HEATED DEBATE With Beret Girl, ØF Girls STORM OUT?! | Dating Talk #70

Date: 2023-05-01

Duration: 5h 04m

Guests

Brian Atlas

LLeah (Beret Girl)>

AAmanda (Never Average Chick)>

FFrankie Dutra >

MMadison (SBCC)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS/Donations(audience)

SPEAKER_01Patrice O'Neal (clip)(audience)

SPEAKER_02Lexi(guest)

SPEAKER_03Amanda (Never Average Chick)(guest)

SPEAKER_04Andrew Tate (clip)(audience)

SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_06Frankie Dutra(guest)

SPEAKER_07Nikki Shay(guest)

SPEAKER_08Leah (Beret Girl)(guest)

SPEAKER_09Joe(guest)

SPEAKER_10Julie(guest)

SPEAKER_11Madison(guest)

Key Moments

IntroLeah introduces herself as age ~25, ex-sex worker (escorting and OnlyFans), now anti-sex revolution/industry activist; still earns passively from archived OnlyFans.

IntroJulie introduces herself as 25, content creator with bodybuilding background and OnlyFans; brought her dog Bella (ESA) to the show.

IntroFrankie Dutra (21, Ritz Carlton server) introduces himself with girlfriend Madison (18, SBCC student); he red-pilled her toward conservative values.

OtherFrankie gives Madison a promise ring on camera. Plans to marry around age 21-23 and have 2-3 children.

ControversyLeah (Beret Girl) challenges Brian's show format: accuses him of bringing on uneducated/unself-aware women to make them look stupid for viral clips and chat laughs.

ControversyBrian defends the show format as long-form dating conversation; calls Leah's critique a straw man. Leah says it is a happy accident that exploitation drives his virality.

OtherLeah refuses to participate in the self-rating round, arguing rating women's looks is objectifying and antithetical to feminism.

OtherAmanda (Never Average Chick) admits she uses dating apps while married to funnel men to her OnlyFans; men are aware she is married and have autonomy.

OtherAmanda reveals she had sex with her husband on a live OnlyFans stream.

OtherSeveral guests (Joe, Nikki, and others) disengage from the feminist debate panel around 2:44, going to sit on the couch. Brian notices three empty mics and addresses them. Leah announces she is going to the couch. Brian asks them to leave (~2:48) when they continue talking behind the scenes.

ControversyBrian asks the disengaged guests to leave: "can you guys not talk behind the scenes... you can get out." They leave. Brian says he has never had to ask someone to leave before.

ControversyLeah's Twitch drama surfaced via superchats (user "Modern Life Dating" sends multiple $100 donations accusing Leah of lying/manipulation). Leah dismisses it as old drama she does not want to discuss on stream.

QuoteAndrew Tate clip played (garbage man speech): men go to work to provide for families, not to oppress women. Panel agrees it makes a valid point.

QuotePatrice O'Neal clip played: if a woman lost her vagina in a train accident, how would she keep her man? Julie says she would give oral sex; Leah objects to reducing women to sexual orifices.

QuoteLeah's closing message: women should not have casual sex, should not have sex with strangers, and should get off birth control.

OtherBrian criticizes the panel for arriving 50 minutes late, causing the show to run long. Julie thanks him and says he is doing a wonderful job.

Topics Discussed

Announcements and sponsor

Brian announces new audio/computer setup, TTS rules, Streamlabs, Twitch plug, Tiege Hanley sponsor.

Guest introductions, backgrounds, and relationship status

Guests introduce themselves (name, age, occupation). Brian asks about relationship status, longest relationship. Leah introduces as ex-sex worker/anti-sex industry activist, still passively earning from OF. Julie: content creator/bodybuilder, first relationship. Amanda: married content creator. Joe: 20, nightclub hostess with boyfriend. Nikki Shay: 26, promotional modeling, single. Lexi: 20, Hooters new hire, recently divorced at 18. Frankie and Madison: couple, promise ring exchange.

Sex work, OnlyFans, and society

Discussion on only fans as art vs sex work, content creator finances, impact on future children, using dating apps to funnel OF customers, NBA player DMs, objectification debate begins with Leah pushing back on OF normalization.

Heated debate: feminist critique of the show and rating system

Leah challenges Brian directly on the show's purpose, accusing it of bringing on uneducated/unself-aware women for viral clips. Brian defends the format. Leah objects to the rating round. Extensive debate on whether the show exploits women. Most heated exchange of the episode.

Plastic surgery, self-ratings, and body standards

Brian asks panel about plastic surgery (breast augmentation, BBL, fillers). Self-ratings round. Leah refuses to participate on feminist grounds. Brian asks about plastic surgery preferences.

Blue check marks, athletes in DMs, and being flown out

Panel shares experiences with celebrity/athlete DMs and being flown out. RJ Barrett suspected. Promise ring moment between Frankie and Madison. Parents as friends discussion.

Body count, hypergamy, and sexual marketplace

Panel discusses whether body count matters, their own body counts. Brian makes hypergamy arguments. Leah pushes back on evolutionary biology framing. Debate on birth control, sexual revolution, and women's choices.

OF girls disengage and exit; feminist/patriarchy debate continues

Joe, Nikki, and possibly others disengage from debate (~2:44) and sit on the couch. Brian asks them to leave (~2:48). Debate continues between Brian, Leah, Amanda, Julie on patriarchy theory, feminist ideology, and systemic oppression. Remaining: Leah, Amanda, Julie, Frankie, Madison.

