeah oh my tick tocks oh my gosh oh super cute I love your shoes thank you
02:16:43
Reese (DT63)oh my God yeah I just got my nails done Red Flannel what the hell hi girl he's talking to you hi I was just wondering if it was okay if I talked to you I saw you from across the
02:16:55
Reese (DT63)room and I just couldn't stop looking at you would you like to tell me your name Brianna
02:17:05
Reese (DT63)pretend like I'm kissing the top of your hand oh so nice to meet you Brianna I'm Chad uh hi Chad you're Chad so you come around here a lot or
02:17:18
Reese (DT63)I go to school here you go to school here you go to school here yeah oh so you're smart then I'm a com major you're a calm major so you're good at communicating isn't that what oh man I guess
02:17:30
Reese (DT63)all right sorry one more time I just I guess I you know I like to talk to my girlfriends about
02:17:40
Reese (DT63)someone seems a little flustered excuse me I said someone seems a little flustered no I just think you're weird oh that seems like it'd be the end of the
02:17:50
Lindsay (DT63)conversation then uh we have to go to the bathroom yeah I'll see you later um very well and I thank you that would
02:18:01
Alexa (DT63)trade women a little unfairly to be I'm not used to do I think in this situation a little bit more than that no no I'm not gonna lie I could not do what men do
02:18:12
Alexa (DT63)at all it takes a lot of courage to walk up to a woman just start a conversation and like I mean like you said the way you go about it is just like talking to them with no like outcome in mind and
02:18:24
Lindsay (DT63)just talking to them like a person and like it takes yeah that's so scary that's so scary you get ridiculous rejection therapy is something that
02:18:37
Brian Atlaseveryone should focus I thought I thought you went to the bathroom I thought this conversation was over 100 days you go and ask a stranger again I'll be more favorable okay but just
02:18:48
Brian Atlasjust to be clear like women will blank dudes like that when that's true women will blank like one word answers then why do you want to pursue the next one that has a woman's woman's giving a blank answer they probably don't want to be talking
02:19:01
Reese (DT63)to you so this would be a lot easier if you're giving me something to work with here but there are some ways to kiss his hand though I did kiss your hands
02:19:10
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02:19:17
Reese (DT63)I don't know okay once more I'll be more favorable oh boy oh all right
02:19:27
Brian AtlasI feel like I already used my all right let's go back to the conversation yeah I feel like we're done with the role playing I'm sorry an attempt Okay so kind of related to that do women agree
02:19:40
Brian Atlasor disagree with the following statement women have dating on easy mode what does that mean Brian women have dating on easy mode agree or disagree that we don't like have to do
02:19:52
Alexa (DT63)as much to get like like coordinating or during dating or after dating like I mean it's kind of just general question I would say too General to answer General yeah
02:20:03
Alexa (DT63)because does that make it easier no before yeah during or after I agree agree do women have dating easier than men yes
02:20:14
Alexa (DT63)absolutely you get like there are downsides to being a woman for sure and being in that atmosphere but like you should be in my opinion you should be a
02:20:25
Alexa (DT63)little bit corded and um you get approached men have to really work and like they have to be um like reach a certain status themselves and like have a certain like
02:20:37
Alexa (DT63)you know most women will like reject them if like they don't have a good job or like they don't look a certain way or like they're not tall enough and whatever women you just have to be a woman and like somebody is going to find
02:20:49
Alexa (DT63)you attractive and you're the one getting approached 99 of the time and if you were to go and approach a man you're most likely going to get some type of Interest yeah
02:21:01
Karina (DT63)there's this interesting what's On Your Side [ __ ] How does it go um
02:21:15
Karina (DT63)um
02:21:18
Susan (DT63)come back to me do you want to tell us something come back to me what okay do men or women have dating easier
02:21:25
Susan (DT63)it depends on who you talk to I find it hard I hard filter before like if I see like a gym pick I'm
02:21:36
Susan (DT63)probably gonna be like no because that's like I am into fitness obviously it doesn't look like I work out right now because I haven't but I can't do a gym
02:21:46
Susan (DT63)rat I'm sorry that's just my personal preference I'm not a huge muscle get off your back page thing whatever um I asked you to skip me so I could look up something really really cool oh
02:21:58
Susan (DT63)you're looking something yeah I'm related I'm sorry yeah I mean I I just go through a filtering process tell us your standards why don't you start off there how tall are you how tall are you
