00:57:31Marialost or something but it's just something with them that I know that he's just trying to Lead Me the Right Way not into only fans maybe this is just an Avenue that I took for me to realize more right just like being on
00:57:44Mariathis podcast like I definitely will be reflecting after just because it's part of growth like I had said um and that's one of the key reasons why so wait did you do BG do you do BG
00:57:56Mariacontent or it's just solo correct okay yeah give me a lot to chew on there I know I can't wait to hear more um but okay let me say really quick I
00:58:08Brian Atlasmean so and look I I guess people can identify however they want but I don't know if if the book says X
00:58:20Brian Atlasand the core tenets of the religion say do this and you don't do them can you really identify with the religion like well because then
00:58:33Mariayou don't really have identifying with a religion I'm identifying with the relationship that I've had with God and how I've grown and you know what I've gone through right so to me you know
00:58:43Mariareligion for me is more it has a lot more opinion and judgment right and you have a lot of people um telling telling us how they perceive their religion to be right that's not what I believe in God in the
00:58:55Mariarelationship and how he speaks to me on a daily basis right and so in the effort that I make to reach out or how he does it to me right so it could be signs or it could be just me thinking about him
00:59:06Mariaor you know praise and worship whatever do you read the Bible absolutely yeah okay yeah I just wanted to know so one of the things that I do is
00:59:18Marialike if I'm looking for an answer I just open up the Bible to whatever page it lands and just kind of like educate myself because there's so much and every time I go back to that page it's something different the message is
00:59:30Brian Atlascompletely different so oh here we go I see you no no it was more just the Super Chat shania's dad is Robin Crosby I wasn't no that's not I mean everybody
00:59:41Shania/Gabbysins so I understand what you're saying but there are things that you know but I feel like I don't know it's a like you said it's
00:59:52Shania/Gabbylearning yes if you acknowledge if you do believe in with the Bibles you don't have to believe in it but if you believe in what it says then you know some of the things that
01:00:03Chaseyou would be doing would go against the word of God you know right if you if you had a better opportunity in your life would you stop doing only things but hold on you said you're a nurse nurses are well compensated but you don't
01:00:15Mariaunderstand no it's not even about com I'm still a nurse and I still practice nursing and I do that because I enjoy taking care of people like that's what I do I don't it's not about paying me but you know I get I went into a corporate
01:00:27Mariaenvironment especially after covet I was highly stressful um and if they wanted you to be a yes person and I wasn't going to be that because it wouldn't be fair to my team or the patients and so are you talking
01:00:39Mariaabout the job I'm talking about like why I left you know corporate medicine and then why my whole career had okay so
01:00:49Chasego ahead I got a question for the table I got a question for the table ladies do you see a problem with men in the modern world do you feel like sorry Chase oh my
01:01:01TTS Readergoodness donated 102. in case you're forever a legend in my books global warming how about we
01:01:10TTS Readerplant trees I'm on number 58. actions speak louder than words life is about having a balance too much of anything is bad including religion
01:01:22Brian Atlast-h-n-k-u Brian your content is eye-opening hey man thank you for the uh big 100 soup chat appreciate it uh sentience by the way I've seen you do a couple hundred plus super chats just a heads up if you want
01:01:34Brian Atlaswe'll still read them in super chats but for TTS it it's all through stream Labs just FYI if you want it to be TTS just wanted to update you good to see you zantians thank you Martin
01:01:46Chaseum go ahead Chase as I was saying should we boost the TTS you think boost it like past 100 boost the T well it's at 100 boosted up to 200 maybe for Less interruptions let's do 175.
01:01:59Brian Atlasthey keep coming in well let's see a couple moments in time yeah we'll see how it plays out if it continues interrupting I'll boost it go ahead yeah so here's here's here's the question I have
01:02:10Chasewhat do we think about the modern state of man is masculinity in a healthy place in the world right now do we have enough real men are we lacking in real men yeah yes I see I see women nodding we're lacking in real men yeah yeah do we
01:02:24Chasethink that access to pornography and just an insane abundance of it is contributing to the decline of masculinity or not it's it's contributing to it I mean
01:02:35Hollythere's a [ __ ] ton of factors um but I think since covet like everything has just been propaganda this pouring that like their [ __ ] everywhere that's contributing to this but let's
01:02:46Chasehone in let's hone in on the porn thing to the point that Bridget made before to the point that Bridget made before right she mentioned how divorce rates have increased in correlation with access to pornography I think that when
01:02:58Chasedudes have access to a ton of pornography on a daily basis and they can just jerk off and and become coomb brains and there's vital life force energy is constantly sapped I think that is contributing to the decline of
01:03:11Chasemasculinity around the world yeah yeah would we would we agree with that I would agree yeah do we think that by profiting off of men being coomb brains we are helping fix
01:03:21Hollymen or harm men in the long run I don't control who purchases I mean it's harming them but it's their decision if that's what they want to spend their money aren't Men supposed to be the leaders in society
01:03:34Shania/Gabbyyes we are our women are are women adults who can make responsible decisions yeah but isn't porn the same thing as prostitution and prostitution has been around since the beginning of times I
01:03:46Chasedon't think Constitution importance is the same thing I don't think they're the same thing similar they're in a similar vein but one involves actually having sex with a woman and the other doesn't it's in the sex work category for sure but prostitution there's usually a pimp
01:03:59Hollyinvolved it's a lot less safe it's physical but sex work has been around since the beginning of the oldest professions like one of the oldest professions yes but there's many different right now it's so easily accessible because it's all online okay
01:04:11Hollyso they don't have to go like driving down Figueroa in LA and pick up a hooker or they can just go on their phone and see whoever they want everything's accessible online now too
01:04:22Sammy Joso yeah that's just the way of the world now like you can buy your groceries without leaving the house you can buy you can get your medication without leaving the house you can get your household products everything