Twitch drama, Andrew Tate and Patrice O'Neal clips

Leah's Twitch drama briefly surfaced via superchats. Andrew Tate clip (garbage man speech) played; panel reacts. Patrice O'Neal clip on keeping a man without a vagina played; panel reacts.

Closing remarks and Twitch raid

Brian wraps up, reads final superchats, complains about guests being 50 minutes late causing the show to run long. Twitch raid to pasharo (WoW streamer).

Transcript

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Leah (Beret Girl)thoroughly long-winded introduction we're gonna have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead my name is Leah I'm about to be 25

Leah (Beret Girl)I am an ex-sex worker turned anti-sex Revolution anti-sex industry uh activist influencer

Brian Atlasokay there's a lot there hold on 25 used to be a sex worker like what does that mean

Brian AtlasI did only fans and I was a prostitute of and then okay prostitution yes um is there a difference between escorting and prostitution or it's kind of like this people like to make flowery

Leah (Beret Girl)language for sex work because it sucks and they say escort but it's the same thing okay got it okay so escorting you prefer

Brian Atlasit doesn't matter it doesn't matter okay any stripping or anything like that just LF and escorting not really yeah no just mostly okay and you used to do it no

Brian Atlaslonger yes you said you're anti what anti sexual revolution in sex industry what interesting anti what is the anti-sexual revolution what is that the

Leah (Beret Girl)sexual Revolution uh we can get into it in the 1970s to now where women are uh sort of um promoted to live this uh sexual

Leah (Beret Girl)lifestyle just like a man I'm very anti okay uh interesting and then anti-sex industry I'm obviously anti-porn anti-prostitution okay I didn't know this that's okay

Leah (Beret Girl)interesting um and is your of still up or did you nuke it uh it's still up has I was a very notable sex worker so my

Leah (Beret Girl)photos are going to just online regardless so I might as well just make the money that I can if you want to consume it ethically okay ethically if you can consume porn

Brian Atlasethically sure so you're still getting some trickling in income from the only fans sure what very unsubstantial but yeah okay but you're not posting there anymore obviously yeah okay got it okay

Brian Atlaswe'll come back to that I'll just have everyone continue on with their introductions but go ahead hi I'm Julie

JulieJulie I'm a content creator for Louie did I miss any content creator what kind of content a lot of stuff on Instagram I do have an only

JulieBrands will pay me to create uh content that they can repurpose for marketing purposes and then um yeah and then I uh yeah pretty much it what kind of content

Juliedo you do on the of is it BG solo content what do you do yeah so it's pretty much like my Instagram Instagram I'm very like Pro female body Pro female body art so only

Juliefans for me is like a personal experience um like personal girlfriend experience I guess you could say but it's my art kind of

Juliehurt like with my personality um also I do basically none of the like triple X stuff nothing like that but sure um just

Brian Atlaswhen you say you incorporate your art or yeah like a body paint is it body painting or no so I'm really into photography and I'm really into like the contrast of basically I was overweight in high school and I got into

Juliebodybuilding and I've worked very hard for my body so I'm really Pro I guess feeling confident in your own skin and so I think the female body is just art and so I love creating content

Brian Atlasbased around that however only fans obviously can be looked up different ways so yeah okay when you say you when you say you worked really hard for your body what do

Julieyou mean yeah um in the gym in the gym yes okay besides this is the girls are Girling though the girls are girls

Juliethe girls are girly the girls are girly the girls I mean I feel like you worked hard for that because that was a graduation okay shout out dad

Julieshout out Dad okay so we're talking about the plastic surgeon well just for the boobs but like come on we're gonna lift weights to get boobs like this I don't think it works unless you're a guy yeah it doesn't really work um please introduce your dog while uh

Juliethank you oh this is my chicken your chicken yeah this is my chicken oh okay um Bella's four years old she is a Leo

Julieshe is an independent woman and independent woman yes and has she what does she do for a living she's a princess

Juliewhat were you really curious about this dog she's what huh she's a princess for a living okay princess for a living okay

Brian Atlasgood to know good to know and is she a ESA emotional support animal you know me so well already is she she is okay cool cool

Julieum well I'm sure well there's plenty of questions for her like was the anxiety already coming through I'm like oh

Brian Atlasno I was just curious you know okay okay good good Society currently but we're getting through it okay so okay 25 cool what about you um my name is never average chick AKA Amanda

Brian AtlasI feel like most people normally introduce themselves like first name then then they give their moniker but we'll do fairness for the rest of the show I'm going to refer to you as never average chick chick yeah that's your

Amanda (Never Average Chick)name for the rest of the show that's perfect never average chick well the so what was the uh what's the backstory there with the name I don't know I guess I'm just I don't take

Amanda (Never Average Chick)average I'm not average you don't take average or I'm not you're not right I take average I'm just not average I guess I don't know are we talking about oh my God okay

Brian Atlasso never average chick are there any Realms of human endeavor in which you would consider yourself average

Brian Atlaslike at chess or anything you know like I'm average at chess because you said never you said never average I just are you above average what about backgammon I suck at that

Brian Atlasso you're below average on something it's a life of extreme you need there needs to be like a little uh a lip is it a stop terms and conditions apply on certain

Brian Atlasthings to your never average you are average or perhaps below average in some Realms of human endeavor yeah The Confident Queen so thank you how's your Calculus

