CANCELLED?! JustPearlyThings, She Is PREGNANT?! | Dating Talk #76

Date: 2023-05-22
Duration: 5h 28m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Jamie(guest)
SPEAKER_03Gwen(guest)
SPEAKER_05Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_06Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_08Hannah Mariama(guest)
SPEAKER_09Zoe Sin(guest)
SPEAKER_11Elle(guest)
SPEAKER_12Madison Boo(guest)
SPEAKER_13Michaela(guest)
SPEAKER_14Kirsten(guest)

Key Moments

00:19:00
Key MomentKiana Kumani announces she is 5 weeks pregnant. Pregnancy unplanned; father in picture but relationship is complicated.

um I'm pregnant so you're pregnant congratulations um like six weeks or what are we talking about like five weeks

01:01:09
QuotePearl argues she rates herself a 5 because most people are average by definition — if you're an 8, you should have top-20% beauty results.

I say five I think I'm an average chick

02:39:30
QuoteBrian and Pearl discuss MLD 'endure' clip that went viral, defending the full context. Brian states his clear position: if you're being physically abused, get out.

Point Blank period Mike my take is if you're being abused whether emotionally physically whatever it may be but your question is physically abused like get out

02:41:00
ControversyPearl argues false abuse accusations are rampant and we should require evidence before believing abuse claims. Jamie (SPEAKER_02) pushes back, saying she witnessed a friend's abuse and police did nothing.

women cry abuse for everything and we've actually lost the meaning of abuse

02:42:00
QuotePearl discusses working on a divorce documentary interviewing men harmed by false abuse allegations in family court proceedings.

I I'm doing a divorce documentary and so I'm actually interviewing men that are in the process of getting like absolutely wrecked by divorce

03:10:18
QuoteElle reveals her body count is somewhere in the 90-150 range, started at age 15. Has never cheated in a committed relationship.

it's over what I know it's definitely over like 50 probably over 90 probably over 150

03:12:24
QuoteZoe Sin reveals body count ~100+ including a foursome in a Honda Civic at age 19.

I was like 19 I had a foursome with three girls in the back of my Honda Civic

03:30:24
QuoteZoe Sin delivers accountability-focused take: people would stop arguing about these topics if they were truly happy living the life they chose.

if people were truly happy in how they lived life no one would give a [__] about any of this

Topics Discussed

00:00:00
Introductions

Guests introduce themselves (twice due to technical audio failure). Panel includes Pearl Davis (JustPearlyThings), Kiana Kumani (announces pregnancy), Gwen, Jamie, Byronique/Barbie, Elle, Hannah Mariama, Zoe Sin, Michaela, Kirsten.

00:25:00
Relationship status and deal-breakers

Panel goes around on current relationship status, longest relationships, and whether a man who won't go down on his partner is a deal-breaker.

00:59:10
Self-ratings and beauty standards

Debate on objective vs. subjective beauty, golden ratio, cultural differences in beauty standards, and whether self-rating 10 reflects confidence or delusion. Pearl argues most people are average by definition (rates herself 5).

01:15:00
Sex work, OnlyFans, and pornography industry

Discussion of escorting, management agencies, fake titties (show of hands: 3 at table), STD testing, family reactions to adult content, and whether OF models face trade-offs in relationships. Kiana discusses growing up in a Playboy-adjacent household.

02:11:40
OnlyFans management and authenticity

Discussion of management companies for OF creators, whether fans are talking to the real person, and different levels of management involvement.

02:39:30
MLD 'endure' abuse controversy

Discussion of viral clip from MLD's episode where he appeared to say women in abusive marriages should endure. Brian and Pearl defend full-clip context. Pearl critiques broadening of abuse definitions and false accusations in family court.

02:42:00
Pearl's beef and internet controversy

Brian asks Pearl about her current beefs — Brittany Venti hit piece discussed. Pearl's perspective on reaction channels taking clips out of context.

02:48:00
Blue-collar men vs. OnlyFans women

Viewer super-chat question about whether blue-collar men working 80+ hours/week are more overlooked than women on OnlyFans. Panel debates value and desirability.

03:00:00
Alien dating, random questions, and viewer super chats

Viewer asks if panelists would date/sleep with an alien (humanoid). Discussion of Avatar, interracial preferences. Brian attempts to set up Byronique with Chase.

03:05:00
Body count and promiscuity debate

Extended debate on whether body count matters, should it matter, Pearl vs. panel on data about promiscuity outcomes (divorce, antidepressants, STDs). Panel goes around table sharing body counts. Zoe Sin and Pearl largely agree on accountability but differ on prescriptiveness.

04:14:00
After-show with Madison Boo

After main show, Madison Boo (18, Whatever staff 'Easter egg') joins. Super chats read. Guests discuss future show guests (Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate, Destiny, Ben Shapiro). Brian discusses technical issues (computer crash). Pearl discusses podcasting as a career and potential move plans.