01:04:33Sammy Joeverything's online so it's not to compare the two because obviously they're uncomparable ones a benefit has a direct correlation benefit in society
01:04:43Hollyand then another one is debatable but that's just supply and demand the demand for it is more than ever so women that are taking control of their finances their business I mean it's easy
01:04:56Hollymoney girls obviously can make money doing this much easier than any man can there's a demand for it so a lot of women are supplying it that's just how it works do we feel like we're potentially
01:05:08Hollyrobbing the future of civilization for that easy money potentially but there's a lot of [ __ ] that's making America downfall in the rest of the world so it's just a part of
01:05:18Mariait I suppose I feel like a lot of people are very lonely too so probably made More Lonely by jerking off the porn absolutely it's not something that just happened two years ago because that you
01:05:30Mariaknow only fans really blew up especially with in lieu of covet right and so but I've noticed and even being in healthcare there is alone a lot of lonely people and that's truly what
01:05:41Mariamakes everybody sick but being in this industry of I've also seen that so but yeah yeah we are you why are you looking at me like that no I'm just like
01:05:52Mariaokay you're just listening um but I do I do agree yeah we every anything that's if we do too much of anything it's not
01:06:02Mariagonna be healthy right and so we give access too much to you know porn it's not going to be healthy at all for no one and so that's when people are gonna
01:06:12Mariastop even chasing a relationship but it's super addictive support is super addictive right so like people want to stop donated 100 having recently
01:06:23TTS Readerreceived a terminal renal cancer diagnosis my relationships with God family and friends have significantly improved I sincerely hope each of you
01:06:33TTS Readerfinds the right balance in life and your relationships I think even sex work is an l Thomas the poet that was poetic thank you much appreciated Hey Thomas
01:06:44ChaseGod bless you man I'm sorry to hear about your terminal uh condition but God bless you man godspeed godspeed um hope to see you in the afterlife brother
01:06:56Brian Atlasuh where do we go from here where should we go from here okay so uh really quick you both of you have kids and both of you do only fans uh how old are your kids
01:07:07Brian Atlasmy step children are 11 and 16. oh step children okay 11 and 16 13. okay so they're kind of in the age range where it could have an impact has to some
01:07:19Mariadegree you've seen it with your children has that has there been a well you know what weighing impact as they're not bullying but I could tell you that yes in silence I know that my daughter you know she's not stupid kids are not
01:07:31Mariastupid and you know what um somebody could always take a screenshot and you know post it somewhere else and it just kind of spreads from there so I am I try to be careful but I do know that and I
01:07:44Mariathink about this too like I'm putting her in a predicament that or in a situation that she may get some negative feedback and so that's something that I'm also aware and it's just me trying to figure it out
01:07:56Chaseum so I can't you know what I would do if I were in your shoes I what would I do stop doing what I'm doing that's part of it what I would do if I were in your shoes you mentioned that
01:08:08Chaseyou have a relationship with God and that you love God I would pray to God and ask him hey Lord first off forgive me for doing this second of all please give me a path where I don't feel like I need to do this anymore so I do that on a daily
01:08:19Mariabasis yeah and as a matter of fact I mean we can talk about this offline just because it doesn't but yeah I have had even experiences with that so wait question so
01:08:31Brian Atlasyou were kind of getting into it originally what what precipitated your desire or want to start doing only fans is it was it Financial I think it was more
01:08:43Mariafinancially absolutely because I went from being in corporate medicine having a great salary to and again it was more about like my mental health and that environment it wasn't
01:08:55Mariayou know good for me so I left um and I had opportunities and different jobs but I wanted to take care of patients and started doing home health and I needed to supplement my income
01:09:06Mariaum so that's how I found out about only fans because prior to that I had no idea okay um and then you have two step children uh
01:09:18Brian Atlashave they had any issues with my content directly yeah like has there been an example
01:09:25Brian Atlaswhere they're like hey mom [ __ ] um no Jamarcus at school said that I've gone Byron he saw the yeah
01:09:37Sammy Joyeah no I've hit viral streaks on social media platforms and they haven't seen anything okay I mean he knows that I do I make YouTube videos and I stream on Twitch so I am very transparent about that obviously that is more of a PG
01:09:51Sammy Jofront um that I don't have to worry about that type of you know I mean I guess my kid could get bullied that his mom makes YouTube videos but Mom your mom's YouTube I think that's like pretty
01:10:03Sammy Jo[ __ ] cool if you ask me um so and he's like when can I have a YouTube channel can I make YouTubes um so I mean I haven't read we haven't ran into any issues personally about any
01:10:15Brian Atlasof that but we know that it could happen at any moment yeah I have a question for you chase do you think to some degree it's it's cope from men like oh you're gonna have a really tough time if you do
01:10:27Brian Atlasadult content with your life like oh guys aren't going to want to date you your children are going to have it rough but you think it's to some degree I I don't think it's wrong but part of me
01:10:39Brian Atlasthinks it's like cope because a lot of these women who do adult content some of them claim they struggled dating but like probably got they still got like a line of dudes who would be I've
01:10:51Chasenever had more options yeah I think it's to some degree it's like so I mean it depends on what it is that you're looking for right it depends on what kind of husband you want what kind of marriage you want what kind of family you want right and like I'm sure you've
01:11:04Chasegot I mean you already said you've got a million dudes in your DMs that are trying to trying to get a piece of that yeah well I understand that a lot of them are coming just for for sex for sure yeah but um nobody in the chat's gonna believe me
01:11:17Hollybut genuinely it really hasn't deterred finding somebody who is serious about dating me at all yeah so like what I would want to know Brian
01:11:29Chaselike all of the girls who are doing only fans right now I would want to know the long-term marital outcomes of all of their marriages right because I'm sure there's dudes that would love to put a ring on your finger right now yeah but