Brian Atlasif we not talk about math can I ask you some historical okay okay uh moving on so uh sorry one more time your age is 30 30 okay and you do

Amanda (Never Average Chick)content creation correct yeah of yeah um so it used to be an event director you used to be an event director yeah and then they found out about my only fans

Amanda (Never Average Chick)and I basically told them to f off and well they like gave me an ultimatum ultimatum and said I either have to

Amanda (Never Average Chick)choose one or the other and um I chose the of she chose the gangster life okay good times good times that's hot thank you that's hot is

Brian Atlasthat is that a Paris Hilton you're only 25. I I don't know if you okay oh huh too wait are you old are you actually are you older than 25 yeah I'm 24 actually

Brian Atlasbecause I mean I I feel like only people in their 30s would be like clothing Paris Hilton like that I want to see my passport show me your passport wait you have to get up to oh

Brian Atlasyou have it next to you okay is it a photo ID I can put my purse that far away from me um while she gets that go ahead what's up my name is Joe

Brian AtlasI'm 20 and I'm a hostess at a nightclub and I do only fans on the side only fans on the side okay um what kind of boy girl solo content would

Joeyou do um I have a boyfriend so I do stuff with him um I'll post just like semi nude on there plus oh I I didn't mean to dress your I just meant posture check um yeah you're good

Joeum I just I do some content with him and I'll just post lingerie I'll do some my new to um okay or I'll just do like custom videos whatever someone messages

Nikki Shayme okay cool what about you um I'm Nikki Shay and I'm 26 almost 27.

Brian Atlasuh wait hold on before can you pull that back up Eric Eric pull it back up um can we just have you read this for us do you want to read that channel well I like

Brian Atlasironic that the girl in the far right looks like Hitler's wife ever Brawn have you got that before I a lot of people told me I look like Anne Frank

Juliewhich is frankly anti-semitic um good time but I've heard I look like Lindsay Lohan and

Leah (Beret Girl)Megan Fox when I had dark hair but well Anne Frank is much sexier Lindsay's pretty hot and um Megan's even

Nikki Shayhotter yeah go ahead we just that chat we had to pull it up go ahead um and I do content creation and a lot of promotional modeling okay

Brian Atlasand uh how old again I'm 26 almost 27. all right it's all downhill after 27. okay oh don't say that not not for you specifically just I think 30s are great in general I think it depends on the

Lexiperson depends on your skincare routine yeah that too get tiege Hanley okay um what about you I hate being put on the spot but I'm Lexi um I'm 20 years old I'm from Florida

Lexium and I work at Hooters I just got the job though so I haven't even started yet oh you should have worn your outfit or whatever you're not allowed to you can't yeah not allowed to be like seen outside of the building literally they're like hey like when you

Lexicome into work please make sure you like you have like sweatpants and a jacket over like really uniform yeah I get fired so honestly it's kind of like military you know I can't wear your like don't farm when I worked at Hooters they

Lexitook pictures of our intake weight and everything oh yeah no yeah no it was pretty gnarly yeah it's a little it was serious no like my whole life I had to do like five different like certifications and tests before I can

Lexieven like get hired yeah so I was like okay like this is what not is crazy they let people have tattoos now no I have to cover them all yeah I'm like trying to figure out how to

Brian Atlascover all my tattoos my mom I'm like damn yeah Dermablend yeah can I have you scoot your microphone a little bit this way okay yeah yeah perfect I think and can you scoot your cup into the scoot

Frankie Dutraall the cups into the table yeah perfect time cool cool um what about you my name is Frankie Dutra I'm 21 years old and I work here locally I'm a server at the Ritz Carlton

MadisonI'm 18 I'm a student at sbcc studying econ and accounting so all right cool so we're gonna go around the table once more

Brian Atlaswhat is your current relationship status are you single do you have a friends with benefits are you in the talking stage situationship relationship engage married Etc and oh also what's

Leah (Beret Girl)your longest relationship you've ever had go ahead um I'm engaged and I've been with my fiance for coming up on four years congratulations you guys have a date for

Leah (Beret Girl)the uh wedding planned we not really no next year in the summer am I invited we'll see

Brian Atlaswe'll see after the show um can I be his best man does he need the best man I think his his dad or his brother his dad would probably be yeah

Brian Atlashave you seen I love you man with uh Paul Rudd and what's Jason's

Brian Atlasif if your fiance is brother dad's going to be the best man I'm available okay okay I'll let him

Brian Atlasknow keep keep me posted okay um so and you said four years yeah okay what about you um

JulieI surprisingly no okay um surprisingly I'm in my first relationship first boyfriend and I did bring the passport just to prove that I

Brian Atlasam in fact 25 yeah don't dox yourself though 25 just take a look at it okay I look very different don't look

Brian Atlas90s 97 okay don't say my actual version actually say it maybe they'll give to me just the year just the year okay thanks is your dog trained can your dog walk it back to you in its mouth the dog is like

Julieright next to me guys she would actually look at you and say eat it that's a joke you can bring it to her and then get me water and a steak afterwards fair enough okay um so so yeah um I'm actually in a

Julierelationship which is so weird for me to say because I've never had a boyfriend we are officially dating um as of a month right now we've been seeing each other for like three four months and

Brian Atlasum three or four months and it's your first ever relationship relationship yeah but okay so you're 25

Julieso tell us what happened from 18. what happened to 24. um 18. your parents didn't get you a pony

