She Does ØnlyFans To Honor Her Dead GRANDPA?! Alcoholic VIRGIN?! | Dating Talk #68

Date: 2023-04-24
Duration: 5h 23m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_02Gabby(guest)
SPEAKER_03Bridget(guest)
SPEAKER_04Jubilee(guest)
SPEAKER_05Shania/Gabby(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Chase(guest)
SPEAKER_11Sammy Jo(guest)
SPEAKER_12Maria(guest)
SPEAKER_13Holly(guest)

Key Moments

00:16:00
QuoteJubilee reveals she started OnlyFans to "honor her dead grandfather's legacy" — her grandfather was a Konko-kyo minister. Brian and Chase are visibly confused.

if I'm gonna be honest I lost my grandpa um he's very close to me so I kind of want to go with his legacy and I kind of want to do it for him

00:29:54
OtherBrian reveals Shania's father is Robin Crosby, guitarist of Ratt (80s hair metal band). Photos shown; chat had been guessing for weeks. Shania bears a striking resemblance to her father.

Robin Crosby do you wanna... round and round round and round

02:02:01
QuoteBridget, a recovering alcoholic celebrating sobriety since December 2021, accidentally gulps Chase's White Claw on camera. Chase asks "are you drunk yet Bridget?"

how long have you been sober um December 2021... are you drunk yet Bridget

02:12:34
QuoteHolly (porn actress) states she will "reclaim her virginity" after finishing porn career, expecting body count of 300 by retirement at age 25. Chase says she'll be a "born-again virgin."

um 50 but when I'm done with one I will reclaim my virginity and go from there... by 25 probably like 300

02:15:36
QuoteBridget reveals she is a virgin saving sex for marriage — has done "everything except intercourse" but defines sex biologically as penetration. Has lost multiple men over this boundary.

biologically is penis and vagina insertion I'm not saying it was I was being pure it was not the standards that I wanted

02:20:08
OtherA viewer super chats proposing to Shania; Brian redirects by fake-proposing to Kiki (co-host) with a ring pop, which he then fumbles throwing to her.

will you marry me... all right uh we're so back... the wedding is off it is over is it broken

02:34:14
QuoteBridget says she lost her AA coin offer on a blind date because the man was put off by her commitment to abstinence. Has an AA sobriety coin.

I don't go on the apps like they'll say up front like oh it's awesome you don't put out like there's this guy really liked on hinge

04:59:10
ControversyBrian directly asks Holly if she was pandering on her previous appearance when she was with two liberal female friends. Holly admits she was partially pandering on the last episode but says this appearance reflects her genuine views.

I would say on the last episode I was on I was pandering a bit... this is how I actually feel

Topics Discussed

00:01:16
Introductions & Show Announcements

Brian and Chase introduce the show (4M subscribers milestone). Guests introduce themselves: Holly (21, stand-up/porn), Jubilee (25, OnlyFans), Sammy Jo (27, PT/bikini competitor), Shania (25, hotel worker), Gabby (29, actress), Maria (45, nurse/OnlyFans), Bridget (28, OAN reporter). Relationship status round.

00:14:00
OnlyFans & Adult Content Discussion

Brian asks about OnlyFans content. Holly reveals $60K/month from porn contract. Jubilee discusses honoring her deceased grandfather through OnlyFans. Jubilee's grandfather was a Konko-kyo minister. Discussion of Konko-kyo religion. Maria's career change from nursing director to OnlyFans.

00:29:00
Shania's Father Robin Crosby Reveal

Brian shares photos of Shania's father Robin Crosby (guitarist of Ratt). Chat guesses "Jack Black." Shania discusses her relationship with her father and his band.

00:30:00
Single Life & Relationship Statuses

Guests discuss current single status, ghosting experiences, and what being single means. Gabby recounts being ghosted by the guy from Redlands she was seeing at her last appearance. Tanner (regular guest) cancels due to poison oak on genitals.

02:00:00
Self-Rating Looks (1-10)

Guests rate their own attractiveness 1-10. Holly=8, Gabby=6 (up from 4), Sammy Jo=10, Maria=6.5, Bridget=7, Shania=7. Brian rates himself 7.5. Chase rates himself 7.5-8.

02:12:00
Body Count Round

Guests reveal body counts. Holly=10 (personal life; porn scenes separate). Shania=3. Holly (as porn actress)=50+ on camera, projected 300 by retirement. Sammy Jo (not explicitly stated; married). Gabby declines specific number. Maria=less than 10. Bridget=0 (virgin).

02:15:00
Bridget's Virginity & AA Recovery

Bridget is revealed as a virgin (saving for marriage) and recovering alcoholic (sober since Dec 2021). She accidentally drinks Chase's White Claw and gets her AA coin out. Discussion of her dating challenges due to commitment to abstinence.

02:25:00
Husband Material & Wife Material Ratings

Panel rates themselves and others as husband/wife material. Chase rates himself 9/10 as husband material. Brian gives himself 0 because he doesn't want to get married. Discussion of Christian marriage, divorce rates, and pair bonding.

02:35:00
Marriage, Divorce, and Casual Sex

Extended discussion on marriage statistics, Christian divorce rates (~20-25%), casual sex and pair bonding, oxytocin response blunting, and traditional family structure. Chase presents conservative Christian view. Holly defends her porn career as separate from personal intimacy.

03:13:20
Race & Representation in Media

Discussion triggered by House of Dragon race-swap controversy and Little Mermaid casting. Shania argues representation matters. Chase argues it detracts from historical accuracy when story involves succession/race. Debate on whether kids care about race in media.

04:26:40
Abortion & Artificial Wombs Debate

Bridget argues artificial wombs would satisfy both pro-life and pro-choice sides. Discussion of abortion industry profitability, pro-life vs. pro-choice arguments. Chase argues for financially incentivizing adoption instead. Brian attempts to moderate.

04:43:00
Toxic Traits Round

Guests share their most toxic traits in relationships. Holly: having sex on camera for money (in past). Jubilee: constant crying/emotional sensitivity. Gabby: gets invested too quickly and expects reciprocation. Shania: was argumentative (claims she's fixed it). Maria: reactiveness/poor listener. Bridget: second-guessing genuine intentions. Chase: emotionally insecure attachment style (needs excessive validation from childhood trauma). Brian: jokes about being too generous a lover.

04:50:00
Tate Video Reaction: Sex vs. Connection

Brian plays Andrew Tate clip arguing genuine connection matters more than sexual skill. Holly says the clip applies to her — she keeps personal and professional sex separate. Chase agrees with Tate's sentiment about pair bonding.

05:05:34
Patrice O'Neal Clip: What Would You Do Without a Vagina?