Transcript

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02:58:13
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)shape and so it's like you have a guy that can get to like the Pinnacle of what women want like you know tall muscles money whatever and like those guys don't expect a virgin because like the quality of women has just gone down
02:58:26
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)today like the average partner count is like what I mean they say like between five and eight um and like you know that after like five to seven
02:58:36
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)Partners your chance of a happy marriage drops to like 20 in 10 years roughly why though yeah if you're I mean why does body count matter so [ __ ] much I
02:58:47
Jamiemean I mean you're gonna find different studies that you're predicting that part of the reason that your chance of having marriage go down is because you have more experience and you know what you
02:58:57
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)want why and it is in a relationships you know about it like oh I mean I just wanna I just want to ask like how is it working like how is women having more Partners working in
02:59:09
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)society is it doing is it leading us to having more fulfilling long happy relationships or not because 100 years ago we're getting the relationships
02:59:18
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)100 years ago only 15 of women admitted to premarital sex 85 percent of women you know why let's say they're a lot let's say they're big liars and we double it okay that's still two out of three that were
02:59:29
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)virgins on their wedding night and so like my question is are relationships in a better place today than they were 100 years ago because say say what you want about relationships 100 years ago you cannot tell me that the way
02:59:41
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)relationships are today they are working like half of our generation is afraid of getting married because of what we've seen in our parents yeah like that is a horrible place to stay together because they felt like they no they didn't our
02:59:51
Jamieparents are that's not true their parents are the most no no I'm talking about like generationally no for so long
03:00:00
Jamiewomen didn't have the autonomy to say no and to ask I demand what they want and now women do they can say no I don't want that I don't want you you don't
03:00:12
Jamiemake me happy I want what makes me happy okay and that's why I think that is that what a real relationship is no I think it goes both ways 100 I think the man gets to say no that doesn't make me happy but the thing is it was only
03:00:25
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)one-sided for so long I want to look at what outcomes have women had so not like personally anecdotally this is just in society what outcomes has this led to one in three women have had an abortion
03:00:36
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)one in three women have an STD 90 of women have been on contraceptives at one point in their life women are on antidepressants more than ever before what has promiscuity led to why are we
03:00:48
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)magnifying us well why can't we why can't we have a conversation about women without saying butt men like we're just talking about the women now so we can come back to the men later I'm not saying men are perfect
03:01:00
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)but I'm saying like if if we're so happy and promiscuity leads to great things why is it when our body cats go up where we have more STDs more abortions we're
03:01:11
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)on antidepressants more like it's not good you don't body count yeah go ahead I personally don't think that it's just like oh yeah you should just [ __ ]
03:01:24
JamieWhoever Whenever at any time you want just legs wide open anyone can get in I don't think that that's necessarily healthy but I do think that it is your
03:01:35
Brian Atlasit's your life and your decision if you if I want to have more than one sexual partner in my life that's it I haven't and it hasn't what like on that topic let me just come in here for a sec Pearl
03:01:48
Brian Atlasum if you want to have more than one sexual partner at a time uh what's the most you've had at one time oh at one time I don't think I've ever had more than one oh well then what are you
03:01:57
TTS/Miscarguing for no I mean in my life like if I don't want to only ever have sex thank you man I appreciate it now that the US government has admitted that UFOs
03:02:11
Miscintelligence is real and has visited us would you date outside your race alien oh helium [Music]
03:02:22
Miscwhat kind of what kind would you date outside your your like I think what what face do we
03:02:31
Brian Atlasgot I would I would definitely [ __ ] an alien I would so [ __ ] alien but like if it was a human the way the alien you know but if it was like some [ __ ]
03:02:41
Brian Atlassome like weird looking yeah if it was like humanoid alien I'm down
03:02:51
Kirstenshe has no Poker Face I'm just picturing some kind of like giant spider with like [ __ ]
03:03:00
Elleyeah I can't picture aliens like a blue app like the blue Avatar Avatar that's not how I'm [ __ ] connected
03:03:10
Brian AtlasI need my extensions back y'all bro turbo you you wyling yeah um who here would let's say it's like an alien but it it kind of looks like a
03:03:21
Brian Atlashuman like human shape and it's like got parts and [ __ ] but I don't know it's got like some weird I don't know I mean if it's hot and you'd [ __ ] Avatar oh hell yeah you're here
03:03:31
Miscwith [ __ ] an avid the navi I think they're called yeah I don't know
03:03:39
Brian Atlasif he was cool if the alien was cool you'd [ __ ] him [Laughter] okay
03:03:51
Brian Atlasall right I got it okay wow that was an interesting one okay we were talking about um you said you've only dated one person at the time yeah
03:04:00
Jamieword there's never been any crossover no I actually it like really stresses me out even when your friends are throwing you under the bus you just laughed at you it's been like three days you don't even know me that well that one does
03:04:12
Jamieokay so you're saying that maybe there's like Chaz on Sunday and Gustavo it really stresses me out to try and juggle relationships so I really try to avoid it just one at
03:04:25
Brian Atlasa time yeah in a 72-hour period what's the most amount of guys that you've like ever ever hooked up with in a 72-hour period of time three days uh I think two telling the truth yes I think so you
03:04:38
Jamiethink so I'm like yeah I contradict what you just said yeah but I when I was saying like sexual partners I'm a more like relationship wise like if I am involved with someone I don't
03:04:51
Jamiewant to be involved with anybody else the same like I can't speak for everybody um I've had my nights where I got a little too [ __ ] up and made poor decisions
03:05:04
Brian Atlasum what about in the Fortnight what's the most important in the Fortnight it's like 14 days
03:05:14
Brian Atlasclarify the 2 in 72 hours was it 48 Hours yeah yeah was it 24 hours was it seven hours was it one hour
03:05:25
Brian Atlasboth at the same time or one right after the other just take me out oh what just a minute I'm in the threesome that's something
03:05:36
Brian Atlasit would I think it would be worse if it was like one and then like 30 minutes later other dude you might as well just say yeah okay
03:05:48
Brian Atlaswell in terms of like the scale of like sexual ethics and morality which is uh whatever I feel like a threesome you think a threesome is better than I think
03:05:59
Brian Atlasa threesome would be better than back to back I I don't disagree like because they know about like because the second dude is just like just you know what I mean
03:06:11
Brian Atlasit's Haram Pearl um so but what about the Fortnight what's the most in the fortnite and we're going around the table on this one so get ready
03:06:22
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)yeah okay Kiana kumani 14 days four score and seven years ago how many
03:06:33
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)people I've slept with in 14 days we're in the porn industry what do you mean a lot that's not fair civilian like civvies oh civilians civilians can't all laugh at you
03:06:45
Brian AtlasI think three three yeah well I yeah in the 70s how much in the 72 hour period and then a fortnight two two and three two
03:06:56
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)for both or for just one I think two yeah two for 72 hours it was two and then well I was pissed at the first one so I kind of got back at him a good time it was only two
03:07:06
Brian Atlassure okay if you say so um wait so Counting Johnny Sins
03:07:16
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)how much or sorry not like just with the porn industry including in 14 days I've had I've had five shoots in 14 days before
03:07:25
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)and one of those shoots was um a threesome so seven word okay um what about you what's the most in 72 hours