01:11:41Chaseare they good men who will stick around in the long term are they the kind of guys who are virtuous and would would you know right you're a very attractive girl but thank you you're 21 years old right now right when when people get
01:11:53Chasemarried you want a marriage that's going to last into your 40s 50s 60s 70s for sure and that's that's the part that I'm curious about like yes you're going to find you guys are beautiful women you guys are going to find guys that want to
01:12:04Chasemarry you but are they the kind of guys that are going to stick around are they the kind of guys that are solid men are you guys going to have good relationships that will last a long time that's the question that I have and as far as the whole like bullying thing
01:12:17Chasegoes that's definitely happening there's no question about that you can see it all over the internet people their kids have serious problems and then kill themselves as a result of it yeah I think that also very frequently in this world without
01:12:28Sammy Joonly fans content being a doctor too so yes it does but but however however you're pouring gasoline onto the fire I know I'm not disagreeing with what
01:12:39Sammy Joyou're saying but I'm saying that is bullying and children's ability to outright mistreat someone else is an
01:12:49Sammy Joissue and is an issue regardless of whether a parent or a family member's content is the deciding factor so is it how we're raising our children that we
01:13:01Sammy Joneed to be more focused on and making sure that you're not raising a child that is willingly walking up to someone and mistreating them regardless of what
01:13:10Sammy Jothey found or like is it that that is the main issue is raising children and not having you know key factors and key responsibilities as a parent to make sure you're treating you're raising a
01:13:24Chasechild that's going to treat other people right I agree that that's important well I I agree that that's obviously important raising raising kids so that they don't go and Bully other people however
01:13:35Hollyand it's also again when you have a you know a stick of fire and you can wave it in someone's face it's way easier it's like you're you know you're giving potential bullies ammunition there's always going to be bullies I think honing in on the only fans thing though specifically like obviously yes that's a
01:13:48Hollyfactor but like you could walk into a school with the safe the baby shirt which I have no problem with but plenty of other people would and that would be a factor for bullying as well so I think it really just depends probably more so honestly yeah
01:14:00ChaseI don't I don't think I don't think the abortion thing would be greater cause for bullying a kid than no I'm saying if I go into a place wearing a shirt I'm probably more likely to get bullied yeah it can go down to
01:14:13Sammy Jowhat you're what you're wearing to school confrontation what brands you're wearing or what brands you're not wearing even bigger I have a question it's a little bit off well it's on topic
01:14:23Bridgetbut it's a little bit of a um okay so in my opinion like I've thought about really short-term thought about only fans because I'm broke as a joke and I would never do it because I just it's just not me but
01:14:36Bridgetyou know you make a lot of money and you can make it really quick what always freaks me out and it would freak me out for you guys I mean I just met you today and it's like it bothers me like some of these creepos if they came up to you in a bar or a 7-Eleven or a Walmart you
01:14:49Bridgetcould run like hell to get the hell away from them you know what I mean so does that ever freak you out that like it's not hot guys wanking their Jank it's really scary try not to think about
01:14:59Sammy Jowho's winking their Jank but I I it is a thought that crosses my mind every time I leave my house and you have I do oh absolutely you have to but I think regardless of what you do as a female
01:15:12Brian Atlasthat's something you have to think about when you leave your house especially in today's day one question on this really quick well actually totally unrelated you said you were recovering alcoholic
01:15:23Brian Atlasdid you say that did you mention that to a show I don't think so yeah your initial message to the page was I'm a lot of weird things I'm a virgin recovering alcohol
01:15:34Brian Atlasbut you're a virgin match made in heaven recovering alcoholic wait and what else I'm a Catholic but I kind of had a reversion because when you say you're a virgin
01:15:45Chaseborn again or probably if I have never had pain in vagina so amazed are you in love with me I'm not saying I'm in love with you but
01:15:55BridgetI do plastic sorry she's like I can dye my hair disavows yeah um I mean I've done just to be totally Frank to however many million people are watching I have done pretty much everything but sex but I want to save it all now for marriage
01:16:09Brian Atlasbecause you end up bonding with the wrong person and then it takes forever to get over them how did you as an alcohol like as an alcoholic how do you not [ __ ] no no truly Ryan it's such a
01:16:21Bridgetgood question how did it not happen like you were just you had a bar you're like that dude taught I'm drunk well I'm also like kind of a [ __ ] so I didn't I've
01:16:31Bridgetonly ever kissed like 11 people only 11. well that's for me that's I suppose I've only dated seriously two guys I almost married one of them so I was not really ever a you know go kiss a random guy I
01:16:44Bridgetmean there are a couple of them one of them was at AAA actually but anyway I digress um I will say this I consider it a huge gift in my life that you know that Grace was preserved because I do want to say that for my
01:16:56Bridgethusband but one of the reasons I stopped drinking was multiple situations that I put myself in deliberately by getting blackout drunk where people I thought I could trust men I thought I could trust took advantage of me and that was a big reason that I was like I gotta get my
01:17:08Bridget[ __ ] together because yeah there's some sexual abuse sexual assault that was not cool so were you a social drinker ah everything I've had depression since I was 10. so okay I'm a lone Drinker by
01:17:21Brian Atlasmyself I drink for fun I'm awkward so I like to drink social situations so that I'm more like you know yeah because I could see like kind of like if you're an alcoholic but you just like that's like some internal [ __ ] you live out in the
01:17:33Brian Atlaswoods and you just [ __ ] drink a [ __ ] ton solo but if you're like going out when I think of an alcoholic I'm thinking someone who's going out to bars and clubs and partying and [ __ ] I mean everything it was all the above to me it
01:17:44Brian Atlaswould I don't know how you can be in those situations and not like be drunk and like find some dude who's also drunk who and hook up with him well I didn't really go to bars alone like I would drink alone but I was just at the house