Brian plays Patrice O'Neal clip asking women how they'd keep a man if they lost their vagina in a train accident. Guests answer: Sammy Jo says oral/other orifices; Jubilee says oral/booty; Gabby says "be myself with my personality"; Maria says "feed them/babies"; Bridget says "feed them"; Holly lists all of the above plus cooking since age 14.

Transcript

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01:55:15
Chaseyeah it depends on how long they would leave no it's a week after meeting no I'm just kidding no no like like uh you guys have been dating for like a year and I think if he was still I mean as [ __ ]
01:55:27
Hollyas it is to say I would need the brain capacity to still be there um like if somebody you know is in a coma or whatever like I do understand people leaving during that if you're not married he's not in a coma he's not in the coming she's paralyzed yeah you just
01:55:39
Chasecan't walk but he's he's us yeah is he otherwise chippers he's chipper he's chipper but he struggles with it open about his struggle does he
01:55:50
Chasecommunicate with struggles yeah I'd say yeah like he's open he's open about a struggle but like there's there's times where he's like depressed but like overall he maintains a good disposition and you have to change his diaper
01:56:01
Sammy Josorry bro there is a literal division in bodybuilding that is for people in wheelchairs I literally just watched it at the Arnold and the mindset and stay on topic would you stay with a guy like
01:56:13
TTS Readerthat but I'm saying if their mindset is Right absolutely my God headshot the chat is on fire 31 cents ladies once you decide to start a family and of children
01:56:25
TTS Readerwould you consider submitting to your husband what's your take on adopting traditional gender roles hashtag crisis Lord let's go yo Eve thank you for the big 200 Super Chat uh so the question
01:56:37
Bridgetopen it up to the girls um can I say something no this is a podcast you can't say things okay you have to raise your hand I want to say a lot of men who ask that question
01:56:49
Bridgetforget the first part of the verse which is about the husbands dying onto the wife serving the wife as Christ unto the church which means he's willing to sacrifice his life give his life for his wife and his family so I would
01:57:00
Bridgetabsolutely submit to a man who's going to lead me well who's going to love me as Christ into the church but I think a lot of men and I'm not assuming well I am assuming a little bit because most men who asked that question completely
01:57:12
Chaseskip the first part of that verse I think it was a woman that asked him I'm so sorry
01:57:22
Chaseyeah let's let's let's structure the question like this if a guy is a good leader would you be willing to submit to him and his wishes in the relationship I think most women most women would it's
01:57:32
Shania/Gabbyjust not a lot on this man or oh not around here oh okay well I just think that most women when men are very
01:57:41
Shania/Gabbymasculine and in like their traditional role it a woman just naturally submits to that like and they want to nurture her they want somebody that's going to take care of them that's going to bring
01:57:53
Sammy Jothem peace that's going to bring them loyalties especially loyalty so yes I think the woman absolutely the woman that wants that is also the woman that is going to step up in that nurture role
01:58:04
Sammy Joa woman that is okay with handling all of the feminine things in the house the family maintaining those things knowing that they have a strong male figure in their life husband partner to do the
01:58:16
Sammy Joleading it's a woman that is going to now on the opposite side do the nurturing can I have you just tilt the microphone up towards you just to tap perfect so so you're telling me like you you'd be cool
01:58:27
Sammy Jowith it I I you are cool absolutely what if your husband told you tomorrow I want you to be done with only fans that's fine I have other sources of income I have other life goals and plans that I want to do long term I don't plan on
01:58:39
Brian Atlasdoing it long term what if your husband was like yo we're going to homeschool our kids [ __ ] the public school system we're homeschooling
01:58:49
Brian Atlasthem and you do you agree and or disagree but do you defer to his decision obviously you can give feedback and maybe if you disagree you can talk about
01:59:00
Sammy Joit but do you defer to him finally If he if he's like no we're homeschooling our kids yes I would 100 homeschool my kids but I don't think I have the ability to be a
01:59:13
Sammy Joteacher like I would find resources outside of a public school district to now School my children but 100 I would agree with it okay maybe like private schools yeah private school whatever the other case may be but a hundred percent okay back
01:59:26
Brian Atlasthat decision all right all right let's get this other one here we have uh Justin think of the 50 men tell the ladies on the panel your worth in the world's view may depend on Who wants you
01:59:37
Brian Atlasbut your true worth comes from within Jane bunk that dude for doing that to you you seem like a lovely lady with a bright future never forget who you are
01:59:48
Brian Atlaswho the who's Jane yeah Jane you mean Jubilee Jubilee how many names you got sorry this one well if you want my actual nicknamed it's jubi or
01:59:57
Jubileegibbilicious wait were you born in the U.S sorry were you born in the U.S yeah
02:00:14
Brian Atlasokay we'll go around the table on this one um do we start with let's just start with Holly let's start with Holly okay eight eight
02:00:27
Brian Atlasyou said body count right yeah definitely while we're at it your body count is ten okay cool uh we're gonna keep it moving what am I answering
02:00:42
Gabbyam I rating myself
02:00:48
Chaseall right myself yeah the question was write your looks from one to ten um oh I think I hit it six six okay all right like a good solid five
02:01:00
Brian Atlasdoes it get lower every show no last time it was four so I'm feeling good okay you're feeling better tonight okay ten oh I should have started with you I that's why okay what you're leaving
02:01:11
Brian Atlasduring this segment hello took a sit for my drink she drank his drink no it's just white claw it's not like raw yeah it's alcohol alcohol
02:01:29
Brian Atlashow long have you been sober um December 2021. nice congrats Jason
02:01:39
Brian Atlaswait sorry so good no I didn't just spit it out do you have one of those coins from can you show us your coin sure it's my first one wait can you go we're gonna have to send a clip of this to your AAA group and see what they have to say yeah
02:01:52
Brian AtlasI think you're gonna have to tell her they're gonna have to look to see if she's yeah she uh I think I actually heard a gulp so I think she did swallow the alcohol so
02:02:03
Chaseyeah they give you a coin are you are you drunk yet Bridget
02:02:09
Chaseit's very enthusiastic about the taste of that alcohol by the way I think she she's as far as like went wide she was like wow oh my God you said okay you were
02:02:21
Mariaanswering so she's a 10. yeah would you rate yourself on a scale of one you said dime okay top of the line so what what are we measuring
02:02:32
MariaI would say 6.5 oh okay yeah self-esteem in here no it's not about the self-esteem but if we're gonna say okay I'm average I don't ever want to be perfect I'm not going to be 10 I
02:02:43
Marianeed room for growth all the time I could be a 10 sometimes right my social media what we post out there is always going to be higher than whatever but you know I also feel like if we're going to rate ourselves it's way more than just
02:02:56
Bridgetthe physical so if you're going to bring that on I'm definitely going to bring myself my writing up so what about you I think I'm like a seven with makeup and well depends on the day without makeup I look like Michael Jackson
02:03:08