03:07:36
Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)I mean I think three and three three and three yeah 72 and Fortnight what about you one for both yeah okay byronique what's up
03:07:45
Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)none honey I had no dicks since uh September I never had no Fortnight whatever our toys are tired nothing
03:07:58
Brian Atlasall right rip okay um how many how many people you've hooked up with within a 72 hour period throughout your whole life and then also a 14-day period throughout my whole life
03:08:11
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)I've already been over this I don't know my number are you talking about like my back in a 72-hour period um like in 72 hours yeah like at the
03:08:20
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)most uh probably two wait uh chat really quick wait two in the 17. unless you're talking about threesomes because I wasn't a polyamorous relationship with a female at one point in my life and that
03:08:32
Brian Atlaswas the last relationship I was in sure okay yeah oh by the way chat can you let me know did flan life gift 50 did he gift 50 because if so we need to do a fit check
03:08:43
Brian Atlasdid we get a 50 gifted chat hello um okay and so in a fortnight too how many three no I said I said if we're are we counting threesomes because I had an
03:08:54
Elleex-girlfriend sure okay because because I had an ex-girlfriend we um we had a we had a threesome um with well it's still it's still the same girl so do I count the same growth
03:09:05
Brian Atlaswise no no no no no just one time okay then two because yeah and then still two okay we can skip Michaela because yeah um
03:09:15
Hannah Mariamauh one I've only ever been with my husband so really yeah okay I highly hey I highly recommend it yeah you're waiting I would highly recommend it highly recommended really stressful otherwise
03:09:27
Zoe Sinso you said so like I don't know I think my 72 hours and then 14. I was like 19 I had a foursome with three girls in the back of my Honda Civic and then I don't know so I say 75 hours probably like [ __ ] [ __ ] I was so young okay
03:09:45
Zoe Sinthat's some [ __ ] twister we're all really skinny oh we were drunk and [ __ ] there were some in the front some in the back and the little car it was great how do you comfortably eat it it was not comfortable we were drunk as [ __ ] I don't even know if we did it correctly I
03:09:57
Ellejust know that somebody was falling out on the window yeah somebody got a question sorry in the sunroom two weeks
03:10:09
Brian Atlasum Archduke Franz Ferdinand back there do you want to answer this
03:10:17
Brian Atlasin the fortnight 14 days you sure about that yeah okay all right we have uh American Grizzly thing for the 50. um okay uh by the way
03:10:29
Brian Atlasjust reminder uh read is 100 or 99 a month okay so one one all right so we're gonna go around
03:10:40
Brian Atlasthe table on this for well first off to show of hands um should body count matter
03:10:53
Brian Atlasnot at all raise if you think body count no raise your hand if you think body count shouldn't matter should not matter
03:11:02
Gwenraise them high raise them high I'm like there's an in-between Rays there's a line where it's a concern should matter shouldn't matter
03:11:15
Brian Atlasobviously my dumb ass is gonna say it's gonna matter okay well so with that said for those of you along we're going to ask everyone but if body count shouldn't matter what's your body count
03:11:30
Ellenew stream okay I'm not a weird high school boy that keeps it in my notes um it's but you know it's over what I know it's definitely over like 50
03:11:41
Elleprobably over 90 probably over 150. definitely not over 100 you said last time you said yeah I don't think I don't think it's like I don't know like I wouldn't say it's [ __ ] like 200 like I feel like that's crazy throw under the
03:11:53
Kirstenbus come on guys dude as a house our answer was I think it's about 200 including men and women
03:12:02
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)yes that was last time how old are you again when did you start having sex
03:12:13
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)um rules going in I consensually started having sex when I was 15 15. so this is all in six years
03:12:26
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)I honestly honestly don't think it's anywhere close to 200 I think it's more close to us wait how do you make it better even if it's like 100 do you feel like sex has changed for you since you like had a lower body count to a higher or do you feel like it's the same yeah I
03:12:40
Ellethink um sex has definitely changed for me from uh probably like when I was in a polyamorous relationship I think that that changed my perspective
03:12:52
Elleof sex a lot because I was deeply in love with somebody and I kind of um changed my way of like what I thought
03:13:04
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)I wanted in a relationship to appeal to them because I wanted them to be with me so badly that I was willing to watch them you know enjoy other people with me
03:13:16
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)which isn't something that I was originally like super okay with in in hindsight in the beginning and like now that I've kind of
03:13:26
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)like ex clearly experienced things I think for me eventually I'm not saying like right now or in the near future I don't know what the future holds for me but I just wouldn't say like I'm going
03:13:39
Elleto um not want to like chill and then settle down eventually and find the right person but I'm also like aware that like me coming on the
03:13:50
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)internet and broadcasting something that most people are not comfortable sharing like a lot of women will sit there and lie and just completely manipulate their narrative into being oh my body counts super [ __ ] well I've never been that
03:14:03
Elletype of person that's not gonna I'm bold as [ __ ] I will say I'll hold my truth like I do not care like at least at least I don't know
03:14:13
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)my God uh sweet two thing for the 20 gift to continue continue out of out of the like roughly 100 150 whatever like 200 yeah whatever it is how many I'm
03:14:24
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)just curious how many would you say you loved um probably only like
03:14:34
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)probably only like five wow wow and I probably didn't hook up with um I probably didn't hook up with like a good like 80 of them again like most of
03:14:47
Elleit was just like one night stands yeah would you say you enjoyed like percentage probably barely anything probably like probably like 20 to 30 percent or number like number okay wait
03:15:00
Elleso before we continue on time and probably most of that 30 people were women before we continue talking about that I want everyone else to give their answer so
03:15:12
Brian Atlaslet's go start here and then move our way around for body count yeah 35 35 including including porn including porn I haven't been in the porn industry what about excluding porn exclude I think it's
03:15:26
Gwenit's only you've only worked with 10 guys I've only worked with 10 guys okay um I've re-shot with a lot of them sure I mean God I don't want to like lie I
03:15:38
Gwendon't know that I honestly know the number I would say if I was gonna guess like around like 20. remember I'm the old lady here um but I definitely went through periods of being more sexually like [ __ ]
03:15:51
Gwenpromiscuous or empowered or whatever Explorer explorative um but yeah I would say around there but honestly I don't know like I I don't know around 20. I mean it could be less
03:16:07
Brian Atlascould be more we don't know kind of like your original 25 five year one I think in the range of that but like um wait can you just scoot into the time I mean yeah encounting women
03:16:18
Jamiemore than that so I'd say men sure wait can you just get into the table and have the mic on the table what about you um same I'm not 100 sure on how many but either 30 or 40s
03:16:41
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)[Music]
03:16:48
Elle[Music] wait here you don't say anything just go like this for how many I'm pretty sure this girl did not say
03:16:58
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)that number in the car I could have sworn you when I said 45 or 50. didn't I just say somewhere like 30s 40s that's not 45 or 50. okay so wait is 50.
03:17:10
TTS/Miscyeah I really don't know yeah hold on just a sec guys it's okay girl one second to stop the MF cap
03:17:22
Brian Atlasum what is that wait okay 40 year old you need to stop the MF cap I think she's saying he thinks you're 40. I don't think you're 40. are you 40 are
03:17:33
Brian Atlasyou 40. not 40. by the way into the mic please if you can believe it or not okay um yeah you guys are gonna have a very interesting car ride back yeah well I'm actually staying here oh you're staying
03:17:45