02:22:09
Susan (DT63)I'm five five minimum height for the guy um I prefer
02:22:17
Susan (DT63)caller like weight like six three um I mean the thing is that's not really
02:22:26
Susan (DT63)I don't really go for appearance first thing you don't no you sure huh yeah
02:22:33
Susan (DT63)yeah okay no seriously I don't I'm sorry I'm not Shallow Hal like what's your type
02:22:45
Brian Atlasif you just had to fire off like a couple physical trades personality traits what's your type well my type is someone that has their stuff together now into the mic Closer
02:22:57
Susan (DT63)Closer someone that has their life together right because that's just at my phase right now but you're a nurse right how much do you
02:23:07
Susan (DT63)make I I don't know a year I don't know six figures though I have no idea oh I have no idea you make six figures We're not gonna talk expenses but um do you feel that you're compensated properly
02:23:20
Lindsay (DT63)for what you do yes because I love what I do yeah so does that mean you're okay with settling for less money I think that nurses are literally underpaid so I'm just sure are
02:23:31
Susan (DT63)you not saying pretty well I think yeah nurses are are compensated pretty well okay so you're on the high end of this I'm pretty I mean I can't complain I love my career so I didn't make a bad
02:23:43
Susan (DT63)joke did you make a bunch of money in Dogecoin too I lost money in Dogecoin so I'm not good with the crypto and then I had Voyager which belly upped so fit
02:23:55
Karina (DT63)check by the way did you think I was looking up someone on Backpages or I was on my back pages do you actually have Backpage I don't it's another thing for prostitution yeah that's like uh they got rid of it oh that's no they still
02:24:07
Karina (DT63)have it back page yes I've seen Vans like outside of most like oh yeah like Runyan Canyon in Hollywood yeah yeah they have like vans that have um whatever okay so you want a higher does he have to make as much as you or more I
02:24:20
Susan (DT63)would prefer someone that makes more because I I like to be like wind and die like do I did like a princess I don't drink actually I like I
02:24:30
Susan (DT63)I like being treated like a princess I want to make my own money but I want you to be able to take me out wait so but do you make six figures
02:24:40
Susan (DT63)I don't know I don't question I'm a new nurse oh you I I don't have enough of this closer to the mic I don't have enough of like
02:24:50
Susan (DT63)time yeah I'm still I'm still a new like just well nurses make good money but um I'm comfortable but I would like to have your own place huh you have your own
02:25:01
Susan (DT63)place no certainly like do you live with your parents no certain certain things just yeah um I would like a little bit more because I'm not the type of person that
02:25:12
Susan (DT63)likes to stay stagnant like oh you're traveling are you a travel nurse I'm not a travel nurse but I'm constantly trying to like evolve and do different things
02:25:22
Susan (DT63)wait so you're a princess yes your princess and you've never so I make I have to make enough money to spoil myself and my dog
02:25:32
Susan (DT63)and then you know that that's that's number one right and then bills and Etc okay
02:25:39
Brian Atlasso Reese get off your phone sorry okay so you're a princess yeah
02:25:51
Susan (DT63)but I I like hustling too working but I have to love where I work and what I do and luckily I've been able to find that
02:26:03
Susan (DT63)um but I'd like being able to do different things you know and kind of grow as a person like I want to be a business owner have you ever paid
02:26:14
Susan (DT63)for a guy on a date ever um yeah I mean I I don't mind spending money on people but I will friend zone them because I want my man to take care of me
02:26:26
Brian Atlasthat's just my preference you know I will just friend zone you which is totally fine but have you ever paid for a guy on a date with the interest of continuing the relationship
02:26:38
Susan (DT63)like if they were to ask me on a date and would I pay whatever the scenario is have you ever paid for a guy on the day first date and wanted to continue seeing him no but like if I were to have a boyfriend I
02:26:50
Susan (DT63)would spoil them like I will buy things for them but no I don't I don't think that I've ever gone on a date where I've had to go
02:27:00
Susan (DT63)dutch I'll P or I'll pray for myself if I already am not interested in you I will Fork out my money and go so it's like I don't feel bad that I'm not everything good Reese uh yeah I think so
02:27:13
Brian Atlasoh okay I don't know where your friend is you're still here she went out the door door I think
02:27:24
Brian Atlasokay I think that's a just going to try and look for her what the [ __ ] that's rude hello is that is it a Frank Castle self Castle
02:27:34