01:17:57Bridgetso usually I was with people who were gonna you know take me like friends yeah and make sure that I wasn't getting like kidnapped or taken advantage of the times that I've like kissed people and I don't remember it were situations where
01:18:08Brian AtlasI was either being taken advantage of by someone I knew or I was at a bar because yeah I imagine it's hard to keep your Constitution when you're
01:18:18Bridgetblood alcohol content is like Point yeah I also think that if I went back to drinking now well how would I wear this I think that if I had ever had sex and then realized I had a drinking
01:18:30Bridgetproblem like I probably would have had sex all the time as a drunk so I think part of it is I'd never had sex so I wasn't just going to be like oh tonight's the night with a [ __ ] Rando like that was not ever the goal you know
01:18:40Bridgetgot it wait so were you in the military no okay yeah I think you I think you said you swear like a sailor I really like exposing but yeah I think
01:18:53BridgetI said I want to marry a Navy SEAL I think that's what I said oh okay you want to marry a Navy SEAL yeah okay so I have two dogs have you have you ever watched Lone Survivor okay so my dogs are Marcus Luttrell who
01:19:05Bridgetis the Lone Survivor he was a Navy SEAL Operation Red Wing 2005. and then his first and last name yeah when he's bad he's Marcus Luttrell the rest of time he's Marky Mark and then my other dog is Mike Murphy and he's the seal that went up on the Rock and called for help why
01:19:18TTS Readerdo you want to marry a seal hold on just a second 100.31 my father always taught me that a woman's Chastity must be kept for her
01:19:28TTS Readerhusband as it procures a long-lasting marriage in the eyes of the Lord ladies do you think having a positive father figure could have shaped your character and path in life hashtag Christ is Lord
01:19:40Brian Atlasokay real quick we'll go around the table on this go ahead I have a great job my dad's awesome wait is he the one that takes oh my God we need to raise we need
01:19:51TTS Readerto raise it's like 250 or something no way to have a conversation like this if this was brought up before but what do you all guys think about Merchant
01:20:00TTS ReaderSeafarer officers are we hvm full slash semi-regim and training loads responsibility and money dot to be away from loved ones are difficult and all we
01:20:11Chasewant is loyalty and respect dot P slash SNT fan of what okay let's pause for a second there's no way to have a conversation
01:20:22Brian Atlaswhile the blind is this low for the Bible yeah I should raise it to like 250 or something I'm boosting it to 200. guys so from this point on uh TTS we're boosting it to 200 just FYI just just so we could have a better flowing
01:20:36Brian Atlasconversation um the original TTS was do you have a relationship with your father was that the question I guess do you have a you
01:20:46Brian Atlasguess no like I guess that was the question I was asking you was it you one of the girls said that I don't know if it was you that her dad takes the house absolutely not
01:20:57Hollywhat the what takes her like of content for her or something no that's [ __ ] on many levels um no my my dad and I I'm very close growing up my dad's a great guy he's a religious man he was always
01:21:10Hollyvery supportive of me whatever he doesn't like what I'm doing now no father would I don't expect him to but I also you know they acknowledge the fact that I'm an adult and I'm making you
01:21:22Hollyknow enough money to set myself up for the future and as long as I'm being safe um my parents are supportive of me and love me regardless so God's love is for everyone that's what they say so okay
01:21:33Brian Atlasguys I just changed it TTS trigger is now 200 and up if you guys want your TTS red mods if you can adjust your uh spam messages in the chat to reflect that uh
01:21:44Brian Atlasthat should hopefully reduce the uh frequency if it doesn't you we should raise it again yeah I'll do it again um okay so we were going around the table really quick just relationship with your father relationship with the
01:21:56Brian Atlasfather yes I do good relationship uh yeah he's in my life still my parents are still together what about you with your rocker dad uh you passed away when I was five so I'm sorry yo can we get some rips in
01:22:08Brian Atlasthe chat for uh Robin Crosby is that his name Robin Crosby anyways good relationship with your dad yeah I love my dad I call my dad for advice all
01:22:18Chasethe time based all right absolutely she passed away Kiki what about you yeah I know Kiki's actually um okay something tells me Kiki doesn't have a relationship with her father I don't
01:22:31Brian Atlasthink Kiki does I don't have a relationship Kiki was was spawned in a Chinese manufacturing plant I hate um each dad is a graphic designer yes
01:22:42Brian Atlasokay so um for the go for the girls to do only fans how much money do you guys make like 60k a month so crazy that is insane I mean you just
01:22:53Hollystarted right two months ago what's the most you've made in the month um I made 72 one month after I had a viral video
01:23:06Brian Atlassure can I send you my venmo how much do you make per seem pressing um on a Saturday you make about 2k just to be there and then but the bulk of
01:23:17Brian Atlasyour income is from your own yeah from all my from my own only fans and then whatever else I do yeah sure but sorry I didn't mean to cut you off there you're about to say but my
01:23:30Jubileewhat about you into the mic how much do you make on only fans um I think it was like 400 because I just started per month um yeah okay
01:23:41Sammy Jouh anywhere from 10 to 20K depends on how much work I put in how much I Market myself sure what's the most in the month uh the most I made in a month was I think 50 that was when I first started
01:23:51Marianice okay um anywhere from seven to twenty and it depends on how much depends on my schedule too but I how much work I do on
01:24:03Brian Atlasa month it took some MILF okay um so between seven and 20K yeah because I made was 20. Chase how much do you make from your only fans
01:24:13Brian Atlaswant to know zero onlyfans.com whatever we we have just signed Chase for an exclusive only fans deal he's been taking pictures of your feet fake news
01:24:25Brian Atlasum he's going to be doing exercise videos in a Borat mankini okay you heard it why this stuff started what that's like if you that's how they Market their
01:24:35Sammy Jostuff like Guy Fieri just made us mainly fans account Guy Fieri what's it is I don't know what his content is going to be but they that's how they market like exclu like workout programs and
01:24:48Hollystuff yeah they have like full only fans TV now so there's a whole section where it's whole PG oh they have cookies oh maybe I could do cooking yeah um so we never got to go around the
