2 Year Situationship With 6ft8 Chad?! | Dating Talk #63

All 9 guests introduce themselves with name, age, occupation. Relationship status round: Alexa in 2-year situationship, Karina in serious 2-year situationship, Susan single (no committed relationship), Ella single (never had relationship, longest talking stage ~1 week), Reese single (ended 6-month LDR Jan 2023), Kayla single/single mom, Lindsay single, Haley in 4-year relationship (only BF), Rico dating 2+ women simultaneously.

Kayla (Anola Blaze) discloses she started sex work at 18, had multiple pimps. Primary pimp was a 3-4 year relationship (she gave him all her money; he became abusive). Has a daughter. Brian draws comparison to Soft White Underbelly.

Rico argues women without organized sports backgrounds or paternal influence make poor partners. Alexa and others debate causation vs. correlation. Superchat about 85% of youth in prison from fatherless homes read aloud; debated at length. Discussion of whether single mothers can discipline effectively.

Alexa discusses her 2-year on-and-off situationship with a 6'8" former overseas basketball player aged ~32. They see each other almost daily, talk every day, live nearby. She is exclusive to him but he may see other women. She is demisexual. Brian presses whether this is really a relationship. She says she would be open to more with him in the future if timing aligns.

Rico says he plans to date younger women (20s) when older (40s). Lindsay and others discuss why women age-gap relationships happen: security/father figure dynamic. Karina describes dating a 42yo man at ~18-20. Debate about whether young women or older women make better partners.

Susan and Lindsay discuss the erosion of masculinity in modern culture (media, social media, soy/estrogen in food, feminism). Agreement that strong masculine and feminine roles are healthy. Rico argues women who haven't played organized sports or had fathers make worse partners.

Brian argues feminism is a women's advocacy movement, not true equality, because feminists don't pursue equality when it disadvantages women (e.g., military draft). Reese defends classic definition as equality of genders. Alexa and Haley discuss how modern feminism has gone beyond its original goals. Extended discussion of feminism's roots including racist suffragette history.

Reese raises women's safety as a women's issue. Brian counters that men are statistically more likely to be victims of violent crime. Alexa argues strong men are the solution to protecting women from sexual assault. Discussion of violence stats and who perpetrates vs. suffers.

Brian says he splits the check on most dates; has treated girlfriends to Hibachi. He argues low ROI of paying given most first dates don't lead anywhere. Discussion of traditional vs. modern expectations. Brian would pay for trip if girlfriend were traditional/feminine.

Guests rate their own looks 1-10. Karina: 7.5-8 (SB 8, LA 7). Reese: ~8. Kayla: 8 (6 without makeup, 7.5 with). Rico: 5 (objectively average). Brian: 8.5. Susan: 10 (would not elaborate). Alexa: 6.5-7.5 depending on type.

Extended panel debate on whether body count should matter in relationships. Rico discloses ~200-300. Kayla discloses up to ~100 (from sex work context). Alexa body count under 10. Karina declines; Lindsay declines. Susan refuses (declined). Brian jokes "73" for Karina. Frankie K superchat on oxytocin receptor desensitization from high body count read aloud. Brian argues body count is a valid preference for men seeking long-term partners.

Rico argues if you don't care what goes in, you won't care what comes out. Alexa strongly disagrees, arguing people can grow and change. Discussion of whether past promiscuity predicts poor motherhood.

Brian screens Pew Research chart showing significantly more young men are single than women (63% vs. 34% ages 18-29). Panel discusses causes: women dating older men, top-tier men monopolizing options, women miscounting their relationship status. Karina suggests some women think they're in relationships that men don't consider real.

Panel watches Patrice O'Neal clip asking women how they'd keep a man if they lost their vagina. Guests answer: oral sex. Patrice's point that women classified themselves as "a series of holes." Alexa responds with "make better sandwiches." Panel discusses whether sex is spiritual/significant.