Lindsay (DT63)I'm just I'm just I'm just gonna go and try and look for her let's just let that dude I don't know if they're coming back that's [ __ ] weird I think that you have a great point I think that I want to um make enough
02:27:47
Lindsay (DT63)money to where I will take the man that I'm with um and I think that I want to be with a man that spoils me and more so I I think it's a mutual thing again I love to work so I hope that I'll always have a job I
02:28:00
Lindsay (DT63)want to be a business owner I want to you know have passive income so either way I I do want to be contributing to our household um but yeah I I want a man that makes
02:28:11
Karina (DT63)somebody somebody said in the comments um her money is her money and his money is our money and honestly like I don't mean it like in a money-sucking way like yeah give me all your money but it's
02:28:22
Karina (DT63)that's the mentality I'm looking for in a man yeah that's and going back to we were mentioning about like multiple wives Islam culture like that's that's the premise it doesn't work like that no no it is the basis of that absolutely it
02:28:34
Lindsay (DT63)is that's why they have multiple wives and stuff so oh okay I see what you're saying I see what you're saying the way that the way that I was like looking at it when I say like the man says like this is our money you know unless he's
02:28:46
Lindsay (DT63)like unfathomably wealthy then he probably can't be providing for several women at a time like gosh our generation is never going to be able to buy a house so how do we expect a man to like
02:28:59
Karina (DT63)pay for I hope so I'm not you're gonna have two houses I I hope so in Fantasyland right me and him are gonna have him and I us
02:29:15
Karina (DT63)um can I ever let a woman pay on a date can I ask her a little woman absolutely did you say you did uh corn yeah so you never did like girl on girl scenes No okay
02:29:26
Kayla (DT63)um let's talk about pimping oh okay oh can we finish that just real quick I would love to talk to go back to like when you asked me if I supported the LGBT um
02:29:37
Kayla (DT63)that's something I have struggled with myself is my sexuality and that's something that I have I had to like really dig deep on like my childhood trauma and everything like that and that's still something that I
02:29:49
Kayla (DT63)um that I struggle with today is like getting out of my masculine form is like when I feel like I want a woman and
02:29:59
Karina (DT63)that's something that I deal with today still so are you saying you would want women no no I know you didn't know no no that's fine but when you see women together or men together I don't I'm no
02:30:12
Kayla (DT63)I don't like make it a problem or anything I respect everybody what they want to do like um okay mainly for lesbians and gays but like the whole transgender thing and
02:30:22
Brian Atlaseverything like that like that's where it gets a little crazy overboard for me okay let's talk about your pimp okay so you had a pimp you used to do sex work
02:30:32
Brian Atlasyeah how many tricks have you had I can't answer that like hundreds thousands
02:30:45
Kayla (DT63)I would say hundreds I wouldn't say thousands she said yes okay and from what age to what age were you doing that um
02:30:56
Kayla (DT63)18 to now oh okay so still sort of doing it a little just like just like one maybe two
02:31:06
Kayla (DT63)okay not necessarily not sexual all the time but definitely using them for their money so you were what's the term
02:31:17
Kayla (DT63)um finessing did you do the Finesse like a hustler I mean like you hustle these guys like in a in the in the stripper sense you do have to have that
02:31:29
Kayla (DT63)mentality because like you're you're paying to be at this club and you're paying to work there to make this money so you do have to finesse men to make money at your job
02:31:44
Brian Atlasokay Good Times yeah good times any crate what do you have like the most craziest sex worker pimp situation that ever happened
02:31:57
Karina (DT63)um no no can I ask you a question what's that what's the most money you ever spent on a girl the most money I've ever spent on a girl
02:32:09
Brian Atlasmost money I've ever spent on a girl
02:32:14
Karina (DT63)maybe no more than a hundred I think I've spent like at least like fifteen hundred dollars on
02:32:21
Karina (DT63)a guy before no more than a hundred wow yeah total Brian that's so depressing um
02:32:32
Alexa (DT63)yeah I don't I'm not really like what's your Roth IRA look like I hope it's like full like you better do it be doing it because you're saving a lot of money my friend I will tell you this throughout
02:32:44
Brian Atlasthroughout the years and listen I want my super Chatters I want my super Chatters to be confident in me knowing
02:32:51
Brian Atlasthat their contributions their patronage to my channel is not somehow benefiting
02:33:08
Brian Atlasyou know maybe I think I've treated a girlfriend to Hibachi it's nice you know 30 40 bucks each you know I'm I'm a generous guy I'm really