Brian Atlashere yeah my boyfriend goes to school here he goes to UCSB yeah oh convenient oh we should have you on the show more often then um okay uh so
03:17:56
Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)50 it could be could be all right what about you Kirsten six six okay byronique all right stuff it really ain't nobody [ __ ] [ __ ]
03:18:06
Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)I like the fact that people is all about [ __ ] shaming and Body Count look we get horny to us [ __ ] like some dick you know we shouldn't have to if you can't be in a relationship you should be able to get that dick you feel me like it's
03:18:18
Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)it's healthy that's a part of being healthy it's not just your physical that you know is all a part of it you need to get that vitamin D like you understand what I'm saying so it shouldn't be nobody shaming about how many bodies you
03:18:30
Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)got a lot you feel me like it is what it is like and you know to be honest [ __ ] I forgot I stopped counting after 10 because it ain't nobody [ __ ] business you could literally catch AIDS
03:18:41
Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)after having sex [ __ ] one time or you know you could beat and [ __ ] a million people and not have nothing you get what I'm saying so it don't matter it if you had a brother would you would you tell him it doesn't matter and like the girls
03:18:53
Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)he's picking look I tell him strap up if you want to make sure you don't die out here you understand what I'm saying but if you want to be promiscuous honey it's it's 2023 baby it ain't our grandparents time
03:19:07
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)no more no but I'm not like this I've been talking about like short term I'm talking about long-term so what do you mean like if you want to get married should you be [ __ ] other people in your mouth no no I'm saying like if you if your brother had two girls to pick
03:19:19
Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)from all things being equal one slept with 50 dudes one slept with two who would you tell them to pick it that ain't got nothing to do with it that ain't got nothing to do with nothing like my girlfriend you say it's about the what the person is their heart their
03:19:32
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)soul their Spirit we don't give a [ __ ] about who they didn't [ __ ] that don't mean what money that none of them but I think the idea is like if she's been with 50 people like how how what are the odds your brother or the guy is going to
03:19:43
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)be the best she's ever had like how is he supposed to compete is is that what should matter and also if you asked me how many of my actual
03:19:54
Ellecommitted if you ask me how many of my relationships I've cheated on zero zero I might I might be a [ __ ] [ __ ] but I am not a like liar cheater any of
03:20:06
Ellethat [ __ ] I do not I didn't say you were a liar I know I'm just saying that's another stigma it's like just because just because my body count is high and my my sex drive is high does not mean that I'm I can't be in a
03:20:18
Jamiecommitted relationship anywhere from I don't even know how many people but my current boyfriend is the most sexually comfortable person I have
03:20:27
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)ever been with and like it's amazing right and but like my my thing is we can make inferences Based on data and all of the data says that when women are virgins on their wedding night that is
03:20:39
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)the highest chance they have at a happy success
03:20:52
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)most of the time if you get better like if you slept with 50 dudes there's no way you're gonna keep the best guy out of the 50. why not why not because as you get older you realize it's not just
03:21:02
Zoe Sinabout the size of his dick you learn so much from others experience hold on wait so to me if you marry the girl let's say you're 35 you're both 35 years old whatever who cares about the
03:21:14
Zoe Sinwhole like age thing you're 35 and she slept with 50 people use like 50 people let's just say you have somebody who's 35 yourself with one person women reach the height of their horniness in their 30s who's more likely to cheat on you
03:21:27
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)because you're just not self-satisfying her because she has no experience she doesn't know anything better this isn't even a personal thing like I'm talking about numbers data why are we debasing the human complex experience to be data
03:21:38
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)and statistics and I can take and I can take and I can take it anecdotally where you know the girl that's on only fans is saying she's on antidepressants like there's more problems when you sleep with more people and I think like that
03:21:50
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)and I think ignoring this is just delusional why do you think that is there why do you why because I don't think women are meant to sleep around like that I think yeah
03:22:02
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)correlation is delusional do we not have needs it's just as much as me and want [ __ ] we want it like or are women horny sure yes but that doesn't mean we're meant to be sleeping with a whole bunch
03:22:13
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)of dudes but me and all and I think and I think what what can attest to this is the one who waited till she was married married is the one that is like is the one that's married here and seems to be in a happy healthy relation could that
03:22:25
Kirstenbe that is because the majority of virgins on their wedding day are religious that is a religious thing and in the Bible it says that you are supposed to be without one person for the rest of your life so could that be because that is a religious thing I
03:22:37
Jamiethink religion is great I think religion helps so I think it's beautiful if you want to make that decision for yourself that's fine but I'm not sit here and and judge other people who
03:22:47
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)don't try and throw data statistics and I'm saying let's look at results like I I think just like in good faith results maybe 50 people and I'm telling you as a
03:22:59
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)person sitting right in front of you that the person I am with right now is my favorite okay well I'm really happy for you I really am but I'm saying across the board like this is the thing with women like you always take it
03:23:11
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)personal like I'm talking about you and I'm not talking about you guys personally but we look at society as a whole the outcomes for women for sleeping around are not good were more divorced we're more on antidepressants we're less
03:23:23
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)happy than we've ever been women and women do it again and you're doing it again I can't make a statement about women without saying but men men have issues
03:23:33
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)no it's because we in order to have a conversation in order to have a conversation about anything we have to have generalization that's also why I said yeah to an extent body count shouldn't matter I don't know why we can't like open up the conversation to
03:23:46
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)also just discuss promiscuity in general I think because you're right there's a lot of depression associated with promiscuity but on both genders it happens there's a lot of guys who are just not the same though it affects women more and the data will tell you
03:23:57
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)that you're right like the best outcome is when they're both virgins on their wedding night like that is the best I've never taken this survey by the way so they don't hurt my way I'm not really sure what the source is okay they've
03:24:08
Jamiedone they've done multiple studies I think you mean the people who stay together but the people who know they ask them if they're happy in their marriage that's what they would do they would come back 10 years later and ask
03:24:19
Byronique / Kirsten (mixed)if they're happily married yes or no to be honest living in L.A if I would have been waiting for marriage for a [ __ ] to put a ring on my finger I would have been dead like you you [ __ ] around and die a virgin like waiting are you
03:24:30
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)kidding me like ain't no way you want but one in three manners that one in three men are sexless so there are men that will wait but the problem is like women can see in L.A women women can sleep up so typically women sleep
03:24:43
Jamieabove their level I don't disagree with you when you say that like full promiscuity is not good for you when I got most of those sexual partners that I
03:24:53
Jamiehave were when I was young and I was not happy with myself and yeah I regret it and it did make me feel good and I spent a long time not being with anybody but I