01:25:00Brian Atlastable fully on this one the original question was are you really single what does being single actually mean so you said you're single right I'm single are
01:25:10Jubileeyou when's the last time you went on a date um you're about to say I'm actually what you're talking what okay but like talking how long have you been talking to this
01:25:23Brian Atlasfirst person that actually kind of got me into the military military um wait I thought you're not in the military but he got you into the
01:25:31Brian Atlasmilitary he interested did me in joining is he a recruiter he's he's maybe trying to seduce all the women and where are you in the OC no
01:25:42Brian Atlasunfortunately you're in L.A yeah I there's probably just a recruiter that's just like a babe just like trying to retired a ranger okay yeah so he's pretty happy so he tried okay in any
01:25:53Jubileecase so uh your wait you're talking to him yes for how long have you been like two
01:26:06Jubileetwo talking talking yes what is that what does talking mean um they actually screw your chair in closer to my posture check after we went on a date it was the first day we actually met on hinge
01:26:17Jubileeum we actually worked out together on our first date and really well after that we just talked you worked out on your first date it was pretty cool it was pretty cool it sounds like a terrible date I'm just gonna say yeah
01:26:29Jubileethat's awesome bro that's fantastic it releases your dopamine and you you know feel good after you work out yeah that'd be awesome okay so you've been talking for two three months but you're single
01:26:40Jubileeum yeah is he friend zoning you I don't [ __ ] zoning you mean I would say friend zoning yes maybe wait hold on have you guys had sex yes
01:26:51Jubileewait just one times one time did he friend zone you after that I think he's just the age Gap is a bit further how how old is he
01:27:00Brian Atlasyeah he's actually younger than my mom oh yeah I mean 25 41 no big deal wait so question um you said you guys you've been talking for two three months but you only hooked
01:27:13Jubileeup one time yes was it was that earlier on in the world yeah but you're still talking we're talking but like he is it long distance it's a little bit long distance yeah how long distance like
01:27:26Brian Atlasmedium distance relationship I don't know what I mean but see it goes yeah huh yeah around there he's in San Diego
01:27:34Brian Atlasaround San Diego okay uh okay um so you guys don't hang out that frequently then we just yeah he just messages me once in a while and then okay question so you guys hooked up the
01:27:48Brian Atlasone time you hooked up was it the workout date yeah it was after the workout day yeah have you guys have you guys met in person sense that date what was your question sorry okay have
01:28:00Brian Atlasyou met in person since that date you had your first date but you've been talking for two three months have you been on subsequent in-person meetups um we're trying to yeah so hold on wait trying to what does that mean have you
01:28:10Brian Atlasmet up with him again since the first date no but you're trying to you were trying to is it because he's busier because you're busy okay both yeah that sounds like a one-night stand to me
01:28:23Chasehe's just stringing you along that does sound like a one-night stand rip R.I.P sounds like can we get some rips in the chat sounds like he did it and he was like all right moving on
01:28:34Brian AtlasRanger Ranger okay so uh but you're still you guys how often do you talk did you do phone calls text and
01:28:46Brian Atlascall but it's like rarely maybe like every two weeks do you send the pictures no bro this is a situationship okay do you think he's sleeping with other women
01:28:57Brian Atlasum I believe so I mean I feel like Holly's like yes I mean I don't know but are you okay so probably yeah in the in the two to three
01:29:09Brian Atlasmonths that has elapsed you said first date you hooked up first date haven't seen him since have you been talking to other dudes seeing other men honestly I'm trying to focus on myself
01:29:20Jubileeum I feel like I'm at the age where maybe I could be curious about having kids and like finding someone I want to attract people and focus on myself I think that's really important
01:29:31Jubileeum I think that's another reason for me but are you tied up with rangerman um you have the ability to have me change my mind about the military because he gave me hopes about it well I'm not
01:29:43Brian Atlasinterested about your Pursuits in the military I'm interested in your relationship Dynamics with them um
01:29:53Jubileerelationship advice um that and um just overall like really good topics to talk about um especially the porn um what did he tell you about that was
01:30:05Jubileehis advice on that um it's more like the most common sense type of thing he would say the knowledge that he knows now he would want to know when he was like maybe my age for example
01:30:16Jubileeum he never he was actually married and divorced as well so no what what did he say about the whole only fans porn thing [Music]
01:30:30Brian Atlasbro he's so checked out he's now watching this um he's way too focused on himself so he's actually an actor as well so why are you pursuing some something with
01:30:42Brian Atlassomeone who lives three hours away who hasn't made been able to make time for you and in two to three months since you guys [ __ ] on the first like I just wanted
01:30:53Jubileeto give it a shot just thought it would be cool give what a shot just the The Experience what experience of him him or just the experience of someone like
01:31:03Sammy Jothat's a bit older you know sure there is still a takeaway from the from the situationship it sounds like wow yes
01:31:14Sammy Joideally in a long-term relationship this is not the respectfully not the most ideal situation but it sounds like he gave you a lot of good advice
01:31:24Chaseoverall yeah if a guy likes you you'll know um I wouldn't suggest for you and all other ladies that may or may not be watching
01:31:37Chasedespite the fact that Brian's audience is like 90 plus percent males if a guy is really into you you're gonna know yeah as long as long as as long as he's not long distance or not as long as
01:31:48Chasehe's not a [ __ ] if he's really invested in you you're gonna know he's not to like make you feel bad or anything but he's obviously not serious about this is like a woman initiates sex and a man actually
01:32:00Mariaum decides if he wants to have a commitment so he initiates a commitment a woman initiates sex yes yeah holidays
01:32:09Chasethat's an interesting sorry did you want to know that's my point I just want to clarify that for you don't hold out space in your heart for this guy he's probably not coming back around and if he does it's because he wants a quick lay and you shouldn't hold that space in
01:32:22Chaseyour heart for a guy like that yeah Roger that especially long distance yeah yeah because it's not even long distance like if I if I if I was in San Diego and there was a girl like up in Santa Barbara that I really liked I'd be