02:33:20
Kayla (DT63)I'm a generous money isn't everything to me I don't think everything should be based upon money like I know what I do for a living but that's something that I
02:33:28
Kayla (DT63)chose to do because of the you know the card life gave me I had a not a not so good childhood and this is what I decided to do yeah I'll also add
02:33:40
Brian Atlasto that of all the dates I've been on I'd say the vast majority of them split the check I've split the check on the vast majority of dates I've maybe paid a couple times do you get returning women
02:33:52
Karina (DT63)like oh I lose women you lose them I lose women some of them come back some of them like stick around and yeah keep yeah what percentage what percentage Yeah well uh
02:34:04
Brian AtlasI want to say First Dates I mean it varies at what point because sometimes you have like a rough patch other times you're on you're hidden on all cylinders you're doing good but first dates
02:34:16
Brian Atlashonestly I'd say I'd say one-fourth of First Dates will go further that's fair I think that's a good that's a good that could happen
02:34:28
Brian Atlasevery show can happen if you're even paying even if you're paying for the date yeah which is exactly why I don't pay because the likelihood of Any Given date going anywhere anyways is so
02:34:40
Brian Atlasgreatly diminished for a variety of reasons chiefly that women have way more options now there's dating apps there's social media whereas back in the day if you if you went on a date like back in
02:34:50
Brian Atlasthe day maybe you went on three dates then you had a wife yeah [ __ ] be out here going on six seven dates a week and [ __ ] yeah people are not
02:35:01
Brian Atlasgetting married anymore people what do you go out with like bad [ __ ] like what's your type I like nerdy stem chicks stem oh stem like science technology
02:35:14
Brian Atlasengineering math like smart I like I like smart girls um uh yeah smart kind of shot I'm I'd consider myself more introverted so I like introverted girls I like shy girls
02:35:25
Alexa (DT63)um it's an interesting career path to have for an introvert I suppose so quick quick question how much maybe that's why not what what's the largest amount of money you've spent on just yourself so
02:35:36
Brian Atlasis it about spoiling other people or do you not spoil yourself I don't know I I don't really spend a whole bunch on my honestly I don't really go on vacations much I probably should because
02:35:46
Brian AtlasI'm kind of a stress case but um uh I guess like I'll get a professional massages like you know occasionally that's good um but yeah I don't really you know I don't I'm not really into
02:35:59
Brian Atlasconsumerism all that much so I drive I've been driving the same car that I've driven since I uh since 2012 I bought a Toyota I don't need a fancy car
02:36:09
Brian Atlasum I don't wear a watch I wear the same clothes like I wear pant uh sweatpants from Costco I just buy that in bulk Puma let's go get me the sponsorship
02:36:20
Alexa (DT63)um I wear black the like five ten dollar T-shirts from Kohl's yeah if you're just a Frugal guy in general I think that's okay instead of like yeah I'm a ball out but not on these [ __ ]
02:36:33
Alexa (DT63)yeah you're just Frugal in general and that's who you are I think that's perfectly acceptable I mean like don't be with somebody that's been like very material I've been looking though for a girl who I'm down to like for example if I want
02:36:47
Brian Atlasto go to Hawaii I'm trying to go to Hawaii in like three weeks I'm looking just saying but in that scenario like if if it was my girlfriend right and let's say she was a bit younger than me
02:37:00
Brian Atlasyou know I'm obviously going to be out well I'm gonna be out earning her uh under those circumstances like I just if and I want to go to Hawaii I want to come with me I'll pay for the trip that's fine um that's more than 150 honey well I've
02:37:13
Alexa (DT63)not I haven't taking a girl on vacation is it fair to say though that you wouldn't like a girl that would expect you to pay for the trip no matter what just because of like
02:37:23
Brian Atlasyou're the man or do you feel like it is more masculine in your role to take care of your woman if she's traditional then I would accept those expectations but if she's
02:37:34
Brian Atlaspromiscuous and has a high body count and is not particularly feminine and has like no we're not gonna We're not gonna pick and choose when you get traditional
02:37:45
Brian Atlasbenefits from me if you are more traditional woman or at the very least as so long as you're feminine and you bring me peace under those circumstances
02:37:55
Brian AtlasI'm much more willing to uh provide fall into the provider role but I find it very difficult for me to fall into the provider role because I frankly
02:38:06