03:25:04
Miscalso honestly we agree we agree it's not good for women I think I wasn't done okay um so yeah I don't disagree that full
03:25:15
Jamiepromiscuity is is not great for you but I do not 100 do not agree that being with one person for your entire life is good for you what what value I don't
03:25:26
Hannah Mariamaagree with that it's it's and I will say that because uh sitting at this table here I have had the longest relationship and I say that and I say that because a huge part of and I'm not gonna say it's Superior because I'm not going to tell
03:25:39
Hannah Mariamapeople how to live their lives everybody live a life how you how you want to live you know but I will say the simplest way I can explain it is when you involve multiple people in anything it's very complicated yeah and and
03:25:51
Hannah Mariamahearing all of these stories from all of you what I hear is it's really complicated it's really stressful and I've actually talked to my husband about this before but I just told him I was like I'm really glad that I didn't sleep with anybody before you because it does
03:26:03
Hannah Mariamaseem like it's really stressful and it's really complicated yeah and there is an outsized amount of risk for women there is we are the ones that end up on the receiving end of all we are the ones that end up on the receiving end of a
03:26:15
Hannah Mariamalot of STDs we have the complications from that down the road and it is risky and so the less risk you expose yourself to the the less risk you will actually have happened to you and so that's all I can speak to yeah
03:26:31
Jamieand I'm not it's not my favorite decisions your decision if you want to be with just your husband that's fine solve any problems
03:26:43
Hannah MariamaI am going to say this though like but but you did say you don't think it's healthy to be with one person and like fundamentally even though I I understand you don't like the stats she's talking about and I'm not going to say that people don't have successful
03:26:56
Hannah Mariamarelationships any any which way right it doesn't matter it's there are people that have successful relationships and they come from all different backgrounds and they have all different body counts but what I will say is the idea that one man and one woman only sleeping with
03:27:08
Jamieeach other is not a healthy relationship can I I that's probably not the words that I wanted to use and you're right about that I it's not that I don't think it's
03:27:19
Jamiehealthy I don't think that it's it can be healthy like I don't think like you think it it's like for you I don't know your relationship personally yeah and your relationship could be perfect I
03:27:31
Jamiedon't know that no but I think those relationship is perfect but you know what I mean I don't know I don't know you personally and I don't know your relationship but I do think that pushing the the Purity narrative is oh a really
03:27:43
Hannah Mariamaeasy way to put a lot of girls in a really unsafe did you hear I didn't say anything about religion I didn't say anything about purity I said I'm just saying like one person oh like you like
03:27:54
Jamiepushing the narrative that being with only one person it
03:28:03
Hannah Mariamabecause it's like I said more factors yeah but that's why I'm saying I think it matters I think I know just just fundamentally more factors more risk less factors less risk it's literally that simple my life has been easier my
03:28:16
Hannah Mariamalife has been happier because I have because you got lucky and you picked the right guy it wasn't luck it was very intentional and that's actually something I think a lot of people this is what happens with the dating apps too and sorry now she said she dated her her
03:28:29
Ellehusband correct me if I'm wrong she said she was in a eight year right yeah five five years yeah so she dated him for like three [ __ ] years before she but I'm saying
03:28:40
Hannah Mariamawe don't see that that kind of man when women are getting it it's not always abusive from day one but mostly you know I wouldn't say that most men are abusive and most women are abused so and what I'm talking about is
03:28:54
Hannah Mariamathe fact that like because what you're what you're talking about is you're saying that women are being put at risk by Sleeping with one person not only and that's fundamentally not true I think that I think that maybe you're missing I'm just saying by pushing
03:29:06
Jamiebut the narrative I'm saying is that it's simpler to only sleep with one person that's not really a narrative but lack of experience is what puts you in I guarantee you I guarantee you know what I mean and I'm not saying sexually I'm
03:29:17
Jamiejust saying with people in general when you just go when you decide like one person that's it you yeah you get to know someone for a long time but you don't know who that person is until they
03:29:30
Hannah Mariamashow you who they are well then you know you know the people you by that logic though then you know the people you sleep with even less because of the amount of time you spent with my husband I again exposed to more risk not you specifically but you the theoretical but
03:29:42
Hannah Mariamathat's why when I when I say like I think body count matters to a certain extent you know what I mean it matters because like I said people people come like I'm not gonna say that and do I think that it has an effect in the data
03:29:55
Hannah Mariamayeah but am I going to say that it's going to affect someone's personal relationship I don't know I don't know because there is data but there are also people I agree with what you said earlier yeah and that kind of that kind of reminds me of um you actually had this one girl on here she was wearing
03:30:07
Ellelike a pink mask and how to kind of accent I don't know if you remember who I'm talking about but she yeah yeah yeah but she didn't she didn't she was saying something that I kind of agree with when she said you know you can't just narrow
03:30:19
Ellesomeone down to just a number I I agree when you when you say that and I know that you're not coming from that standpoint at all whatsoever so don't think I'm just directly talking to you but just like
03:30:30
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)when a guy here is a high a higher number than six five eight whatever your statistics or whatever I mean I'm just saying they immediately put you into a box and that's something that even
03:30:43
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)Justin on the last podcast and him and I talked about like it's just this thing where it's like this construct of oh I'm gonna be compared to this many men so holy [ __ ] and I mean I get it to an
03:30:56
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)extent but it's like bro if you feel like if you feel like you're not up to the like it shouldn't even matter because it's very simple guys don't want [ __ ] we don't want to we don't want to date
03:31:08
Brian Atlasthe Town Bicycle but they want you to be a [ __ ] in the bedroom no not not necessarily but look guys care about body count Point Blank period like it is what it is and I don't even get such
03:31:18
Brian Atlasblanket statements generally speaking generally speaking men don't want to date promiscuous women or women with a high body count
03:31:29
Ellewhat hi it varies
03:31:36
Brian Atlasit depends I mean that's some of the studies indicate that once you get over six that's when your likelihood of for example uh divorce increases dramatically um I I don't remember the exact numbers
03:31:48
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)actually I'm gonna come back on the podcast when I'm married for three years I'm gonna do it but the whole point is whenever men have standards we shame them for having standards like if a girl if a girl says like I don't want to date
03:32:00
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)a guy that's short and broken fat okay fine no like they're not going to argue with that but if a guy says I want to go with a low body count like we argue for for hours I would argue with a woman that's not like that what you're saying
03:32:12
Jamiebut you're saying like don't judge and I just I honestly think you said that you said that earlier yes you did I never said that I was gonna judge a guy who wants to be with a girl no no but who's
03:32:23
Jamieonly had one one partner or you were saying we shouldn't be so judgmental I never I never said anything judgmental about a man who prefers that but we're talking we've been talking about body count for the past 30 years okay but my
03:32:35
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)whole point is that like what did I say that was judgmental no I said you said something about that we shouldn't be so judgmental yeah yeah okay okay that's what I'm addressing and I'm saying okay you know I I don't think it's kind to act like people don't judge you for
03:32:48
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)promiscuity I don't think that's kind to women I think it's better to be honest and the world doesn't owe you understanding the world will judge you for your decisions like you don't get to get out of jail free card and I I think it's dishonest to say that like men