01:32:34Chaseseeing her or or I mean 100 stay it
01:32:42Brian Atlasabout it don't worry about it doesn't matter it doesn't matter well Norway even [ __ ] I mean Denmark Denmark excuse me they will yeah but what are you what
01:32:54Brian Atlasare you looking for maybe you're fine with a one-time thing or but do you want a long time relationship I think Jubilee's trying to figure out what she wants to do with her life I think my grandpa had a really big role in that part because he played
01:33:06Jubileeeveryone in my life like since I don't have a dad he played my dad he was your father boyfriend essentially because I would take him out to the restaurants that were open during the pandemic how long ago did he pass wait wait hold on she was saying he was his boyfriend like
01:33:18Brian Atlasif you said that they would go do stuff together yeah like a companion yeah yeah he was no incest yeah don't don't take it weird did you oh no no no I'm just taking it
01:33:29Brian Atlasvery literally yeah okay you're saying they would just go do yeah we got by the way guys we will read some of the soup chats here very soon um okay so you're looking for what
01:33:44Brian AtlasI'm just probably figuring myself out right now you're figuring yourself um before him what was your your last situation lasted for two and a half years
01:33:56Jubileeum I did not really like that relationship very narcissistic I was in the hospital because of him um what what do you do did he give you like he beat you up it was he got abusive actually it was actually on
01:34:07JubileeThanksgiving Day I think 2018 I believe 2018. um I wanted him to come over after his family reunion and then he did and then he I forgot what happened exactly but he
01:34:19Jubileedid get abusive he kind of choked me and I was very shocked about it what did he do like punch you or like um he pushed me on my bed um and then he talked to me after wow yeah yikes that's fine yeah that is [ __ ] and it wasn't consensual
01:34:31Chaseobviously yeah yikes well I just I just want to clarify for the chat too no boys I do not have a Danish girlfriend right now that was an exabind from a long time ago there's a lot of people that are
01:34:43Brian Atlascurrently invested in my dating East Coast girls are the best girls I'm just it's true yeah okay uh Shania you're single you were
01:34:54Gabbydating a guy what happened there um it was kind of interesting we saw a couple saw each other a couple of times he lived in Redlands so it was pretty far away
01:35:06Gabbyum and we both had very busy schedules and when we first started talking he was like Hey you know I'm really big on communication and so that's the reason my last relationship ended so I made it
01:35:17Gabbya point to be good at communication um and so after the last time we hung out he started to get majorly different we used to talk all day every day and
01:35:28Gabbythen that next day I got like two texts a day um which you know isn't major or anything but it was definitely a big difference um and so it continued throughout the week so I was like hey you know I was
01:35:40Gabbythere are you okay like I know you said communication is a huge thing so I just want to check in like are you good he's like you know I don't know something's off and so I said okay do you want to talk about it or do you want me to back
01:35:51Gabbyoff like am I is this too much for you or what's going on um and he was just like I don't know and just kept moving it along so then I think two more weeks went by same thing
01:36:01Gabbytwo texts all day every day um I mean two texts all day total um and so finally I kind of just told him I was like hey you know from my point of view this isn't feeling good
01:36:12Gabbylike this hurts this kind of sucks it feels like you're losing interest um and so he's like oh you know I'm so sorry I didn't mean to make you feel bad in all this I'm just figuring all this [ __ ] out and so I asked him I was like
01:36:25Gabbyhey is there a pot I didn't accuse him of anything I just said is there a possibility that you might have become interested in some someone else and you're not 100 sure about her so that's why you're kind of dragging me along is
01:36:37Gabbylike the second choice um and he just said no and I was like okay uh that carried on for maybe two more days and then didn't hear from him
01:36:45Chasewow wait so I'm [ __ ] I I spaced out during the first like Chase POS I know I know oh my gosh all right whatever anyways um I missed like the first third of that you were saying that you and him were
01:36:58Gabbytalking a lot and then you met up and then after you met up he pulled away uh so no we hung out a couple of times um how many times do you guys smash ah a couple
01:37:13Shania/Gabbyum he had this he had this feeling I learned my lesson one of the best dating experience if you do not have sex with them that's why I don't have sex wrong based I disagree hold on I disagree I do not
01:37:26Shania/Gabbyhave sex with them and I get so much stuff like I get so much stuff well I get like offered vacations I get like and I'm not sleeping around like are you
01:37:36Shania/Gabbysaving yourself for marriage no I'm not a virgin like moving forward um I would love to wait until I get at least engaged so she gets more vacations I have a question
01:37:48Bridgetso these guys that you're not banging are you doing other stuff with them like are they good really I don't even care them what about glowy any blowies no you don't go right to a blowy without kissing them wait wait so you don't do
01:38:01Shania/Gabbyanything with these guys and like let me buy you vacations girls they just want to like they want to get to know me so they're like oh let's go on a trip and I'm like can we just go to dinner first or something like that they start with this trip yeah and I'm like I
01:38:13Shania/Gabbydon't how are you meeting these guys are you a sugar baby seeking Arrangements I've never done a dating app in my entire life I've never been on a dating app but I do go to like events
01:38:28Shania/Gabbyyeah so like it's like entertainment parties so most of the people that I interact with are people in the industry okay so are these guys like in their like mid to late 30s 40s how old are
01:38:39Shania/Gabbythese guys um 30s yeah yeah no I'm 29 so I'm just like yo let me take you on a trip baby yeah right off the bat let's go to Mexico I'm
01:38:50Shania/Gabbylike can we go to dinner first but yeah and on but I feel like when you sleep with guys early on oh my god let's
01:39:00Chasego oh it's I think if you guys cursing the TTS as it mutes it should be that guy for stringing you along Shania you deserve to be someone's first and only
01:39:10Chasechoice not a Justin Case what do you think about that should I that'd be nice by the way her dad is Robin Crosby okay um so uh
01:39:22Shania/Gabbyyou were saying oh I was like sugar baby no no how old how old are the men who are offering you these trips one of the guys was younger than me he's like 27.