Julieis that was that the trauma they did huh okay listen you're funny huh you're funny

JulieI like it but you have no idea buddy about the trauma about the pony it would be the least of my own worries notice

Juliehow I bleeped out the f word because I'm proactive listen so 18 to now I lived in Colorado I got into bikini bodybuilding when I

Juliewas 14. so I was competing for six years come 18 years old what I'm still compete I can't do math 20 wait 14 15 16 17 18 19 20. okay so

JulieI'm competing till 20 right thank you I'm competing until 20. so basically all I'm doing is working out literally cooking all my food weighing it blah blah blah then

JulieI have no time for boys I have no social life I have zero friends in high school really worked out live my life then I got into social media I'm still living at home right just moved out from my

Julieparents home in Colorado to La two years ago so I really only had a life in the past two years so basically what everyone got to

Julieexperience in college and I guess kind of high school because I didn't really have a social life I'm just now experiencing you went to college I graduated yes okay do were you always at home with the

Julieparents when you were at College I did it online because I wanted to compete online college yes correct I wanted to compete right and I couldn't cook my own

Juliethis is so ridiculous I couldn't cook my own food for bodybuilding in a dorm so just made more sense to live at home

Frankie Dutramy dog likes you she join me on the side of the table okay princess is not with the King so

Julienothing from 18 to 24 25 no like okay so what would happen is I would get in the talking phase with certain guys and it just wouldn't really go anywhere

Juliebecause I either wouldn't really like them or I'd go for the you know the like NBA player kind of vibe who's just like you know like go for this every other night oh you'd go for the

JulieNBA player yeah yeah and they're not looking for something serious if you're if you're curious if you're curious anyone out there they are not looking for something serious

Amanda (Never Average Chick)yeah on a team that I'm not probably gonna mention that follows me on only fans yeah just oh I always wonder I always wonder if he's in the New York Knicks

Brian Atlaswhat's what's his name I'm not gonna say not both of us probably it's okay nobody watches this podcast yeah it starts with an r he's on the Knicks and it starts with an R okay chat you know what to do he's

Brian Atlasinvited me to like his yacht and stuff and I'm like bro Ringo Star if it makes money it makes sense wait it's okay but you said you only got social media recently two years ago

Julieor something like that no so I started growing we started doing social media yeah I got into it when I was when I started doing the bodybuilding because I went from I had a huge transformation right I was like really overweight and

Julievery depressed I went through a lot of trauma as a kid and I got into the bodybuilding stuff that's kind of how I dealt with my depression and it was like therapy for me and so a lot of people

Juliesaw a huge transition and a huge like 180 basically and who I was and um were interested by it so that's how I started growing The Following on social

Brian Atlasmedia okay but you were getting a lot of um before you start actually doing content

Brian Atlason social media you're getting MBA players in your DMs um

JulieRJ Barrett is that it oh is he hot can someone drop a photo okay well there's a lot to say there so I mean the blue check marks and the DMS

Julieokay so um the the athletes are always in the DMS really yes yeah well that's true yeah yeah if you have if you're like alive and have a heartbeat they're in your DMs for sure

Brian Atlasthe athletes I feel like we know they're Invincible can we get a show of hands here from all the girls at the table um who have you before like the changes to Instagram's blue check marks who have

Brian Atlasyou got a DM by a blue check mark and let's say like a semi-notable either athlete musician actor show of hands if you've gone

Leah (Beret Girl)do you like them dude men will [ __ ] anything I don't know please

Julieokay well her hand is up

Brian Atlasmy dog's hands up probably too so uh blue check marks that is not true sorry we'll get to that by the way cheese how you doing man how you doing

Brian Atlasokay so uh besides athletes like I want to get a sense of the degree to which you guys

Brian Atlasare getting contacted by these high status men people in reality TV shows but like or is it just like a one-off

Brian Atlasthat happened once or is it like oh every weekend [ __ ] this guy plays basketball this guy plays football what what's it like I mean here let's let's go around the table let's start with you

Leah (Beret Girl)um it happened more when I was like actively on like only fans and stuff and when I was a more notable like model but it was happening probably probably weekly if not like twice three times a month but I wasn't ever like huge huge

Leah (Beret Girl)and I was sure I have a very particular Niche I have like tattoos I'm like a Suicide Girl type thing so that's not everyone's yeah thing okay

Julieum I'm sorry can you but it's like the degree we'll get there well at the degree who who cares they're all emotionally unavailable and just want to hit maybe

Lexiit'll take you on a couple dates but at the end of the day like yeah every guy has like the same thing they're just like oh I like you you hook up and then like they have money they have Cloud great we're bored yeah are they asking you to come over straight to their house

Julieto hit are they asking you to go like on a date no of course it depends on who the girl is I don't know some of them like dates because I do only fans like I feel like guys like

Amanda (Never Average Chick)assume like oh you know what like whatever that you're using they all feel like I've had a guy well not RJ guy literally told me he'd pay me a lot of money like 10 grand yeah and [ __ ] him yeah that's how a lot of girls get into

Brian Atlasprostitution does anyone else have any stories but I would never do that you want to um share but so he NBA player I have no idea who he is but

Brian Atlasum pay offered to pay you ten thousand dollars to fly you out to Miami for you to go on his yacht and smash did you take him up on it absolutely not