03:33:01
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)don't care about that stuff and there's going to be no consequences because a lot of you guys have said yourself that there are like you've said it out of your mouth
03:33:12
Brian AtlasI mean I don't think that I have sat here and said that there aren't consequences okay don't worry about that but you were saying that there's something about value you were upset that men value this in women and that
03:33:23
Brian Atlasyou're thinking that men are diminishing women's value to their body count that's not the case I don't think I don't think hold on let me just finish let me finish
03:33:32
Brian Atlasit's just a metric by which men look at a potential partner and decide is this someone I want to have a relationship with is this someone I even
03:33:44
Brian Atlaswant to be with Justin was talking about buckets so it's like there's relationship there's relationship and there's hookup so and a lot of guys will do that so like a girl who's promiscuous they might not care so much if you have a high body
03:33:57
Brian Atlascount if they're they just want to [ __ ] you but for a relationship for a long-term commitment for marriage it's going to matter much much more no and I'm understanding of that and the person that the person that I choose to be with
03:34:09
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)in the future I hope is understanding that my hypersexuality is something that I embraced during a time in my life and that I can say goodbye to when I'm when I meet that person well that's
03:34:21
Elleconvenient isn't it but that's that's I mean yeah it's convenient if I'm ready for love and that's something I want to experience next but it's not something I'm like [ __ ] it's not that like earning for or something it's not that
03:34:33
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)simple though because the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior and maybe I'll be alone forever and you guys are if you've had if you've had certain I don't know what your personal like this isn't a personal thing but but it's like it's like if someone's done
03:34:47
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)something for five years ten years whatever it is it's going to be harder and harder to quit so the longer you like engage in certain decisions it's harder to stop and we don't even have to make it about like sleeping around it could be about like if you drink every
03:34:58
Jamieday for 10 years it's going to be harder to stop yeah yeah I don't disagree you can you know you can get over it we're on the same time I'm not against
03:35:11
Brian AtlasI don't know if we got to go fully around the table as far as uh body count goes but uh or Zoe did you answer no no body count no I really don't think it
03:35:23
Zoe Sinmatters but mine's probably up where somewhere is 100 and this is my because let me just like interject a little bit because I'm waiting to talk this is why I consider myself to the microwaves this is why I consider myself very middle ground because at the end of the day what she said I agree with someone she
03:35:35
Zoe Sinsaid I agree with something she said I agree with some [ __ ] you said at the end of the day it literally comes down to the reason people are bitching about this dumb stuff is because they're so unhappy and they're projecting right they're like oh you're wrong for only
03:35:46
Zoe Sinsleeping with one man in your life oh prude oh you're wrong for sleeping with that so many people like ooh [ __ ] if people just mind it their freaking business and worried about what truly makes them happy if we were just like we
03:35:58
Zoe Sinwrap half of this stuff that's why half of my comments on my Tick Tock are like she just ended all relationship podcast because I come down to it from a people a human experience right like men are not here to fund your life and make you
03:36:10
Zoe Sinhappy women aren't here to do whatever the [ __ ] then think women are here to do [ __ ] I don't [ __ ] know at the end of the day it's like what do you want you want to go with a low body count guess what go get it you want a girl who's a [ __ ] and we'll just suck your dick at
03:36:22
Zoe Sinany point and at the time of day at the drop of a hat guess what she exists and you can find it and that's where I find that a lot of people find solace in my content because I love the arguments you know what I mean it makes its content it makes the world go round it's
03:36:33
Zoe Sinentertaining but at the end of the day if people were truly happy in how they lived life no one would argue at each other but the fact that people are so and it's not like oh don't judge only God it's not that simple if people were
03:36:46
Brian Atlasactually doing the things that make them happy yeah it's just about no one would give a [ __ ] about any of this well I mean you're kind of you're a little bit dismissing like we can have intellectual conversations about these topics and yes
03:36:57
Brian Atlasyou're right at the end of the day if a woman with high body count there's going to be guys out there that don't care there's there are some guys out there that don't care but I mean we can also have I mean it's even Beyond just
03:37:09
Brian Atlasan intellectual conversation we can also just say hey look if you choose to partake in certain behaviors if you maneuver in the world in a certain way that's going to have consequences yeah
03:37:20
Zoe Sin100 you know like accountability and I know and I always talk about I talk about specifically that women I feel like we lack a lot of accountability just because I'm a woman and I see it and I can speak to women but who am I to
03:37:32
Zoe Sintell a woman she shouldn't you know I feel like the word should is such like a it it when you use the word should you like you should this is what makes you a real man you should do these things so make you a real woman you should do
03:37:43
Zoe Sinthese things where we're creating anxiety and unsettledness and shame and guilt in people for the way that they're living life 100 of the words that just came out of
03:37:54
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)This Woman's Zoe's mouth like dead ass like being I I would never in my life sit here and say that this young woman right here that has not slept with anyone or this beautiful woman right
03:38:06
Ellehere that chose to wait until marriage is done anything you're a beautiful woman too thank you pretty lady thank you talk about it pick me right I'm just kidding but um but no I I would never say anything
03:38:18
Elleabout their decision I think that it is your body and that is a beautiful thing that you've done even from the opposite perspective of somebody that has done the opposite I think that's like if that's what if that's what yeah if
03:38:30
Ellethat's if that's what makes you happy and that's what makes you think that and and whether you're right or wrong is not my decision to make because there is clear evidence that right here sitting next to me to my right that it can work
03:38:43
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)out that way that's totally your body your choice I just think we should I just think we should be honest about the consequences of course and like that's my only thing owning my [ __ ] on camera I'm not saying
03:38:56
Zoe Sinyou're not but I feel like you're calm I feel like a lot of comments that you make are geared towards the people that I make my comments geared towards too right like if only fans girl is like I deserve a high value man I know he shouldn't care about I'll be like no be
03:39:07
Michaela[ __ ] for real like no it matters as someone who's in the industry towards anyone it's just what I think can I say something yeah I really agree with you what you said earlier I've been like listening the whole time just been kind of quiet just trying to take in
03:39:20
Michaelawith all of you guys are saying but like I agree with you I really think that we should just let people live how they want to live yeah at the end of the day it's not affecting you personally so I don't see how that's a big issue yeah like just let people do as they please
03:39:32
Michaelaas long as it's not personally like getting in your life then I don't see the issue with it like yeah and I just I just want people to look in introspectively become self-aware because a lot of people lack it yeah but I think some other people's point of
03:39:44
Kirstenview not just yours people need to stop shoving it down other people's throats like their view is the only view that is yeah yeah because I don't agree with like Christians that way but I don't give a [ __ ] if you live your life that way if you're not
03:39:56
Gwenaffecting me directly like the bottom line is that values are different from person to person and value is different from person so what you may find a high value man may not be what someone next to you finds a high value man right and
03:40:09
Gwensame with the value of a woman like you know you're saying like you know if this woman is alone or a value woman because she slept with many people well I know I'm sure that there are many low value women with poor Integrity lack of
03:40:19