Brian AtlasI got five no I think I'm a seven and a half okay all right okay uh everyone to read this yourself
02:03:20
Chaseseven and a half eight on my best day okay I give myself like six point nine on a good day number seven today
02:03:33
Brian AtlasAlvin Sam thank you man good to see you back in the chat uh Chase would you smash the most masculine 304 in the world or the hottest trance 304 in the world pick only one bro I hate this
02:03:44
Chasequestion so much it's essentially asking me if I would smash a dude or if I would smash a dude okay and if if if I'm in a situation where I'm presented with smashing a dude or a dude and there is a gun to my head and I have to pick one of
02:03:58
Chasethem I would take the bullet end of story really yes
02:04:06
Chasehold on the what are the two choices the the oldest the original one like okay so Andrew Tate framed this in a video a couple years ago and it recently went viral
02:04:17
Chaseagain on on Twitter yeah and uh he was like he was like would you rather Bang a [ __ ] that looks like Megan Fox or would you rather bang a woman that looks like Hulk Hogan right you know it's like
02:04:30
Chasebro I don't want to bang a woman that looks like Hulk Hogan are you kid like do you would you which would you do Brian hold on
02:04:41
Chaseoh the pressure's up you're getting as red as your shirt he goes he goes she looks like Megan Fox all you got to do is just like bat that [ __ ] out of the way I'm like bro like
02:04:54
Brian Atlaswhat happens after you bat it out of the way like what is there okay so your answer is the bullet the bullet yeah I would smash the chick that looks like
02:05:06
ChaseHulk Hogan bro I'm not gonna clip myself you're like I'm not gonna Delight myself you're pressing and and this chick is like hell yeah brother
02:05:16
Brian Atlasbro yeah it's gonna suck harder brother here's the thing it's not a question of would I enjoy it it's a question of which is
02:05:29
Brian Atlasyou're there's no way you would delete yourself Chase there's no way you would I mean bro if I didn't have a family yeah I would delete myself but you have a family do you chase
02:05:41
Brian Atlasokay what I do is I steal the gun from the person who has the gun there's no option of my family Chase there's no way you're clipping yourself
02:05:51
Chasein the situation over sleeping with a woman no I want to save myself I've been for the past three years I'm not having sex with bro if I'm not gonna
02:06:03
Chasebreak if I'm not gonna break my chastity for a really hot chick that isn't going to be my wife I'm definitely not gonna break it for Hulk Hogan bro yeah but this is
02:06:16
Brian Atlasyo you said Hulk Hogan I'm taking the bullet bro end of story but okay let's say you get let's say you get a pass JC gives you a
02:06:26
Chasepass to [ __ ] one or the other you're not you're fine Jesus comes down he's got his [ __ ] beer absolutely have to obviously I'm
02:06:37
Brian Atlasgonna take the heterosexual option but like in this scenario let's say the scenario actually presented itself in real life I refuse to believe that your Constitution is not strong enough to be
02:06:49
Brian Atlaslike I'm not gonna end my life because I gotta [ __ ] some muscular [ __ ] like you're not gonna do it because she's like you know I mean bro if like my family's on the line I'm just gonna do it and get
02:07:01
Chaseit over with okay if I'm single bro give me the Bullet to the Head you're living alone in a cabin I don't want to hear I don't want to hear Hulk Hogan yes brother as I'm pumping like no I don't want to hear it how's your stamina because like what if
02:07:14
Brian Atlasit's quick like what if it just ends like two minutes what if we uh like whatever what if we change subjects that's doable okay Alvin Sam thank you for that
02:07:24
Chasethought-provoking prompt there Chris Reed says Army Ranger here live in L.A hey pretty girl Chris Reed right there can you pull up a
02:07:35
Chasepicture blue comments go ahead there yo Chris Reed tell you what brother slide into her DMS your Instagram link is on the episode right I think so yes all Special Operations soldiers slide into her DM okay
02:07:55
Chasesorry Chris wait really quick since it came up during this look at this right here John and clash and Christians die for their convictions all the time damn right dude that's true I know I know I
02:08:07
Brian Atlasknow some of us are spineless convictionless Pros that would just smash Hulk Hogan but I'm not trying to do it I like either option chase the thing I'm saying is is that okay for example zombie apocalypse I've I've
02:08:20
Brian Atlasasked girls this question about the zombie apocalypse and girls will tell me oh I would just delete myself because I don't want to deal with the zombies I'm like bro that's a weak Constitution it's
02:08:31
Brian Atlasgonna suck surviving but I'm not gonna kill myself I'm gonna try to survive in the zombie apocalypse lame
02:08:43
Sammy Joyeah if it came if I had to pick between the two yeah I'm currently playing The Last of Us so like I want to know how good my skills are IRL best way to test
02:08:52
Sammy Joit is video games yeah um so now if it happens yo guys okay this button combo I'm good yeah guys
02:09:02
Brian Atlasask potential Partners if in the event of a zombie apocalypse ask them what they would do like would they try to survive or would they just delete themselves if
02:09:14
Hollythey delete themselves yeah that's not that's not your girl I'm sorry Holly but yeah yeah down to it if it was like I either get
02:09:26
Brian Atlaseaten by a [ __ ] zombie right now or I kill myself you're not an immediate you're not in the media like the zombie's not there and it's like oh I would give it a go I would give it a go fast okay the breakout is happening you
02:09:38
Hollyknow it's coming yeah you have an opportunity to attempt to play the survival game or do you just be like this sucks delete myself I would give it a go but if it came down to it was a lie
02:09:51
Chasefor death in the moment I would I would do it myself what if you had a boyfriend he's like yo baby I would protect you but we're surrounded by zombies [ __ ]
02:10:03
Jubileeyeah yourself or would you what the [ __ ] yeah bro your minister [ __ ] grandfather right to the end closer to the mic maybe if I wasn't then I would change my mind it's getting to the table
02:10:16
Brian Atlasa bit so you don't have to is this better yeah yeah okay um if you were in the military you're not in the military no no break out tomorrow um then yes I did my mind no you're gonna delete yourself oh you wouldn't
02:10:29
Chasetell yourself but you just said you would I change my mind oh my God okay all I know bro is uh if zombie apocalypse is happening tomorrow you and I are linking up and we are going to
02:10:41
Chasetown on some zombies dog that sounds like fun let's [ __ ] go you me Tanner Zach I have a buddy Josiah let's go dude I actually proposed this to to chase that
02:10:54
Brian Atlaswelcome to the whatever dating podcast zombie apocalypse I propose to chase that we have like a meeting place in the event of
02:11:07
Brian Atlaswell it could be zombies but it could be some like major [ __ ] hits the fan situation bro you can't just like we need a location dude you can't talk about this I can't on the internet
02:11:20
Chasecalm down you can't talk about our secret plans on the internet with hundreds I didn't tell them the location you're about to we have no we have no apocalypse plan he's lying we're definitely not going to
02:11:33
Brian Atlasgo ham on the zombies and have an entire drawn out Plano we definitely don't have firearms have you ever played uh Walking Dead on virtual reality okay moving on
02:11:43
Brian Atlaswait so what would you do Shania would you delete yourself or I would find a boat
02:11:53
Brian Atlasjust living my life zombie and sunburned after three days oh I'm so excited that would be good zombies hopefully can't swim okay so going back to this one really quick so I guess you misheard