Brian Atlasmost of the women I encounter I don't really they don't strike me as traditional women where are you meeting your this is what I want
02:38:20
Lindsay (DT63)to would be open to have like why are you in Santa Barbara I feel like there's no culture in California and I feel like there's definitely not a healthy dating culture or anything that
02:38:32
Brian Atlaspromotes marriage like Japan let's go well I mean you're gone man like why are you still here I mean my business is here well I mean first I grew up in Santa Barbara I love Santa Barbara um my business is here
02:38:45
Brian Atlasum I I don't know if I'm going to be like a passport bro but like it's tempting it's definitely tempting so I mean man we got time California's
02:38:54
Rico (DT63)failed Society we have time for what we don't he has time he doesn't have a biological clock so you can just do his business
02:39:04
Lindsay (DT63)as we already established you know your goal demographic is Young 20s and as you grow older you've already said not today but you've already said you're in a position where you could take care of
02:39:16
Lindsay (DT63)someone yes um yeah I could I could have a stay-at-home life if I was so inclined yeah exactly and I could take care of everything I mean you're at the age where like you're not gonna grow in looks so you know you don't have a
02:39:28
Lindsay (DT63)biological clock when it comes to kids but yeah I peaked at like 23 in that department can we see pictures of little Brian I don't know if we want to pull up my Instagram but do it yeah real quick I don't have an only
02:39:41
Alexa (DT63)fans um I would do a fee only one though but no I really I really honestly don't I do Twitch streaming on the underscore Blazer so continue by the way can you swap with can you
02:39:53
Alexa (DT63)take that chair yeah just take that chair because I don't know if she's um yes
02:40:01
Brian Atlasso what was your question was that it count why California yeah why are you still here I didn't realize you grew up here right for whatever reason yeah I mean I don't know all my
02:40:11
Lindsay (DT63)everything I have is California no no did you go to school uh sort of it's well I think school is a scam so that wasn't supposed to be like a dismissive question yeah I was just wondering um did you did you leave state to go to
02:40:24
Brian Atlasschool no I stayed I stayed here I don't want to I'm not gonna disclose exactly where I did go to Santa Barbara City College then I don't want to disclose on that but um wait what happened
02:40:38
Karina (DT63)oh I see okay okay gotcha can you put that microphone on the ground wait why did you move wait you're no no no you stay here I just wanted her in a different chair because that other
02:40:50
Brian Atlasone was [ __ ] squeaky yeah can you just put that microphone on the ground like behind you what's up scuffed by the way wait hold on let me you see that that comment I didn't see
02:41:04
Brian Atlasit but I'll actually read a couple comments now I saw the comment that was funny um yeah I mean I definitely think it's hard in California I think California what
02:41:14
Brian Atlasseven seven yeah I think California is not great um because it's I'm not like like super hardcore
02:41:25
Brian Atlasconservative either but like yeah I mean there is certainly not there is a hookup culture I mean I don't know I don't even know where I lean politically honestly sometimes I say I'm kind of like Center
02:41:37
Brian Atlasleft sometimes I think I'm like center right I don't really know in any case um yeah there's like we're two hours north of La there's a
02:41:48
Lindsay (DT63)major hookup culture so yeah I mean I think everything in La is literally like the devil and Hollywood and all that stuff yeah it's just not good into our culture sure let me get these
02:42:00
Brian Atlassoup chats yo Frankie K thank you for the 100 man appreciate it when men are concerned with your body count it's not due to insecurity men are more concerned that your oxytocin receptors have become so desensitive desensitized that you can't effectively pair bond and that
02:42:13
Brian Atlasyou're so focused with emotional validation that you'd give your body to anybody yo Frankie K thank you for that hundred dollar soup chat man we will talk excuse me we will talk about uh body
02:42:24
Brian Atlascount here in a moment and then we had one that came through here that I'll get uh Brian your wife is sitting to your left and red stopping an idiot and put her on lockdown she will definitely go
02:42:36
Lindsay (DT63)to Hawaii with you I love Maui but Brian won't open my door I I respect her Brian I I love a man who's about his Hustle but Brian won't open my door
02:42:47
Lindsay (DT63)maybe we can attend each other's what oh you're not getting married yeah I'll attend you're not gonna attend my wishes sorry she's traditional she's what you kind of are like looking but even he
02:42:58
Alexa (DT63)said he just doesn't you know but I think that would bring out the most beneficials that's why men that are married