GwenIntegrity bad women dishonest who've slept with one man right or none so it just comes down to the values that you have there is Nuance but men generally want the same things and women generally want the same things in general but
03:40:32
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)there is always going to be I guess men generally want a virgin I didn't know this and then we can go to the Nuance of where that stems from but I don't you know we're not actually gonna get into that that's like no I mean but paternity it stems from paternity because men
03:40:45
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)historically had to make sure that the kids were theirs and historically we didn't have DNA tests so if a girl was promiscuous and sleeping around uh basically like the man wouldn't know that if the kid was his so it's not even necessarily something that can like
03:40:57
Zoe Sinbiologically help like it's just how they feel about it and like guys might lie to you about this but like guys feel this way that's great but guess what I don't care about those guys if those guys care about my body count guess what that guy is not for me because my life
03:41:09
Zoe Sinpath has not gone down that virgin life path those guys were not meant for me so at the end of the day that opinion of what men want I don't want those men and that's okay they're not wrong for feeling that way they don't want me I don't want them we're cool why we gotta argue about it you don't mean exactly
03:41:22
Hannah Mariamawhy I just holy [ __ ] that's what I said to her like I'm not gonna say that because of Statistics you are not going to have a good relationship in the end I'm not gonna you will have a good relationship you know how the relationship you want yeah no but like there's no there's no way to say that I
03:41:35
Hannah Mariamadon't think it's dishonest to make that statement in because there there are rules there's always exceptions and not only that but everybody is on a different path and I think yeah that's that's just what I think I agree I agree with you all right let me get a couple chats we will come back really briefly
03:41:48
Brian Atlasto uh one or two questions I have here okay we have uh I'm not gonna read that one that one's kind of mean um yo Penny Flores thank you for the 100 man she isn't there tonight but this Tara single I'd ask in
03:42:00
Brian Atlasperson but I can't I'm a paramedic from Texas and would love to take her to a baseball game as a first aid 31 year old 510 Hispanic also would y'all women settle down right now if a man was
03:42:10
Brian Atlasserious and wanted marriage okay uh so your boyfriend kind of complicated thing who has you
03:42:22
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)currently knocked up if he proposes to you do you say yes I mean I think if we worked out our stuff and it was you know a pretty healthy relationship for the most part then I wouldn't be opposed
03:42:33
Brian Atlasespecially with the fact that I'm carrying his child so okay and uh would you get married right now would you settle down right now no huh
03:42:48
Gwensettle down I'm not ready ready for kitchen kids no I mean yeah not kids either I have a lot of healing growth self-awareness donated
03:42:58
TTS/Misc199. hey thank you Pearl do you think it's hypocritical of you to preach people about settling down being a virgin not being career oriented when
03:43:08
TTS/Miscyou are none of these things seems like no one wants this pikmi board bro do you want to respond
03:43:18
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)British Voice by the way um is it hypocritical probably that's it that's all you got no I mean like honestly most people I mean I wish I waited till I was married like I
03:43:30
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)genuinely wish I did so but yeah I didn't get all the way there if I if I could have like did it again I would have waited but you know I didn't yeah but I just think it's like I'd rather be honest to the next generation
03:43:42
Hannah Mariamaof women yeah that there are like consequences like I said it's it's just the I think I'm presenting a side of the coin that's not often represented which is just like man do I feel like I was very fortunate and and I think although a lot of it was expectation setting and
03:43:55
Hannah Mariamathis is something that I think younger women especially should probably hear but when I first met my husband I told him on the first time we ever went out I said I'm not gonna sleep with you I want to get married I don't want kids and if you don't want that like I'm not interested and that's fine because like I don't want to waste your time I got
03:44:09
Hannah Mariamastuff to do like and if it's not you I'm gonna go meet somebody else and that was apparently and I think that's something now to when people are looking for relationships they're really um women I think a lot of times they try
03:44:20
Hannah Mariamato hide the fact that they do want that and that leads them down this Primrose path of oh like pretending like they don't want to get married pretending like they don't want a relationship and that just pushes it further and further down the line and then they turn around you know around that like five to seven
03:44:34
Hannah Mariamayear mark and they're like hey I want to get married and the guy's like what are you talking about you know you said you didn't care but then they really do and now that and that relationship ends up breaking apart and then they have to go and find somebody else but now they're
03:44:44
Hannah Mariamamuch older and it gets more difficult as as we've talked about but anyway it's it's it's an interesting it's an interesting thing the expectation setting is really important and the honesty and upfrontness with somebody that you want to be with and that's
03:44:56
Brian Atlasregardless of of anything 100 word all right let me get through a couple of these chats and then I think we're going to wrap up in about I don't know 10 15 minutes all right we have uh Darth perditious thing for the 100 body count matters the same as credit score matters
03:45:07
Brian Atlasor past matters happiness is not the end-all be-all if you cannot maintain a relationship it's like defaulting on the loan and Zoe is a dream rip she's not
03:45:18
Brian Atlaseven here uh Darth perditious thank you man I'll try to repeat that when she comes all right we have Anonymous stranger thank you for the 100 at what dollar amount would you throw your morals out
03:45:30
Brian Atlasthe window and how does it relate to potentially divorce grape would you always go for half uh hello um
03:45:42
Brian Atlaswhat dollar would you what dollar amount would you throw your morals out the window [ __ ] I do that for a buck 50. okay
03:45:52
Brian Atlasum by the way Zoe there was someone here Darth particious who says you're a dream
03:45:59
Brian Atlasshe said thank you I know that she said thank you and she knows it okay uh Anonymous this is kind of a vague at what dollar amount would you okay it kind of go we already kind of answered
03:46:11
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)this question with the what would you what's your cost you know if you can I can you what can I answer that one really good yeah go ahead I mean I think
03:46:22
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)too like my morals kind of went out the window when I was doing when I was like in the mainstream porn industry so I was literally throwing out my morals for for
03:46:33
Zoe Sina thousand dollars I don't think that's like you throwing away your morals I mean I don't think your moral code you know what I mean I don't think it's me throwing all of my morals away but I think it's
03:46:45
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)I'm gonna be honest I think a certain part of me would like feel guilty every single time I was on set and like now I'm a lot stronger of a person but when I first started I was not here let's just let's just try to get
03:46:57
Brian Atlasthrough these quick so is there a dollar amount we kind of answered it but like is there a dollar amount where you would throw your morals out the window let's just try to zoom around the table
03:47:08
Brian Atlasreal quick 10 mil one mil yes how much thank you thank you how much
03:47:20
Brian Atlasgot to be in the Millions for sure Millions okay all right they don't wanna all right let's just move on um sorry bro you gotta ask more precise question all right Odin um thank you man not to change the topic
03:47:32
Brian Atlasor anything but for the girls and Brian what three jobs and what three degrees are red flags for dating oh my God I think I got some give me this one
03:47:42
Brian Atlassure okay let me let me uh answer I'll answer um okay three jobs flight attendant red flag
03:47:53
Brian Atlasmajor red flag they're [ __ ] a new dude every city yeah travel nurse same [ __ ] thanks they
03:48:03
Brian Atlasmake you're a travel nurse that's what I'm studying to be it's bro red flag red flag because it's like you're these these chicks they're on the if you're a travel nurse or a flight attendant on a
03:48:15
Brian Atlasdating app bro you're [ __ ] you're [ __ ] and so like travel nurse especially they're they're in town for six weeks on assignments some [ __ ] and uh
03:48:27