02:12:04
Brian Atlasthis one but you mentioned body count oh yeah so you said what is it again what's your body Shania did you answer that one no are we yeah why not I'm three three we're gonna
02:12:16
Hollystart here and then go around so what's your body count um 50 but when I'm done with one I will reclaim my virginity and go from there wait yeah right
02:12:29
Chasebut then when you quit porn yeah I'll go back to zero so you'll be a born-again virgin just a born again girl with a 100 body count yeah 150 yeah 200. yeah I
02:12:41
Hollythink you're 500. she's 500. I don't think it's gonna get out that high how many bodies do you think you'll have by the time you retire hmm at by 25 probably like 300.
02:12:53
Hollyyeah do you think that's gonna do [Music] you want to have a successful marriage I I do yeah but in all honesty I feel like
02:13:05
Hollyif people uh like I have emotional intelligence so I feel like at the point where I'm ready to settle down with someone I don't think who I've been with in the past is going to really affect that for me I wonder how many women say
02:13:16
Hollythe same thing and then get divorced I wonder well there's a there's a economic incentive for women to get divorced as well so that's probably more likely than the pair bonding but will your future husband have to make or
02:13:29
Hollyhave more money than you um not necessarily no because at that point I'll be you know fully self-sufficient so that's kind of the goal I can marry whoever I want the reason why I ask is because I feel like it's harder for women to be attracted to
02:13:41
Hollya guy if he's not like more of a breadwinner I haven't had that issue I mean I'm usually the breadwinner in most of my relationships I have been in the past whoever I'm seeing but it doesn't really bother me
02:13:54
Shania/Gabbyyeah yeah what's your body count nine nine magically answered oh um I'm not gonna answer the number but I will say I was 22 years old when I
02:14:06
Shania/Gabbylost my virginity and I've been in one relationship and I just got out of that relationship like maybe four months ago so that's all I'm saying so probably like 10 to 15
02:14:17
Mariathen yeah no no way no okay we're not alive at all we're just gonna say it's gonna it's less than 10.
02:14:28
Mariaconsider my age less than 10 more than 30. no no no no no no no wait no because well here's the thing anytime that I've been intimate with somebody I've been in a relationship with that person so it's just not just
02:14:41
Maria[ __ ] them ever okay okay wait so what's the number less than 10 50 or 60. or a hundred whatever you wanted like whatever is actually gonna be less than ten okay yeah
02:14:56
Brian Atlaswait question though you said you've done other things nothing in the poop hole I think that's enough
02:15:04
Bridgetlike what what do you mean are you trying to subject yeah right yeah I don't do the poop loopholes I think
02:15:13
Bridgetthat's gross did you say back door no that's why I stick to anal sex
02:15:20
Brian Atlaslike what do you mean everything else is kind of obviously everything else is minus anal yes isn't that technically isn't sex sex
02:15:33
Bridgetbiologically is penis and vagina insertion I'm not saying it was I was being pure it was not it was not the standards that I wanted it was not
02:15:42
Chasebiological sex when you were hammered in like in these situations with dudes did you like even though you were inebriated still no like no I want to save the full thing
02:15:54
Bridgetum was that why you didn't do it or yes but also the two people that like there are only two people that it was like super intimate with what the guy almost married like there was a time we almost had sex and I think if he had gone for it I probably would have had sex with
02:16:05
Bridgethim and he got like he stood up and walked away and I was very drunk for that because he knew I wanted to wait and he wasn't a virgin but he was a good guy gonna wait for me and then my other
02:16:16
Bridgetex the one who had some important issues that yeah I had to be a lot firmer there but thankfully for a big chunk of our relationship I was sober so okay so when you when you were in these relationships you told them like hey this is a clear personal boundary
02:16:29
Bridgetfor me I want to save this for marriage yeah I've lost a lot of guys for that like that's why I don't go on the apps like they'll say up front like oh it's awesome you don't put out like there's this guy really liked on hinge we really connected I told him before I even met
02:16:41
Bridgethim that I was waiting because I didn't want to have like the wrong idea of what was going to go down and he was like that's great whatever and then he met me and of course it's like who wouldn't want to do more all right let's get
02:16:53
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02:17:54
Brian Atlasso much really appreciate it guys okay so super chats here we have Praxis um Holly do you want to read this one holy what made you leave Australia for
02:18:05
HollyAmerica I'm a law student in the US and I'm thinking about eventually moving to us from New Zealand the legal systems are very similar to America's the US is circling the drain Commonwealth Does it
02:18:15
HollyBetter um does it though no no I mean they're both a bit of a [ __ ] show Vibe so whatever you feel um you got to get that Visa though so we'll see bruh Australia
02:18:27
Chaseis like ground zero for the New World Order I would not go there they had brutal restrictions bro they were throwing people in quarantine camps they were sure yeah had freaking coveted
02:18:39
Brian Atlaslike against their will like I didn't see another present for 170 days at one point you said what now I didn't see another person for 170 days at one point Didn't They didn't they really strongly
02:18:51
Hollyenforce curfews yeah yeah you weren't allowed more than three miles from your house um you want at one point you weren't allowed to go for drives even if you just stayed in your car they would pull you out like I technically had curfews at early on but weren't allowed
02:19:04
Chaseto go to the beach it wasn't really yeah my cousins in Australia couldn't go more than a few miles away from their house
02:19:14
Chaseand and on top of that the police down in Australia would like seize people's computers and phones and hard drives if they're like criticizing the government and their shutdowns and stuff during covet like if you're criticizing your
02:19:27
Hollygovernment they would just literally just like enter your home against your will and just steal your stuff where was that's a yikes in Australia oh I didn't hear about that yeah yeah but people it
02:19:38
Hollywas like you would lose friends if you said I think this is [ __ ] like it was everybody was on the same side can you sing the Australian national anthem while we're at it
02:19:48
ChaseAustralians all let us rejoice Hallelujah proud and free yeah I'm not sure about that last part okay free all right Australians never should have given up their guns man
02:19:59
Brian Atlasit was a long time ago hot take but also a based Pig based uh Shania I'll let you read this one
02:20:11
Gabbydo I see a match made in heaven this is about to be epic laughs Chase um what do you want me to say
02:20:24
Brian Atlasoh here you go actually hold on that's mine I'm gonna use that later here you use this one I have I got three they said this is about to be epic
02:20:34
ChaseShania will you marry me there is a ring in here yeah I take it back yeah
02:20:44
Brian Atlasall right thank you man appreciate it thank you for putting me in putting both of us in that awkward position I was about to say is there anyone else's Palm sweaty because should I should I like try to should I do my a proposal to kind
02:20:57
Brian Atlasof like lower the tension in the room a little bit yeah um proposed to uh Kiki perhaps hold on let me see what I got here um