02:43:07
Lindsay (DT63)appointments perfect checked every box like 21 years old virgin would you would you marry her that's tempting that's tempting um
02:43:21
Brian Atlaspossibly Brian are you scared that she's gonna take all your money is that why you don't want to get married I mean that there's a financial component there's a financial component you know
02:43:33
Alexa (DT63)you're talking about prenup service why is it okay why is the prenup if they get thrown out they can get thrown out yeah if you cheat on her they could get
02:43:44
Brian Atlasthrown out right I just there's no I don't
02:43:53
Lindsay (DT63)I don't believe in divorce what if he divorced you you could somebody could divorce you somebody can leave you people like probably not going into marriage with more money and that's why I would never stop working that's why it's important to me to have passive
02:44:05
Alexa (DT63)income at a young age and make smart decisions and put myself in a good spot yeah for sure but you can't control every factor in life and a prenup protects a woman as well and not just the man's money or you're like divorce
02:44:16
Lindsay (DT63)women in same amount like literally if you're a woman you get divorced in California you're going to be just fine well I'll just say this I was at court once uh it
02:44:27
Brian Atlaswas a litigation thing I'm not going to get into it a couple times and before my case was called there was it was a a divorce case
02:44:37
Brian Atlasthat involved children and it was the most brutally depressing thing I listened to sitting there at the Santa Barbara courthouse for
02:44:46
Brian Atlas30 minutes listening to these two argue about finances and the custody of the children and I'm like these people probably didn't imagine being in the situation when they got married and so
02:44:59
Alexa (DT63)is somebody's phone going all right it's gonna watch I say I I do not disturb but it's my watches going off I'm so sorry I hear what you're saying divorce court is the worst possible thing your dad's a lawyer right he's a bankruptcy attorney
02:45:11
Lindsay (DT63)bankruptcy so it's somehow even more depressing no no not not more depressing but my parents my parents had an awful awful divorce it took years to actually
02:45:22
Lindsay (DT63)get divorced right and my dad is remarried to someone who also did not necessarily have a cordial divorce and so I've seen the ins and outs of divorce court and it's awful and that's why
02:45:34
Lindsay (DT63)marriage is a big thing marriage is not like a Pastime are you Catholic my mom is my dad's Jewish what do you Jewish oh okay yeah I was brought up Jewish well I know I know I don't know
02:45:46
Lindsay (DT63)what it is I was baptized though I'm kind of you know I'm not necessarily religious I do consider myself spiritual but okay like wow I don't think the Jews would claim me because you said well you said that you you said you don't believe
02:45:56
Brian Atlasin divorce and that's what I've heard that among for Catholics that yeah that's like no good I just would never do that to my children okay all right well so you would stay with somebody
02:46:08
Karina (DT63)who's dissatisfying you or making you really depressed or they change as a person and blah blah blah and making your children work once you become a mother I think your children's needs uh
02:46:19
Karina (DT63)absolutely but does that mean that they'll see a rotting marriage in front of them and so I don't know believe in bad marriages either no I'm just so I
02:46:31
Lindsay (DT63)love that I love that I like believe in in manifesting and I am manifesting nothing but a perfect marriage because I want to demonstrate to my children what love looks like I want them to see a
02:46:43
Lindsay (DT63)healthy marriage and that's why I'm very picky with who I go out with I'm very picky with who I would decide to date and I'd be very picky with who I would decide to marry weren't you just in the situationship
02:46:54
Lindsay (DT63)uh no recently didn't you say you were in a situationship or dating around a bit oh yeah like I'll go on dates here and there but because you know if someone says hey Lindsay I think you're
02:47:06
Lindsay (DT63)thank you and if he's yeah if he says it like that I'm sure I'll go on a date with you and it took two days for me to just say hey I I don't think this is like I don't see a future I'm not gonna waste his time I'm not
02:47:16
Alexa (DT63)gonna wait waste my time so I have make it really quick yeah I was just gonna say I know you're gonna say You're Gonna Be selective with your husband but like I tend to agree with you that relationships can get worked out but
02:47:27
Alexa (DT63)like my I was a child of divorce as well and like the bottom like bottom line is my dad was very emotionally abusive and it was I was very relieved when they got divorced because I wasn't in a good home
02:47:39