Brian Atlasa b check thanks for the 20 gifted Subs man appreciate it absolutely not have I don't do that with any of my friends thank you baby check uh show of hands

Juliewho here has ever been offered to been flown out by Guy [Music] [Laughter]

Brian AtlasI had a girl offer to fly me somewhere shockingly like a month ago first ever though one time no I was like minutes is like something Minnesota she was a

Brian Atlasjuggalette I have probably who knows but um uh how have any of you accepted

Nikki Shaya flight offer well a flight for a trip not to smash yeah honestly it just dip just dip just dip no we've been flown out to the Bahamas went on Yachts like

Nikki ShayMinnesota but like it was to hang out and parties oh it's not working sorry guys new computer my Horan buns now honestly it's just kind of like little spontaneous

Joekind of thing I do that it's cute thank you you wanted to comment on something I I think or you just I mean I I think I just didn't know I think I just didn't know your question earlier but you changed it okay so we were going around

Brian Atlasthe table uh same on our relationship relationship status well really quick before I have you go so your first boyfriend first boyfriend how long you've been dating two three

Juliemonths four months was it like officially a month and a half

Brian Atlasokay but we're friends but were you so from 18 to 24 25 were you just a player don't hate the player play Just

Brian AtlasPlayer status just like running through these scally oh I shouldn't say Scallywags but you know actually I wish I could like say yes and sound cool but like honestly no I

JulieI wish I could say Yes And Sound really just have kind of always focused on work or whatever it is that I'm trying to grow at and so honestly I'd

Juliesay I really have nothing to say that yeah it's gonna make me sound that cool word okay but it feels cool you know no no one what's a 304

Brian Atlasit's an area code I wouldn't worry about it um what about you I'm married okay um for how long have you been married uh

Brian Atlastwo years two years okay married boyfriend fiance okay what about you um I have a boyfriend we started dating in 2018

Joeum we were on and off at some point but we're together now we're fine you guys were on and off again on and off like since 2018 no like 2018 we were good and then like maybe like 2020 we were on and

Brian Atlasoff but okay we're good now question during that on and off period did either you or him get with somebody else

Joeum I did but I mean I I think he tried to but I don't think he does you think he tries but he I don't think he ever he did I don't think you ever did ever did he

Brian Atlasdid yeah but you I mean yeah because he was being a hoe he was being a hoe first he had tender oh your boyfriend but you're still with he was being a hoe yeah

Brian Atlasdo you want to say anything to him while he's walking by the way I don't think he's watching oh he probably will what's his name Cornelius like what's his name I want you I want you to stare into this camera right here

JoeI'm not gonna say that's fine okay what about you say hi um no I'm single ready

Nikki Shaygo ahead gotta got a few people wait single ready to mingle yes okay you know always New Opportunities new people uh and my last relationship was like a

Lexiyear ago how what was your longest relationship um a year and a half okay what about you I'm divorced oh wait you're 20 though yeah I got married at 18. Devore okay married at 18 divorced

Lexishout out to you if you're watching this I hope you're happy with your new girlfriend did you initiate the divorce or did he um no I like moved out to like take time for myself and

LexiI mean we weren't really together but yeah you were married yeah we're still married

Lexino I just like wanted space and like moved out and then like he took that as like you're cheating on me you're leaving me blah blah blah and then yeah now he doesn't talk to me at all so you're still married but yourself no no

Brian AtlasI got divorced in October probably yeah yeah okay you said that you guys were married what so okay you were married for a year and a half year and a half but you were dating I assume for some period of time before that yeah

Lexisince like high school so like seven High School sweethearts yeah okay yeah I was with them for a while so he's a hoe I'll get Peaches on you well honestly

Lexisuspicions but I'm not gonna like say he's not a bad person so like wish the Buzz for him like whatever kind of because you're just young yeah it was just like you know like you're like you're changing yeah so I was like okay by the way Lavell thanks for the five

Lexigift appreciate it um so okay uh you said that you needed some space yeah I just like was like stuff not suffering but like going through a lot of stuff so I was like you know like I need like a

Leximental like break kind of thing just because we had been together for so long I feel like I just like kind of like needed to find myself kind of thing did you take that break while you were married yeah no I like moved out because like like there was things I was asking from him that like he wasn't like

Brian Atlasbringing to the table kind of thing such as um like going on a date literally like bare minimum he just wanted to kick it at the house he literally would get gift cards from his mom to take me on dates what a legend yo

Brian AtlasW what's his name what's his name first name just first name Cornelius Jacob okay W's in the chat for Jacob um okay so he he was like taking you out to like it was like Chili's yeah

Lexiwhat a [ __ ] G okay so wait so so you said he wasn't doing like so he just like had no drive like didn't want to do

Lexianything like he had no vehicle for like a year and a half and then I got him like a job at my dad's company I just yeah I really know how to pick them okay so so but there came a point where

Brian Atlaswere you guys living together in the same household oh yeah we had a house together okay yeah but you decided you wanted to move move out you wanted to take a break or you said you needed space so you probably shouldn't have

Lexilike moved out I feel like that he took that like wrong but that was just like yeah I don't know was there a big fight it was just kind of like so like so done like like the energy was just like not there like for both of us dude I feel

Brian Atlaslike it was just like I do I do regret it I'm like okay like I think things would have been like differently okay so my twin flame but so yeah you told him

Lexiwas he otherwise like happy being in a relationship being married to you honestly I don't know we both like are like depressed so you're both depressed yes we like our dog passed away like two weeks like before I had moved out and I