01:39:32Shania/Gabbyand you're uh 20. I'm 29. 29. I'm 29. um the other guy he's like 33 something like that chase let me ask you a question has a girl ever offered to
01:39:43Brian Atlaswithout having ever met you offered to take you on vacation about 10 or 12 times come on well they've they've met to be fair Chase
01:39:53Brian Atlasyou've had some viral clips and like I the girls will DM me being like Chris or they they'll they'll say Chase is a
01:40:03Brian AtlasGodly Man please connect me with him no I've had no women who offered to take me on vacation no I have a story on that okay you know what I had a girl offer to fly me to Minnesota but that's kind of weak you know yeah
01:40:22Brian Atlasshe should have flown herself to you yes that's a conversation like right off the bat or what no she just that's where she lived and I don't
01:40:32Brian Atlasreally want to talk much about it but she offered to fly me out to Minnesota an offer which I declined and uh I'm not going to share more but uh it's a sad
01:40:44Bridgetstory yeah do you have something you were going to say a second ago yes so about dming people on for somebody else I was interested for a while and this guy that was on The Bachelorette so I dm'd like all his family and then his
01:40:56Bridgetmom and I kind of became friends and now I live with his sister what are you still like are your odds of getting to him higher now yeah are you still waiting the ship has sailed oh
01:41:07Bridgetyeah nope the frick I want a Navy SEAL but yeah tell me about that why do you why do you want a Navy SEAL husband well could it be like a like a ranger yeah you can be a ranger I think you
01:41:20Bridgetwant somebody who's extremely effective at killing I don't want your guy yeah I think there's something I want a stone cold killer there's something very attractive in general about the military but a lot of them are soft so obviously
01:41:31Bridgetyou can't be really very soft if you're a seal because you literally drown like five times in training and there's something just very base well one masculine because it's like you have to be strong in order to survive but also you can lock a whole lot of virtue I
01:41:45Bridgetthink a lot of seals are probably actually addicted to porn which is really sad but like or alcohol which okay if you're willing to give up your life for somebody else which is what men are called to do they're called to protect their little tribe
01:41:58Bridgetthen there's something that even if you lack other virtues if you're willing to give up your life for someone to protect them it's just so heroic and beautiful and Noble and I just it's yeah plus a
01:42:09Chaseman in uniform disavow seals 28 years old Christian virgin hit her up not if you're addicted to porn
01:42:22Chaseyeah wait so deal breaker for you if they're addicted to porn well yes because that's less of that one let's see now that Omega said Omega said sorry to cut you off Omega said she wants someone more masculine than her do you
01:42:34Chaseagree with that I was told that I have a very transitional face so oh that's a rough insult do you feel like you have do you like your uh masculine energy at all probably a little bit probably
01:42:47Bridgetbecause I have daddy issues but oh how do you think that correlates those daddy issues well I think that if you have to learn young to stand up for yourself and you spend a lot of your childhood in fight or flight mode it's hard to get
01:42:59Bridgetout of that so I think I'm still like when I go to a restaurant I always have to face the door because I need to be able to see if like an active shooter comes in so I'd love to be with a good man the reason I say I don't want a man who's addictions porn is because I dated
01:43:10Brian Atlasa guy who you know God bless him but he was sick and it just makes it very hard for them to love you well one point of clarification yes sir so being addicted to porn is one thing but what about
01:43:21Brian Atlassomeone who watches it occasionally is that too a deal breaker for you I mean that would make me pretty crabby but no if they watched Holly's porn honestly
01:43:31Bridgetrespect if it's always fun exceptions no no respect the porn I mean any addiction is an illness right and like we can go with nothing personal
01:43:41Brian Atlasagainst you it's fine absolutely Haram go to Costco but I want my future husband to watch my part so wait question for you though so um and
01:43:53Brian AtlasChase was kind of asking you this if you felt as if you were a bit more masculine um you kind of listed all the things that
01:44:02Bridgetyou want in a partner but do you think that the guy that you want he wants you well that's one of the reasons I stopped drinking is because I realized like I really want a good man I don't want to
01:44:13Bridgetrepeat the cycles of abuse that my siblings and me experienced so I had to look in the mirror and say okay I'm a [ __ ] show right now like I'm putting myself in really destructive situations
01:44:23BridgetI almost did marry the wrong man once and I dated another guy seriously and I just thought I'm not attracting the right person to myself and I'm clearly not doing the work on healing to be
01:44:35Brian Atlasattractive to the right person okay that's fair yeah um well the point of clarification does the will you only date a Navy SEAL no or a guy in the military no I only date a
01:44:46ChaseNavy SEAL a Green Beret or a ranger or a para jumper what is it in the rescue jumper what is like the special forces or whatever in the Marines Force Recon yeah is that what they're calling yeah I think there's just something very
01:44:58Chaseattractive and masculine about a soldier but it's on the Coast Guard what is that do they know if they have guns they have a special actually no they do there was that video a while back them like pulling up next to that submarine that was oh that I saw that I'm pretty sure
01:45:12Chasethat was coaching did you guys see that video of the rescue guys it's a crazy video does the one of the Air Force do they have a pair of rescue jumpers okay they like they like attach to like SEAL
01:45:24Brian AtlasTeams or Green Beret teams they're like like rescue dudes that are special operations trained is there another Branch they're mean what is National Guard is that they have they have Green Berets in the National Guard okay from
01:45:37Brian Atlasthe Army all right space for Special Operations what do they have one so so okay going back to you has there been another guy in the picture
01:45:46Shania/Gabbysince no it's nothing yeah okay Gabby what about you um I'm single what was the question I'm single and like are you actually single
01:45:57Shania/Gabbyoh um I go on dates kind of but I just started going on dates how many dates have you been on in the past Fortnight so that's 14 days I just
01:46:09Shania/Gabbywon yeah okay okay all right wait so okay you said guys were messaging you saying I want to take you on vacation well these are people that I've met that I know like
01:46:19Shania/GabbyI've been I've been to events with them around them a lot of times and they're like oh yeah show of hands at the table
01:46:28Brian Atlashere who has received a DM offer to either be flown out to Miami or Vegas or some other location is it like you've never talked to this person a day in
01:46:40Chaseyour life is this like you've never talked in general just in general and I'm married to him now oh wait that's how you met your current husband have you guys ever been invited to fly out to
01:46:51ChaseDubai no not yet not yet because it works it'll probably happen all right so so some like shake from Dubai hits you up and he's like yo girl I'll pay you 300
01:47:03ChaseGrand to come out here and just do the nastiest most horrible things that should never even be spoken about um absolutely Haram would you do it 300 Grand uh it depends on what he wanted me
01:47:16Hollyto do I guess but also I would fear getting kidnapped if I was all the way in Dubai so I don't know if it's worth it for the trip but um I mean I have friends that have done it and they came back a little traumatized but a whole lot richer so at least they came back