02:21:10
Brian Atlasyou believe Gertrude Percival [Music] will you marry me [Music]
02:21:22
Chaseall right um we're so back I don't know your catch bro let me oh my God what the [ __ ] the wedding is
02:21:32
Productionoff it is over is it broken it was a pretty terrible throw what do you mean that was like right for her face throw
02:21:46
Brian Atlasit can you do a little Beyonce fat Rock dude wait Eric [ __ ] Eric come on come on what do a little Beyonce
02:21:58
Brian Atlasall right cool cool cool thing all right sweet Jubilee would you actually be kind if he asked you to marry him I don't know you
02:22:07
Brian Atlasbut am I am I your type you're cool oh all right you're cool bro let's get married
02:22:27
Brian AtlasBean said just slide the ring across the table that would have been yeah I really chucked it at her it was like he wanted to know her go along
02:22:40
Brian Atlaslove you please I should have done the uh softball like underhanded just like put it on her finger all right we have uh chase you want to read this one Hearn says thank
02:22:52
Chaseyou for the Super Chat Hearn a whopping 50 bucks let's go 100 great to see Chase is back hope your back is doing better
02:23:00
Chasehomie wait pause no homo LOL quality question for the ladies are
02:23:07
Chasewomen more empowered or entitled in 2023 more about women just talking about women everybody's entitled yeah
02:23:20
Chasewhy not both por Queens Los Dos why do you think women are more why do you think women are more entitled than empowered because there's absolutely no reason why I should be making sixty thousand
02:23:34
Hollydollars a month [Music] that's absolutely so much respect for you saying that yeah it's insane it's absolutely insane that but I mean that's
02:23:44
Brian Atlashow it is wait so you you disagree that you should be earning that much I mean to me it just comes down to economics there are men that are prepared to
02:23:55
Hollypay money to see you naked I suppose but there is like no world where I should be making more than a doctor like that's [ __ ] right yeah yeah yeah I mean thank
02:24:05
Chaseyou but I don't get it commodifying the coomers it is so over the West Has Fallen um I I think that well women were just
02:24:18
Mariatalking about women um I think we're wanting more and not giving anything what do you what do you want so
02:24:27
Mariawell me personally or just just no in general and I I feel like um people are just taking advantage of situations um more now than ever and I feel like
02:24:38
Mariawomen like with the only fans who's getting taken not only not only fans in general which is people like people are expecting you like girls are expecting you to show up in a certain way but
02:24:48
Mariathey're not showing up like that that's facts so that's just that's how are they expecting you to show up and how are they not however they imagine their world like how they want you to be
02:25:01
Mariawhether they want you to be 6'3 and successful but at the end of the day like what are you bringing as well to the table and it's an excellent point it's an excellent point I have a question for all you ladies
02:25:12
Chaseit's a good one on a scale of one to ten how would you rate yourself as a potential wife or a current wife oh would you be would you be a valuable wife to have I think I would be a good
02:25:24
Hollywife because when in a relationship I am monogamous I cook I clean I would adhere to traditional gender roles but because of my past that might knock me down a few pegs um but you're saying the 300 body count
02:25:37
Hollyby the time if it gets to that yeah it might work against you some people might not be down with that that's fair enough um but I think in in the sense of being a wife I would be a good wife yeah okay
02:25:49
Brian Atlasto your credit though I think you have like a really good sort of self-awareness you don't seem to take yourself too seriously and uh so thank you it's very attractive too
02:26:01
Mariathanks oh maybe there's a little connection there I mean you do hold on you do only fans she doesn't want fans this is the collaboration here we could collab but
02:26:11
MariaI'm not I'm not doing anything Society right now I'm not I'm not an Instagram never kissed a girl nothing
02:26:19
Sammy Jookay uh shut that one down you think you make a good wife yeah I would say you said on a scale I would say I'm about like an eight or a nine I do have my room for improvement I scroll
02:26:32
Sammy Jobrain add so some things slipped through the cracks but I feel like I provide I'm the nurturer role right we were talking earlier about the submission to your husband he is more of the leader
02:26:43
Sammy Jomanaging finances in the grand scheme of things I cook I clean I maintain the house so I take on that nurture role where he takes on that power leadership
02:26:54
Chaserole okay based very nice Jubilee what about you how good of a wife do you think you'd make to Brian to Brian and I know you think he's cool what are you bring into this um this is your show
02:27:06
Jubileeright so I mean that's a really big accomplishment for yourself um I would say if I was a really good wife I would say maybe a six I'm not emotionally stable you're not
02:27:18
Brian Atlasemotionally I'm not like you might like just pull a knife on him not like that what kind of what's your uh prescription no prescription medications like bipolar
02:27:29
JubileeI'm a very emotional you cry a lot yeah but I could control it you can control the crime I can control it um is the wedding off
02:27:46
Jubilee[Music]
02:27:51
Jubileeit's very hard to cry on the spot so I have the advantage in that type of occupation so you're saying as a wife you'd be a good uh good manipulator I had the ability to do that
02:28:01
Chasebut okay so she's bringing like crying on demand she's emotionally unstable I'm all ears for sure obviously any negative qualities
02:28:14
Sammy Joum there could be um you would have to find that for yourself right he's like I already have the ring so now it's just a matter of time until
02:28:25
Chaseyou find out what it is I need full disclosure listen have you been like a gambling problem into the mic closer to the mic let me ask what are we talking here what
02:28:37
Brian Atlasskeletons are you hiding in the closet nothing have you seen a therapist in the past three months what was your question have you seen a therapist in the past three months no but I have previously yes have you been recommended a
02:28:49
Bridgettherapist in the past yes how many times just once have you been involuntarily committed to a mentalist hey you already proposed you already asked yeah you should know yeah but they haven't said I
02:28:59
Brian Atlasdo yet yes it is necessary that's just on her um so you said you're mentally unstable or did you say emotionally just emotionally just like I just cried like just crying a lot it's just it's just
02:29:13
Brian Atlasfor grieving like tears of joy sometimes like you cry during sex yeah like have you cried during sex no because it was so good oh no no no no
02:29:26
Chaseso good would you believe besides that's the thing besides the emotion yeah that is the thing issues what are your biggest red flags um I think that's just that one just that one yeah you kind of alluded to it
02:29:38
Sammy Joa few minutes ago you were like you'll see you'll see the other one just reveal them yeah maybe she doesn't know them yeah they don't know even worse no being in a committed relationship like you find things out about yourself like if you've never
02:29:52
Sammy Jolived with someone before or if you've never been long to like things happen in your life over a span of times that you learn and unveil about yourself tell me about your alcohol consumption how
02:30:03
Brian Atlasfrequently socially like maybe once in a while how often do you consume meth heroin what's that Russian one crocodiles
02:30:19