Lexiwas just like going through it no it's fine thank you yeah so I was just like uh so yeah so but you broached the subject of hey we need some space well it was like for months like it was like you know like it's just like this is not good yeah like you know like we were

Lexilike I don't know I don't really know how to describe it like I was just like we're good but it just like wasn't like were you guys arguing or was just kind of like no there's like no arguments like no nothing it was just like there's a red flag was that I feel like I feel

Brian Atlaslike something was wrong like dead bedroom oh no I had sex like four times a week for them yeah that's it four times a week that's it

Brian Atlasthat's all so she gets me so just to kind of get a better sense of things you initiate the conversation about hey we

Lexishould have some space you moved out of the house they literally helped me move out did not come to my new apartment didn't visit me like nothing after I moved out like completely ignored me and

Lexithen um you did say you need some I know I know but not like that you know what I mean I feel like sure if you really cared who would reach out he would have reached out or like shut up and that was like what I needed like that's what my like I guess my validation I was

Lexisearching for kind of thing like that so you were hoping that he would show he cared like you know why is the impetus why is the impetus on him to do that why couldn't you have because I was doing everything like helped him get his job like everything like I was like making

Brian Atlasdinner like you know trying to take him out like you know Mommy sorry yeah literally literally fair enough she was going with the car yeah so question you initiate the hey we need some space

Lexiconversation and then he goes to Vegas and you suspect teaching like yeah I was like no he told me he did oh he told you yeah whenever he came back full-blown or

Brian Atlaswas it just like a makeout oh no my club okay they went to like a strip club and all that so here's the question for the panel I mean I wasn't the bus either so did you also whenever I moved out yeah I

Lexidid wait was it wait before he cheated on you or huh was this like when I moved out it was like like two or three weeks after I moved out because he had like not talked to me and he like completely cut me off

Lexiso I was like you know what like I guess I'm single now like we're gonna do wait so he didn't cheat on you then because you also were sleeping with it was Mutual it was Mutual we both so you guys broke up

Lexibut then he didn't he didn't cheat on wait you're still together huh no not anymore no I'm saying like we were still you're still married yeah we're still married together we just were like taking time and then I did some things he did something who did who did things

Lexifirst honestly I don't know who knows okay I'll admit I did it first like hold on wait wait I was done okay

Brian Atlashe did my dog's laughing wait question so you move out yeah you move out yeah you say you do some stuff first

Brian Atlaswhat what what amount of time elapsed from the point of you moving out to the point of you being with a new guy like two weeks a fortnight

Lexiyeah I literally have had like the worst luck since my divorce it's been amazing good time but honestly I'm kind of been a player wait you've been the player yeah what does that mean um I've just been doing guys how they do me

Brian Atlastreat others how you want to be treated you've been doing guys how they would do you treat you like you know how they're acting like how are guys acting kind of

Brian Atlasjust like I don't know guys break it down barely text your dip so you'll [ __ ] a dude no no and then just like and then just be like

Lexiyou ghost them yeah but but are you interested in them or you're just like oh yeah I know I'm a lover yeah so you're just like is this like a Revenge if I see it's not a Revenge though if I see it's like already not gonna work I'm like okay like there's no

Brian Atlaspoint in putting my energy into it but aren't you like if you like the guy but you're like isn't it kind of an L for you to like sleep with them and then

Brian Atlaswhen it happens is when you're out partying okay

LexiI'm too drunk they love me at the time you got married were you like super serious about it oh no I was like like with him yeah like I like knew he was the one like like I still do love him like like no hard feelings to him like I

Madisonwould get back with him sounds like a little stupid but yeah do you think if you like stayed lived with him and then worked your problems if I didn't move out I knew it would have like probably like I feel like I don't know though

LexiI don't know you were also very young yeah I can't like you change it is what it is so he cheated on you but not really no there's like no cheating no cheating

Brian AtlasI don't know were you upset when you found out that he he told you hey I was in Vegas I slept with a stripper named Tiffany he told you that it's so funny you said

Brian Atlasthat name that's his new girlfriend's name fate it seems has brought us together okay um okay Tiffany I hope it doesn't work out

Lexiso but were you upset when he told you hey like I went to Vegas I hooked up somebody no I already knew like I did stuff too I can't yeah it can't be a hypocrite oh like blah blah blah so I mean it hurts I'm like so it sounds like after you and

Brian Atlashim broke up you're married you moved out a period of a fortnight 14 days elapses you find a new guy did you just go on a

Lexitear yeah like just yeah yeah I hadn't been with that many people whenever I got married so like after I was like I kind of like how when you say you had hadn't been with that many people before you got married

Brian Atlasgive us a range like Five Five Guys yeah before I'm not gonna like do my body count now so but okay so then but after the uh the divorce or walls so even before you got

Brian Atlasdivorced there was a you went on a um yeah after yeah what's the scope

Brian Atlaswhat are we talking about here what do you mean you know it's like a couple a couple dozen

Frankie Dutraaround there 10 15 20. yeah in that range okay cool down there all right gotcha okay uh so

Frankie Dutrawhat about you on immediate again so I'm here with my lovely girlfriend Madison um we've been together coming up on eight months is gonna be May 4th yeah so it's super exciting my longest relationship has been a total of two

Brian Atlasyears I was back in high school okay and so Madison's previously been on the podcast two times Madison said that she's gonna marry you this is my confirm