01:47:28Brian Atlasalive though because you know if somebody's desperate like that's who they go for you know putting a dollar amount to your trauma like wait let's talk a little bit about your husband so
01:47:37Sammy Jouh he slid into your DMs no um so actually I slid into his DMS um my sister was streaming on Twitch at the time and so was he so they met each
01:47:48Sammy Joother through that my sister's a twitch streamer uh yeah she is is she anyone like notable or not big smaller okay yeah um I mean she's a great person but she's
01:47:58Sammy Jonot huge on Twitter yeah yeah okay um so they were playing together he uh playing video games and he was an ambassador with bodybuilding.com at the time so I reached out to him for fitness
01:48:10Brian Atlasand training and you've got great vascularity by the way I'm just noticing the bicep thing congratulations thanks okay um um
01:48:23Sammy Joso yeah so I slid into his DMS it was like a New Year's resolution thing I was like hey can you help me with a training program like personal training stuff like that so I received the training program and that was pretty much it it
01:48:35Sammy Jowas strictly just that we actually did stop talking for a couple months but I was still you know using my plan and my program and then we reconnected and then at the time I was living with my parents I just graduated college and really
01:48:47Sammy Jodidn't have much tying me to Philadelphia so he that's kind of when we were like all right what is this here but I guess flashback I think it was
01:48:58Sammy Jolike June he was like hey I'm going to be in Boise Idaho for the bodybuilding fit or bodybuilding.com fitness expo I want to fly you out that was the first time we met
01:49:09Sammy Joso he flew me out I stayed with them at the house bodybuilding.com had a house for the ambassadors so I stayed with them that was when we met for the first time and then after that he was flying he had a lot more time freedom for his
01:49:22Sammy Jojob so he was flying out to Philadelphia at least once a month to come and see me and then he flew me out to Vegas to do the Olympia Expo so we worked the Olympia Expo together with
01:49:33Chasebodybuilding.com and then right after that I moved to California how soon after how soon after meeting him did you know that you were interested in him and possibly wanted to marry him um very soon because we had what are we talking
01:49:45Chasehere well she she udmed him right I DM Tim it was for professional training yeah so like I asked her about that before the show I was like were you interested in him I was attracted to him
01:49:57Sammy Jothe the literal sentence I said to my sister was what nerds are you playing video games with and she showed me his Instagram and I said he's not a nerd and
01:50:07Chaseum yeah so I mean I attracted to him but how soon after meeting him did you know that you wanted to marry him I would say maybe how when I wanted to marry him like where you were like yo I could spend the
01:50:19Sammy Jorest of my life with this person we stopped talking for a couple months so I would say maybe six months after six to eight months because that's when we started talking more about like the
01:50:30Sammy Joconversations that we were having were so in depth and I was 21 at the time so he was like listen if you want to go out and you want to party and you still have this desire to be young he's like then
01:50:42Sammy Jothis isn't going to work but he's like what do you want in life and I knew I wanted a husband I knew I wanted children and I knew I wanted to build a family grow a family and build my career so that's kind of the conversations we
01:50:54Brian Atlaswere having from the jump I do have to move things along real real quick here okay so uh we should get the super chats at some point yeah I want to as soon as I get through this I'll get to the soup chats
01:51:06Mariaum so what's single single but are you dating when's the last time you've been on a date um actually just the last guy that I dated it was like a year and a half ago really no dates how many dates have you
01:51:17Mariabeen asked on I had asked all the time I mean and here's the thing but I also I don't put myself out there like I should right and so and I think I do
01:51:28Mariareject a lot of um opportunities or something just because I mean just not being in the mood I I feel like for me can I also say I want to have an authentic connection with somebody and
01:51:40Mariasocial media is not the dating world for me I don't go on social media to date people so when I meet somebody I want to like a organic meeting and I think that's what would intrigue me more
01:51:52Mariaum and so I don't everything for me is just social media right now and to be honest I'm still trying to figure out a couple things um and so that's another reason why I don't put myself out there yet what are
01:52:04Mariayou trying to figure out me what does that mean can we talk about that later sure next question sure there's so much I mean there's there's a lot right yeah let's move on awesome
01:52:17Brian Atlasand then really quick have you been dating at all and yes no I went on like an accidental date with the 44 year old guy from AAA Good Times okay all right guys we are finally going to get to uh
01:52:29Brian Atlassome of these uh super chats we have uh just two here from streamlabs we have will bill here with e50 uh yo greetings from Down Under Brian and everyone else on the panel my wife of seven years left
01:52:41Brian Atlasme this week due to my not so great battle with cancer in my ass I don't think I've processed my feelings yet I'm wondering what the girls wait can you bring that back about this can
01:52:52Chaseyou bring that one back up why what's up what's up I I didn't get the chance to read it I wanted to see the end of it thank you answered his ass I don't think I've processed my feelings yet I'm wondering what the girls think about
01:53:03Brian Atlasthis I think he's trolling um but uh oh you know what though this is actually kind of a good question we can ask what if it is um
01:53:13Brian Atlashe's not joking she's a [ __ ] yeah so I I actually read I was reading an article about this recently um there was a woman I was going to react
01:53:23Brian Atlasto it at some point but a woman recently was Under Fire because she went on like a publicity spree bragging about the fact that she broke up with her
01:53:33Brian Atlasboyfriend who had recently had uh I think he had cancer she said it was inconvenient oh do you know what I'm talking about yeah yeah and she she got
01:53:45Hollyall these news articles published or did interviews and uh you read the article yeah I just think it's insane that you would want that publicized like if you're gonna be a
01:53:56Brian Atlasshitty girlfriend and break up with your boyfriend for having cancer at least keep that [ __ ] to yourself Jesus Christ I agree I agree with you and also just imagine like it's one thing to be broken
01:54:08Brian Atlasup with if you're dealing with something like that I mean to me that's I think it's understandable if you've been dating someone and you've all of a sudden been
01:54:19Brian Atlasput into the caretaker role I can succeed I can understand someone wanting to end the relationship but then to go on and go public yeah with it and then further adding to your to the this
01:54:32Brian Atlasperson who's either struggling through cancer recovering from cancer heartbroken yeah and then it's now public it's fine it's really [ __ ] up so and she's an idiot as well she's going to be known for that for the
01:54:44Chaserest of her life yeah dude if she wants to find a solid husband she just shot herself in the foot that's that's amazing she's such a shitty person sickness
01:54:54Brian Atlasyikes have any of you here ever broken it off with a guy because maybe he broke his coccyx maybe no I would take care of him
01:55:04Chaseyou would take care of them yeah okay that's my I got neck pain what's up what if what if you were what if you were with a guy and like he became paralyzed well