Mariait's a horrible yeah like like bath salts like you know some people I think they smoke honestly I don't even know about this stuff right before just one microphone at the time guys
02:30:30
Sammy Joum have you ever slashed a guy's tires no have any of you no no do you know the proper way to do it how yeah uh tell us I mean I've never done it but it isn't
02:30:42
Brian Atlasit just to anything more than two it's covered by insurance I thought it was three just you do like that you can do three yeah and the back if you do all four then then right yeah well it's
02:30:55
Sammy Jostill a crime but just Insurance don't give ladies any ideas out there okay I mean 10 out of ten don't recommend slashing tires but if you are gonna do it do it the right I think she's holding something if you're gonna do it just
02:31:04
Mariatake them to get me tired it's one it's grieving huh The Grieving part The Grieving part yeah that's like the red flag though you're going through a lot recognizing that she's not ready to emotionally commit herself like that she's ready
02:31:21
Chaseplease please don't put words in the 411 woman's mouth she's not saying yes to you she already she's not ready the ring is on her finger on her face on her and
02:31:31
Brian Atlasshe said Brian's cool like it's a done deal that's all you need it okay
02:31:44
Chaseuh what the [ __ ] we were talking about what what how would you uh qualify yourself in terms of being wife material by the way just because we have a lot of super chats if you guys can just make
02:31:53
Shania/Gabbythe answers quick that's in eight an eight yeah okay okay um I'm a wife I was raised by a wife a woman who is a wife so yeah you're born
02:32:05
Chaseto be a wife yep I was literally raised to be a wife so based saluting your parents right now yeah shout out to my mom amazing woman shout out to her mom what about you
02:32:16
Mariaten nine well I mean the weights on the table I bring loyalty I bring stability I'm gonna cook for you I'm gonna take care of you I don't want you to come home and be
02:32:29
Mariastressed and that's not my job that's not my role so and then growth however that will play out I mean what what you said you were married once before no oh no no
02:32:41
Mariado you get child support no I actually so me and my daughter's father are having a really good relationship and um it's just something that I never decided to do I was able to
02:32:51
Mariaprovide for my daughter and he does his end however he needs to just as long as that him and I are doing good and that's what she's seeing I don't need to do that so and I would
02:33:03
Mariaprobably never take them to child support either unless it's truly if I needed it you know what he's going to provide for her is it shared custody or do you have full custody we don't we've never been to court so it's not like
02:33:14
Mariait's just it's it's a mutual thing with him and I sometimes is he taking care of the kids yeah he'll take her like he spends time with her and everything so I think that's the most yeah we do co-parenting and that's probably the
02:33:25
Mariamost she knows her dad they have a great relationship she loves him and that's all she's sure so okay no do it yourself wife material wise I think I'm probably a seven because of the alcoholism but I'm aware of it which
02:33:39
Bridgetis good and it depends I mean I want a bunch of kids so I think I'll be a really good mom how many kids do you want to have like seven or nine damn but I want to adopt like three or four months
02:33:51
Bridgetum are you worried about relapsing with the alcoholism it's on the line if I don't marry a good man I very much worry about relapsing but the goal is to marry someone who is if not completely sober is just like very supportive in that and
02:34:03
Chaseyou know helps me with that what what triggers you to want to relapse if I may ask um is there like a specific thing yeah because I'm depressed I have depression
02:34:14
Sammy Jo[ __ ] you okay moving on Super Chat Super Chat wait wrong how do you guys rate yourself on a one
02:34:23
Sammy Joto ten in terms of being able to support it as a husband yeah husband material no like as a like on the opposite in the opposite sense in being a husband husband material I would I would rate myself a nine
02:34:38
Chaseum I think my future wife will be very fortunate to be married to me but I also recognize that like I've got like insecurities I've got like deep like deep emotional Trauma from my childhood and stuff that is like a pain in the ass
02:34:49
Chaseto deal with times um yeah there's a few other things that I feel like I want to work on as a person to make myself like the full package you know are you a provider
02:35:01
ChaseI will be absolutely yeah I mean I want to have like 10 kids and I'm not there yet but like he has a lot of Dogecoin and a lot of dudes I mean it's it's
02:35:12
Chaseyou know every in my opinion Every Man Has a duty to be a provider right as you know I'm sure scripture tells us that a man who won't provide for his loved ones his family his relatives is worse than an unbeliever like that's my job God created me to provide you know
02:35:25
Brian Atlasso I would rate myself
02:35:32
Brian Atlas6.9 on a good day material in terms of husband material I think you know I'm very I cry a lot so
02:35:43
Brian Atlasjust kidding okay though what are your missiles I'm kidding uh my red flags uh well uh my red flags I
02:35:55
Brian AtlasI care too much just too loving I'm so handsome too much of a stud too grounded you know those like job interviews where they're like
02:36:07
Brian Atlaswhat are your weaknesses and it's just like I don't I just want I worked too hard yeah I say I'm a perfectionist yeah that's like the go-to I mean as far as husband material goes I
02:36:18
Brian Atlaswould give you a big fat zero you know why oh my God because you don't even want to get married Bro oh that's a good point
02:36:26
Sammy Jothat is a good point Chase why not are you the engaged for life sure
02:36:37
Chaseyeah marriage is just kind of an l right marriage is not an answer yes fake news marriage is a fat win no yeah it is an institution that creates strong
02:36:48
Chasefamilies and helps people become Godly as they go through the process of Life caring for a person sacrificing for that person loving them even when it's tough to love them bro marriage is the
02:36:59
Chasefreaking glue that holds our civilization together my guy yes the new
02:37:06
Chasethat holds the civilization together I would say the traditional fan I think the nuclear family this is something I recently came to understand the nuclear family like the idea of like okay you have your family and you live like far away from the rest of your family and
02:37:19
Chaseyou guys have your little house in Suburbia is that what the nuclear family that's like the nuclear family that's not well that's as opposed to like a traditional family where you've got like you live near the grandparents and like the rest of the family that's that's
02:37:31
Chasewhat's up that's that's the glue of civilization and and marriage is the thing that holds that together bro here's the thing though is that in
02:37:40
ChaseWestern countries marriage is an L for men true I don't know force is an L for men okay for the most
02:37:50
Hollypart which is what impending yeah yeah yeah or the wrong man usually the wrong woman though but there's such a financial gain for women to divorce from men it is so you're right you're right
02:38:03
Brian Atlaswhich is why you got to pick the right woman right but Chase here's the thing you say you say well you have to pick the right woman you have to and perhaps for those who are religious you have to
02:38:13
Brian Atlaspick a Godly woman who's the right woman how many Godly women initiate divorces even I don't know you tell me I it's a lot even within the Catholic Church
02:38:24