Frankie Dutraconfirmer deny I confirm yes I believe when you meet the one you know and my girl we talked about it we talked about it

Brian Atlaswhatever exclusive go for it yeah so we got we got promised we'll open the upper promise rings hey let's see a little proposal let's see it

Brian Atlaslet's do another woman with this ring huh right are you gonna say anything are you just gonna hold it no I do I do okay that was anticlimactic okay let me

Frankie Dutracome back here all right please graduate college first so what what are the promise rings yeah no that's our plan that's our plan so she's a freshman right now so she's still got a few more years of school

Frankie Dutrashe's only 18. so we talked about it when she turns like around 21 we want to start planning our marriage and then round 23 we talked about already having kids yeah how many kids do you guys want to

Brian Atlashave two three yeah two or three okay good times good times and uh Madison told me that you kind of

Madisonred pilled her a little bit what does that mean what do you mean red pills I was like where are we going

Frankie Dutrayeah I feel like um where I come from if you look up uh California's Cowboy capital of the world is Oakdale California I believe where I come from is a little more conservative and a lot of people have common sense where I'm from and believe in what's

Frankie Dutraright and what's wrong and I believe in what's right and when I came into Madison's life I was telling her what was right and she already agreed with most of the stuff I agree I feel like I grew up like growing up my family was

Madisondefinitely more like conservative than anything else so I kind of grew up with those views but I was less informed on it until I met Frankie and I feel like ever since we met I've just been a

Brian Atlaslittle more informed on it okay good times good times okay so that's everyone's relationship oh I guess Madison what's

Madisonyour relationship status my relationship status is uh very taken still married on the way yo by the way shout out to the chat you guys are legends you guys

Brian Atlasare hilarious we have like 5 000 people watching right now thank you guys so much hit that like button if you can okay so we got a couple topics to get into here so first thing by the way um

Brian Atlashow's the audio quality been has it been okay is it better than previous shows guys if you can let me know quality about the same as it sounds a little better a real ID thing for the

Brian Atlasgifted and then uh guys how's the audio quality good better worse let me know thank you for the gift of memberships guys appreciate it

Brian Atlasum okay let's see here we have to um uh yeah I'm trying to remember what we have to do um

Brian Atlasokay oh we're going to so this is a question for the ladies

Brian AtlasI want you guys oh you know what we should wait until she's back from the bathroom so let me do uh super chats here and then we'll ask a question okay

Brian Atlasuh let's see oh wait what I'm sorry I uh okay yeah you already showed it though

Brian Atlasoops wait did did I remove it yo King think of the 50. I went to college with Amanda AKA never average chick I really want to know glad to see you're doing good on the podcast and making money

Amanda (Never Average Chick)with of go get that cheddar yeah um funny story so I went to a wedding last weekend and it was for one of my best friends and I was in it

Amanda (Never Average Chick)um and I found out that everyone from my college uh has seen some of my of stuff um so that was really interesting especially because a lot of them are in

Amanda (Never Average Chick)relationships and it's been their mans that are watching do you feel like they looked at you differently knowing that you had no actually a lot of them are really supportive um they're like go do it like I'm not

Amanda (Never Average Chick)sleeping around I'm with one guy I'm doing it with him who's also a pastor's son um and yeah you're married you did what to a pastor son uh he's on oaf with me

Madisonoh your husband oh so who does it with you I was just gonna ask like how he feels about you doing it but he does it with you oh yep you said your parents don't know oh right my parents don't know yeah how do

Amanda (Never Average Chick)you keep that from them a lot of stuff you don't think any of your friends or your friends moms or anything no and if and if like my parents are very open and

Amanda (Never Average Chick)they're like you know you're dating a pastor's son are you religious um I'm actually Jewish yeah um and we did like the whole Jewish ceremony like you know

Amanda (Never Average Chick)uh breaking the glass at the wedding so how long have you been doing only fans uh six months six months did you how was that talk with your boy or husband oh he's the one that like kind of was like

Amanda (Never Average Chick)you should just go ahead and do it like why not and at first I was only gonna do like nudes and like take photos and um that was it and then it kind of went I wouldn't say South I went North I

Brian Atlasguess it's only made our relationship better um I think really quick on the on the only fans topic um how long has everyone here been doing it

Brian Atlasseven months seven months you said six what about you probably [Music] a year and a few months like it okay got it uh I'm curious about this

Brian Atlasso and we've had a lot of uh girls who do only fans come be on the show um people who do sex work uh Curious like earnings wise I know a lot of you can make a lot of money

Brian Atlasum you used to do it you used to do escorting too um you you did of for six years or you did sex work for a total of six years six years but of well it was patreon before yeah it was like yeah yeah so

Leah (Beret Girl)I've been online for about five years sure can you talk a little bit about the uh Revenue earnings you're making so I was 18 when I first started baby um and there's obviously a market for that because men are depraved uh my

Brian Atlasfirst month I made 20 seconds what do you mean men are depraved

Leah (Beret Girl)men are the buyers of yeah men are the buyers of pornography and prostitution Okay so you go ahead uh yeah so my first month I made twenty seven thousand dollars wow

Leah (Beret Girl)wow um and then I made a study stream of over 20 000 for about three years and then it per month yeah so you averaged about 20 000 per month yeah okay

Leah (Beret Girl)um which is not usual I want to say that any woman watching this that is that is the top one percent of only fans and only fans uh the top one percent makes