Brian Atlasit's like temporary and they're just like I don't know whatever okay that's two third career
03:48:38
Brian Atlashosts a dating podcast I'm kidding bro I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding okay um that's probably a red flag for like chicks and well anyways um okay uh let's [ __ ] I don't know what the
03:48:51
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)third third job is um I don't know degrees go ahead no my brothers um they don't like teachers I was that was I was gonna say that yeah like
03:49:02
Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)because yeah my brothers um sorry sorry Austin I said it I have I have had bad experiences that he said they're also feminist like that they
03:49:11
Hannah Mariamajust can't yeah oh that's not my reason it's it's uh teachers mbas oh PR or no sorry no no HR if they're in HR
03:49:22
Hannah Mariamano psych done the MBA because you're gonna end up having to pay off her MBA debt when she decides that she doesn't want to do her job anymore um which happens really really quickly and then teachers because teachers most teachers leave within five years and
03:49:35
Hannah Mariamaagain you're gonna be on the hook for their student debt because they're not going to want to do that job because it's a terrible job it's really hard and story training and they're uh it's it takes a lot emotionally out of teachers yeah
03:49:45
Brian Atlasword okay and then we have I mean do you guys want to come in through any jobs or degree jobs that are red flags streamers twitch streamers Minecraft youtubers just any type of YouTube okay content
03:49:57
Ellecreators what about you maybe like a maybe like a la promoter oh um law I'm so sorry to say that they're cool people no for sure but like I don't know I feel like that's an LA bottom
03:50:11
Kirstenwait can you scoot your mic that way please anyone with a psychology degree because they will pick your brain apart byronique well I'm black so definitely
03:50:20
Brian Atlascops no you're not doing it but yo chat byronique for co-host what's up oh my God this day is going really well
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Jamiewell okay um I don't know I don't think any jobs experience
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Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)arguing with a lawyer man lawyer yeah red flag okay what about you um I think a bottle girl a bottle girl I
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Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)was one and I think that is kind of a red flag it's well I think I think L.A bottle girls
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TTS/MiscAnonymous stranger donated 200 sorry the question was more around marriage and potentially using it for money versus love and the aftermath of it not working out oh well you're gonna have to pick
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Brian Atlassomebody with low student debt or you're going to be responsible for paying it off that's a real thing so the original question he asked is at what dollar amount would you throw your morals out the window and how does it relate to potentially getting screwed in divorce
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Brian Atlasum and the question was more around marriage and potentially using it for money versus love wait what what so is he asking would you marry a rich rich person for their money and it's
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Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)I don't know does anyone here understand I'm asking would you marry for for money that you love versus somebody sure love
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Brian AtlasYeah Love Love or Money love I I hope that answers your question and I I hope that we all kind of said that together too though one of the most agreed up on things bottle service I yeah I kind of agree
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Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)with you like I think someone who works in The Nightlife industry if they're a bartender or something I think that's well I don't know bartenders I think with bottle girls because you have to message these These Guys these Big Spenders to come in and like buy bottles
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Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)that night like that's part of your job is like having to message men especially if you're trying to be in like a committed relationship I don't think a man would be like totally comfortable promoter so kind of like only fans where you're like
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Hannah Mariamamessaging I'm surprised that you didn't say that as one yeah yeah well I thought that was given I think another one I think it is I'm not mentioning another one in a different vein would be somebody who especially specifically a
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Hannah Mariamawoman who got her PhD so that men would call her doctor and there are quite a few of those so something useless that is going to be a very unhappy life gender studies to marry that person all
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Brian Atlasright next one here we have uh bad news Blues thank you man Pearl you are awesome you're my second favorite female my lovely wife will always be the
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Brian Atlasfirst it's so fun how when you speak facts everyone gets offended and Loud your response to bad news please have that effect she's got that effect okay doc venables thanks for the here
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Brian Atlaslet me pull this up what these promiscuous women don't get is that marriage is for the benefit of children if you choose to be promiscuous your choice will negatively affect your
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Brian Atlasmarriage and in turn your children dark venables thank you for that appreciate it man okay um where were we talking about I would you know what though I've said this before
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Brian Atlaspeople are like in the chat roast me for it listen I would date a girl who does only fans but she she can't she can't do like BG content it has to be solo content
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Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)no I wouldn't what if she used to do BG content but if she before dating you or meeting you she decided to delete all of it and not use it anymore for your
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Brian Atlaswould you date her seriously well okay here's the thing right let me let me and the chat's probably roasting me I can't see it right now so for one I've never dated a girl who's done corn or who's done the only fans
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Brian AtlasI'm saying I would however would I prefer and I would I prefer to date a girl who doesn't do only fans yes in the same way that I'm sure girls would prefer to date a guy who's a certain
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Brian Atlasheight or makes a certain amount of money are you necessarily going to get that guy maybe not but um so I would if she did solo content
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Brian Atlaspreferably more on the tasteful side but solo content like no toys well like like no panties coming off I mean if you're just like doing something else
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Brian Atlasif well I mean like look s Bad Dragon [ __ ] like if she's like riding bad dragons and [ __ ] probably like if she's writing what bad Dragons
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Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)It's Like These are those like crazy dildos the monster it's like it's like an octopus tentacle it's like a monster it's so weird and they're like they're like they have wow
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Brian Atlasyou're lucky she didn't say that I can make it swim joke no no oh my God yeah if I shake my legs um yeah but like okay I've never dated a girl who does only fans if you put like
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Brian Atlastwo girls together one has only fans one doesn't I'm gonna go for a girl that doesn't and at this point in my life like I'm not like pressed to get with a girl who has only fans like I have
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Brian Atlasoptions so it's not like I it's just you know but look I'm not never say never you know you don't have options
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Brian Atlasno I'm just saying like I know he do she okay um yeah so like Never Say Never
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Brian Atlasit could happen you know if she and I'll give her more of a pass if she's got a large labia okay um moving on Jesus Christ what women can have penis size preferences huh when are you
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Pearl Davis / Kiana (mixed)starting this um what organization it's already started it's already up I want a shirt a big labia matter shirt I want a hat I want a hat I'm yo show of hands