Brian Atlaswhere I mean how much is a lot we would have to I I don't have the what's the percentage I don't have this specific statistics on hand isn't it 50 of marriage is in an advice in the United States yes 50 of Americans I'd
02:38:37
Chaselike to see what the statistics are in the context of what he's saying the statistics in specifically the Christian Community right because I think it's approaching the the average it might be a little lower than the
02:38:49
Chaseaverage but even Godly women hypergamy doesn't care about your religion yeah but here's the thing man is like if if you're act if you're a Christian and you're actually serious
02:39:00
Chaseabout your faith you know that when you say I do you are making a promise before God and that is a promise that you will be held accountable to and it is not one that you can back out of and on top of that too it says in the scriptures that
02:39:12
Chaseif you if you marry someone and you're like oh man like I you know I just don't really like this person that much anymore like we're gonna you know let's let's just end it let's get divorced in God's eyes if you
02:39:24
Chasedivorce that person and you marry somebody else that second person that you marry you are committing adultery before God okay you see what I'm saying so you're cheating on the person that
02:39:35
Chaseyou actually made your vows to before God if you divorce and get remarried now if if isn't divorce recognized by the church it says that you can leave though under
02:39:47
Shania/Gabbycertain circumstances you can leave specifically if your partner cheats on you you are then permitted to divorce them if if they cheat on you and he doesn't want to be with you then you can
02:39:59
Brian Atlasleave that's literally what the word says are you sure about that yes so wait I'm not sure about that yeah I Googled the statistic here I Googled
02:40:08
Chasedivorce rates in Christian Christendom Christendom on recent surveys and studies suggest that approximately 20 to 25 percent of Christian marriages end in divorce with higher percentages reported among Millennials and younger
02:40:22
Chasegenerations of Believers I mean that's the thing though I'm looking Catholics I mean like bro like like among Catholics who have been married roughly one-third have experienced a divorce yeah but like also at the same time like you have to ask yourself how many of these Catholics
02:40:34
Chaseand how many of these Christians are like affirming like like how many of them are actually serious about that how many how many years some people lose their faith how many how many of these
02:40:44
ChaseChristians or Catholics are doing only fans or affirming lgbtq stuff or they don't actually believe in what the word says right I would assume that that demographic of people in the church
02:40:57
Chasethat are actually getting divorced probably don't really have strong conviction in their faith right sure as opposed to like like
02:41:08
Chaseyou know I I talked I talk to women about this and like some of them like you just know that they actually take marriage seriously and like they are like yes if we're getting married that's it you are not getting rid of me for
02:41:21
Chaselife it doesn't matter if you end up in a freaking wheelchair or whatever like there are people with those convictions and I think if you're somebody looking for marriage you want to find somebody who actually has those convictions and most people don't most people are like
02:41:34
Sammy Jothey're like yeah we'll get married like as long as it's fun you know and we still like no one has the hard conversations those conversations what what the long-term conversations it's like oh I'm interested in you and yeah
02:41:46
Sammy Jowe have maybe this in common but what happens when things get tough what happens when things go south like how are you going to communicate to me and how are we going to fix it what are our options and mostly the communication
02:41:59
Brian Atlasportion of it because people just say this is hard I'm done yeah nobody wants to throw their words up they don't want to do the work to keep it even even Pious religious people
02:42:10
Brian Atlasstray from their faith I mean and we have it here that says that you know I mean we got different numbers for the Christian versus Catholic you know it does seem to be the case that
02:42:22
Brian Atlasthose who are religious the divorce rate amongst the religious is lower than the general population however these are not good numbers and so for most men yeah no they're not
02:42:34
Brian Atlasand and here's the thing we live in the most subverted time in history morality is at an all-time low they're bad numbers no it's bad but as a guy you see the if the divorce rate is
02:42:45
Brian Atlas50 and you say well you have to find a really good woman I mean these men who are getting married aren't like probably do you think going in when they're getting married to these women I
02:42:58
Brian Atlascan't maybe I'm underestimating the stupidity of people getting married but uh do you think that they're actually thinking I'm probably gonna get divorced from this person they're probably going I
02:43:10
Chasethink anybody who gets yeah and gets divorced went into it thinking yeah I'm probably gonna get divorced from this person but I think a lot of people this is the thing man this is why I talk so often about not having sex before marriage bro
02:43:22
Chaselike if you can freaking date somebody for like a year or two years and you guys still like each other to the point where you want to get married without
02:43:31
Chasehaving sex after several years bro like you you know that there's a really good chance that that relationship is going to be successful I literally tell my little sister that like I was trying to
02:43:42
Shania/Gabbytell her like just wait like because they're younger so I'm like you will re if someone wants to marry you just off of your personality like never touching your body before that person really loves you yes
02:43:55
Chaseand if it's if it's over the span of like a year or two years and both of you guys go through ups and downs and like hard stuff and you still love one another without having that physical Bond yeah that's awesome unbreakable
02:44:07
Chaseyeah yeah like bro then then once you add the physical bond to that equation after marriage that is truly unbreakable when you get to know each other I mean that's what people don't do anymore they don't spend time to get to know each
02:44:19
Chaseother a lot of people go right into a lot of in a lot of people they they Rush right into sex and then they've got and there's nothing else those super intense hormones that are flowing that make you fall in love with the other person and
02:44:31
Chasethat's what the love is based off but like I I tell my friends like I've met like five dudes at my my gym here who are all divorced and I asked them about their marriages and they're like I'm like you know that they tell me they're divorced they tell me they got into
02:44:43
Chasetheir 40s and they realize like yeah you know the physical attraction it just kind of went away and I say were you guys having pre-marital sex beforehand and they were like yeah and it's like they they fell in love with these chicks because they were having sex with them and then once the physical attraction
02:44:56
Chasewore off they realized that there wasn't much there anymore and I think that's the mistake that a lot of people make which is why it's part of the reason why divorce sounds is so high okay so you're right that the more
02:45:07
Chasepremarital sexual partners you've had there's a I mean there's a whole slew of potential issues that arise not just premarital sexual partners but just premarital sex in general is going to increase the chance that somebody gets
02:45:19
Brian Atlaswell I'm I'm sort of putting them both together but um so and they've done studies on this so I don't disagree with you there that if you've have sex before marriage or have
02:45:31