Amanda (Never Average Chick)about 44 of the website's Revenue I'll say now mostly Point like nine because even top one I was I was talking about one quick question most women make about a hundred dollars

Brian Atlasa month you said your first month you made 27k but obviously only fans wasn't around then so when you turned 18 did you immediately go into patreon like kind of what what was the uh timeline because you said you did escorting too

Leah (Beret Girl)so did you jump right into escorting or was that later so I was a homeless teen okay so I was doing I was doing work before I turned 18 and around the time I turned 18. uh and then when I was about

Leah (Beret Girl)I think going into my 19th birthdays when I switched over to online because I had a negative experience with a John and I figured that it was just more safe to do everything online okay

Brian Atlasbut so you got started pretty quickly with the escorting yes immediately but you said you had a bad experience and then you did you stop entirely because you said you switched to just doing online so do you mean you stopped

Brian Atlasescorting and then you just started doing like uh patreon yeah okay immediate switch so it was pretty short-term the period of time that you were escorting less than a year less than a year okay just curious um

Brian Atlasand the so the 27k that you made that first month that was primarily from uh escorting no oh no I was making nothing escorting uh that was um just one sec the landlife thing for the 10 gifted

Leah (Beret Girl)memberships appreciate it sorry go ahead I was making very very little escorting um because that like you can't really go online and do whatever uh but I had already built a I used to have like a meme account on Twitter where I'd go

Leah (Beret Girl)like viral for like funny tweets and people would always be like I'd pay to see you naked I'd do it you know I all these things and I was like okay well I'll just start the patreon and because I was so young

MadisonI think you know promoting yourself is pretty easy on Twitter platform the reason that you started though because people on Twitter would say things like that that was the reason that I started

Leah (Beret Girl)doing the online stuff um but I I mean there are lots of reasons why uh teenage girl starts sex work but I think one of the reasons I was working at Hooters actually

Leah (Beret Girl)um and people were paying for my panties uh so then I was like okay well I'm just gonna go on seeking arrangements before then I was um this was right before I turned I

Leah (Beret Girl)don't know how illegal I'd want to say anything illegal about selling methamphetamine you know okay okay there was just no it was never selling drugs sorry I'm I'm a Shaker I'm a shake I'm a

Leah (Beret Girl)mover and a Shaker um wait so what were you doing uh I was I was just on seeking Arrangements but I was using a different name a different ID

Leah (Beret Girl)I was Finding ways to make money illegally for about six months and then I turned 18 on seeking yeah escorting yeah but you said you found

Brian Atlasways to make money illegally I mean escorting is I was underage oh you were you were under 18. yes yikes yeah that's a

Brian Atlasbecause I thought you said you said you started at 18. I sorry about 18. the you said what maybe that was just the online

Leah (Beret Girl)content that yeah okay yeah I moved on to everything was yeah patreon was 18. I was of age for patreon okay but the escorting you were under yes for a couple months

Brian Atlasyikes okay that's not that's that's that's yeah okay illegal activity is understood okay it's pretty tragic yeah so uh you said you you were

Brian Atlasescorting um how many and I know they're called John's how many marks too I've heard uh how many

Leah (Beret Girl)men have I slept with in the escorting sense very few like okay five or six maybe four or five yeah around that okay so not like no I did it for I didn't do it yeah I only did it

Brian Atlasfor a matter of months and it was the same person over and over sure okay and you were on seeking so you had some sugar daddies I imagine just whatever how many how many different men were you

Leah (Beret Girl)finessing on seeking well I was actually robbing a lot of men on seeking you're robbing well I was doing both I was yeah I was doing both I mean listen I was a homeless I was a homeless teen I was

Leah (Beret Girl)living out of my car out of a motel all my friends you know couches uh but I was hustling I was doing okay if you want to meet up give me 400 and then they give me 400 and then I'd go ghost

Leah (Beret Girl)um which serves them right they're trying to buy sex from a 18 year old your money's gonna get taken you should be in jail so well it's still wait sir you like

Brian Atlasjustifying the fraud I'm just trying I think it's completely Justified I think that you should be a felon if you buy sex interesting okay so well I mean you you admitted as much

Brian Atlasearlier on during your introduction your anti sexy sex industry okay so what quick question but I want to continue a little bit on this um do you think that

Brian Atlasso you think procuring sex work should be criminalized you know in terms of I believe in the Nordic model so it's criminalized for men to buy but it's not criminalized for women to sell

Brian Atlaswell what if a woman wanted to buy would that also be criminal women do not buy sex but yes it would be criminalized well generally speaking it's there's not a huge market for it but I'm sure you

Brian Atlascould acknowledge there are some there are very very few very few it would still be criminalized yeah okay gotcha okay so but the prostitutes or women who are

Brian Atlasprostituting or escorting you don't think that they ought to also be uh I think they should be helped okay yeah I think that there should be social

Leah (Beret Girl)Outreach programs um and that they should be given the tools to get most women don't get a prostitution because they want to that's a very Western did she leave or I think she went to the bathroom oh

Frankie Dutraokay I thought that was the no that was the door door yeah that was the door door yeah the bathroom door is definitely open herpes is here so she's coming back okay in any case um

Leah (Beret Girl)sorry uh yeah well I was saying uh it's a very Western idea that women uh want to do sex work um most women who are getting into sex work there's a lot of bustling happening most of them who get into sex work are

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