Alexa (DT63)environment part of the time and it caused a lot of like emotional strife and issues like with me and my family so it's like I would say there's like exceptions and like that blanket statement like you can think you're
02:47:52
Lindsay (DT63)picking the right person and then that person can change I think that my original statement was silly and I I choose to revoke that I I believe my parents got divorced and I'm glad they did they had a horrible not loving
02:48:05
Lindsay (DT63)marriage and it benefited my older brother my older sister and I for them to get divorced it was not pretty it was not awesome and
02:48:15
Lindsay (DT63)[Music] thinking well I can divorce him if it doesn't work out I was like oh here we go she's the big okay uh Stiffler ask the ladies to write their looks on a
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Susan (DT63)scale of one to ten here we go we're gonna start with you go ahead I'm not gonna I'm gonna pass on them no pass no pass no no I feel like I'm getting you know come on tell us purely
02:48:39
Susan (DT63)wake up and I'm like what the f you know I'm like how can I be this a little closer and closer closer no like it just really depends on the day I think that I'm okay but I have to give thanks to
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Brian Atlasmakeup and also my plastic surgeon Dr Calvert thank you shout out Dr Calvert shut up what do you have what do you have done
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Susan (DT63)by the way uh my boobs and then I have fillers and Botox no yeah these are natural I'm just kidding no not light bulbs I just got boobs when I graduated
02:49:12
Susan (DT63)nursing school so recently did you get a discount 2019 2019. that's a little graduation gift it was yeah did your sugar daddy
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Susan (DT63)as well but then um yeah what your nose is perfect is your nose real my nose is real it's gorgeous thank you that's awesome sweet but then it's
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Susan (DT63)contoured I mean makeup I'm sorry I mean yeah makeup I like those wonders that's why I'm saying like it really depends on the day I think I've read you I think I have you figured out
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Brian AtlasI doubt it I'm I'm honestly getting Sugar Mama vibes from you no major Sugar Mama no eventually no I'm like no no
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Susan (DT63)major me the Sugar Mama you're the sugar I'm sorry no I can see you with like a like a 23 year old stud I don't go for
02:50:13
Susan (DT63)studs and looks and stuff like I see them like babies oh yeah like like a guy who plays lacrosse like I see
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Lindsay (DT63)you as like the next Millennia Trump no I'm not with Donald but like I see you with like an older sophisticated like yeah it's like yes that's what I want an older
02:50:33
Susan (DT63)sophisticated sexy man I know I'm unfortunately like we're different generals unfortunately what do you mean how old are you again you're
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Susan (DT63)35. I'm 35. and so that's why I'm 33 he's 34. cautious with coming on to because you guys are college age yeah
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Brian Atlasor cougar oh would you ever pay would you if can I I want to be Matchmaker here will you take him out on a date will you take will you take him out the
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Susan (DT63)thing is the thing is day just today like day to have sex no come over no I mean I've had I've had lovers I've
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Brian Atlashad lovers you have lovers right now do you have a lover right I do not I do not when's the last time I haven't had a lover in a while it's been how long has it been whoa
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Susan (DT63)a lot of me is someone that I deeply care for what when's the last time when's the last time you hooked up with somebody I'm I don't kiss and tell
02:51:43
Susan (DT63)either a lady does not kiss and tell no definitely not definitely not fortnite fortnite with fortnite 14 days oh God no
02:51:52
Susan (DT63)more way more how long a year I'm sorry like I have made I have a dating I just started on the dating app and I
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Susan (DT63)seriously fall asleep once I start what app I'm on hinge however I have fallen asleep on there and people are like wow
02:52:15
Susan (DT63)you disappeared again it's like so they wonder if I'm doing it for my social media it's not like I'd like to find someone but I'm lazy like if she takes you out on a date what do you think
02:52:29
Susan (DT63)where are we where are we going I'm not taking anyone out why why I don't even take myself what about equality what about equality I you know the thing is I