Brian Atlaspre-marital sexual partners the more premarital sexual partners you've had the greater likelihood of reporting relationship and then marriage dissatisfaction greater likelihood of
02:45:42
Brian Atlasdivorce greater likelihood of infidelity so a harder time pair bonding all this stuff makes sense um but to kind of bring it back to my whole
02:45:54
Brian Atlasthing with marriage you have to also I don't have an issue with marriage from a religious point of view like that's fine however when you have the United States government involved
02:46:07
Chaseand you have it starts to get weird you have the court biases no fault divorces like she was saying yeah women can just screw women can just wake up one day and decide you know what I don't want to be married to this guy anymore I'm going to
02:46:19
Chasetake like 50 to 70 of everything and the kids and just leave yep and and divorce courts on top of that are stacked super heavily in favor of women in terms of
02:46:29
Brian Atlaseverything there's a major bias support system against men so and most most negative outcomes from divorce
02:46:40
Chaseimpact men so as a man I have to look at that and be like hmm I'm looking at the calculus and it just you know I'm doing I mean if you if you don't want to have kids
02:46:52
ChaseI'm doing the calculus if if you don't if you don't want to have kids and like you don't want either there like do you want to have kids I'm um I'm on the fence a little bit
02:47:04
Jubileeyeah I'm on the fence yeah so like I can have kids without being married though yeah yeah you could you could save that money the extra money that you saved um you're talking about the the baby the ceremony
02:47:16
Jubileethat too we're going to Vegas baby I don't know what Elvis is gone Indonesia that's really cheap Elvis is gonna marry us okay um so like you could save that money that you saved
02:47:28
Jubileeusually people would have that money to go towards a baby but yeah you could still be married um but not have kids but you can use that money to travel with your significant other I'm with you it could
02:47:40
TTS Readerstill be with you okay keep talking what you got it could still be a Dane oh my God spontaneous Alvin soon donated 200 Chase from
02:47:51
TTS Readerpurisac Christians hold a 70 divorce rate over non-christians from The Institute for family studies premarital intercourse reduces marital quality for
02:48:02
Chasejust women can we pull that up Jamie marital quality Eric can you take the uh the Pew research 70 divorce rate for oh oh
02:48:13
Chaseso he's saying Christians have a 70 divorce rate I'm calling cap on that bro we just we just pulled up statistics a second ago that said that it's it's a 20 to 25 divorce rate well that was interesting wait oh Pew research hold on
02:48:26
BridgetI think I might have it here but Eric go ahead pull it up well Chase is also talking about real Christians in good marriages not just like nominally Christian people who are marrying the wrong person truly like somebody that
02:48:37
Mariabelieves in God and when they took their vows I mean they owned I mean they're loyal to their vows so yes you're not going to walk away yes they're going to try out yeah I would
02:48:49
Chasejust say Brian for somebody in your situation I mean it's like like I I could understand why you look at it and you're like what's the point like you don't really want kids that bad you don't really care about like but
02:48:59
Brian Atlaswhere does kids enter into the Merit like what is the benefit of getting married in the context of having kids do you see the do you see the benefits
02:49:13
Brian Atlasthat's different though you can be you can be partnered with somebody and not be married I think there's more of a commitment and there's more on the line what if I'm just as fully committed to well then then why not get married
02:49:25
Brian Atlasthat's great well because some people are you religious well you know I I have a private relationship he is a man of God I'm a man of God because I could have gone for
02:49:37
Hollyme I'm not super religious so for me Merit like obviously marriage means something completely different to people that believe in God because it's a you know professing your love and friends oh it's even worse to get married if you're not religious yeah if you're not
02:49:49
Shania/Gabbyreligious there's no point that's entirely the state controlling like statistically though married men live longer than single men realistically women live longer than men let's talk
02:50:00
Sammy Joabout that but um and that's why okay married women or married men live longer because they have a woman to nurture them yeah they do and that's true married men live longer yes than single
02:50:12
Chasemen yes what about what about married men who are married to just the most annoying rebelliously oh yeah
02:50:23
Chasea bad wife of course there's what's that Bible verse we've talked about before it's it's better on the corner of a roof than with a quarrelsome wife or oh yeah then with a quarrelsome wife which is
02:50:36
Brian Atlasfast can anyone anyone get us the uh what's it called the Earth the verses for that somebody in the audience probably chat can you guys find us the verses for that one but uh yeah quarrelsome woman
02:50:49
Brian Atlasthat'll take some years off of your uh life expectancy yeah yeah yeah listen Chase I'm a businessman you know I'm a businessman because you find me at my
02:50:58
Brian Atlasplaces of business I don't sign contracts that don't benefit me and it happens to be the case that marriage is a contract
02:51:09
Sammy Jothat kind of sucks dick I must say it it sucks it's not good it's not a good one so then what if you got if if you're looking at it in terms of a business
02:51:21
Sammy Jostandpoint you can get married sign a contract and then sign a prenup so that there's no way that she can come after your money or she can do anything in terms of like Financial but you're still
02:51:32
Brian Atlasgiving that commitment if you're looking at it in terms of business prenups can be disputed then the lawyers get involved then the court case proceeds then the lawyers are billing you three hundred dollars an hour and that's five
02:51:45
Brian Atlasfigures a month and then but if you're and then there's the court fees and then you have to pay for you have to pay for if she's not making money you
02:51:54
Chasehave to pay for her lawyer too oops so Alvin Sam said Pew research divorced or separated adults 74 divorce rate for Christians thanks Rolo Tomas yo Alvin
02:52:07
Chaseyou're right um and I'm I'm not disputing that Pew research published that but like Eric scroll down I would like to know why there's a disparity between that research and other research
02:52:19
Chasescroll down right there oh [ __ ] uh yeah like that's the thing like I'd like to know why there's a difference between that research and the other research that we
02:52:31
Chasepulled up a minute ago wait and I know yeah the idea bro that Christians are getting divorced at a higher rate than like people who aren't even religious that just doesn't make those
02:52:43
Brian Atlasstats though hold on pull it back up because I think those stats are a little misleading and I just I I viewed this religious composition of divorced or separated adults
02:52:53
Brian Atlaswhat is the percentage of people who are Christian in this country because it's not looking at exactly I don't think it's looking at it's like 60 or something this is basically saying wait hold on I'm trying to think yeah so
02:53:07
Chasethey're not I'm trying to party controlling is what you're saying like they're not they're not they're not looking out what they what you're saying they might be doing which might be true is they might be looking at the total the total amount of adults divorced in America and
02:53:20
Brian Atlasthis is the percentage of it but the reality is that the majority of people in America are Christians it's not 74 of Christians are getting